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Torn
I'm falling for a really good friend of mine, Chris. He likes me also and we talk about dating.. we've kissed and gone on a few dates already. In June I'm moving back home to texas for college and I was wondering if it's really a good idea to date him when I'm leaving in 3-4 months. I think I know the right answer, but I'm torn and curious as to what everyone else thinks.
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If it's love, I'd say go for it. I think both of you can make a long distance relationship work. You'll only be gone for 3-4 so it isn't too bad. Don't let this pass you by, he could be that special guy you've been waiting for!
♥ Krissy
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date him...if its "love" its worth it.
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have fun while it lasts
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if your going back home to texas only for a few months take him with you make it a road trip but if you are staying there permanitly then dont make the move of going out with him long term relashonships dont usually work out
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Hi Sweetie,
I do not see anything wrong with it. However, if you have a phobia of falling deeply in love with him and then having to leave him and you think you will never get better from not seeing him well then no. But that is too drastic. However, there is nothign wrong with dating a persona nd having fun and being together even if it is only for 3-4 months. However, just make sure he is aware that you will have to leave. Maybe HE is the one with that weird phobia. Otherwise, it is really okay to date him.
Hope it turns out the way you want it to! ~Blessed Be...
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It's definitely a good idea to date this guy! What can happen? Only that you are moving will be the worst thing, since he is not moving with you. You two sound like you should be together and when you do move, start a long distance relationship and definitely stay in touch with him! I know most long distance relationships don't work but it could work for you if you just keep on communicating with him. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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No one can really tell you if we think you should or not. You just have to follow your heart. If you think you can have a strong trusting relationship while your at college then go for it!
~Brina~
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see long distance realtionships are always hard but if you tell him to call you and he doesn't it (in my opinion) would hurt more than if you were living near him. besides girl...ur in college..new people await!!
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I wouldn't go Out with him...yOu`ll fall m0re and m0re in love and develop irriplaceabLe feelinqs..then, when you have t0 leave all of it will be sacrificed. See, if he wa q0inq with y0u it'd be a different st0ry...good luck =)
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I think you should date him. Even though you are going to be leaving, if you work hard now to build a strong relationship, you guys wont have any problems when you are seperated. That way even though you are seperated, you will still have him to look forward to seeing when you visit home. Hope my advice helps! Let me know how everything turns out!
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Aww, that is so cute. I love hearing about friends that turn into more. I say you should totally date this guy like seriously. I mean the worst thing that's going to happen is that you're moving. If you are still together during that time y'all can talk about doing a long distance relationship. They can totally work if both parties are willing to put forth the needed effort. Why let this pass up? Just make sure you talk a lot about this before things get serious and make sure he's accepting of it. Communication and comprimising is key. Best of luck! :)
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