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uh, i'm 15, loud, proud, and pleasently plump.
advice
14/f
Last thursday I was talking to the guy I like on the phone and I think I heard him say Will you go Out with me but he said it hecka quite so I wasnt sure then I was just like what I cant hear u and I thought he said will you go out with me again but he said it so softly i wasnt sure... so i was just quite... then all of of sudden hes just where are you at and completely changed the subject... I am confused... I want him to ask me out right and now im scared cause if he did ask me out he is bably be too scared to say it again... and I need a way for him to do it... but then if he just said something else and I didnt hear him correctly I dont want to be like yea i wanna go out with you cause that would be embarresing thats the reason i was just quite... but now as i get to thinking maybe i want him to ask me so badly im hearing things...if that makes any sense please help...I was thinking of trying to get who he likes out of him but when i asked him today all he could say was i dont know...
what do i do?
ask HIM out....
Ok so heres the deal, out of 100% my family and i might have moved and the percentage of us actually moveing would be 5%. I dont know why but i really really want to get out of NY. If we did move it would be to michigan cuz of my dad work. I want to move so i can meet new people and get away from all of my crappy " friends" though i would miss my family here in NY a lot. I told my parents it would be cool if we moved but of course were not. I really dont know wut im asking i just needed someone to give me there opinion.
huh???
Okay well usually at night at like 12:30 or 1 in the morning on fridays or saturdays i walk to see my boyfriend cause thats like the only way i get to see him..cause he's not really suppose to be any females.. but like i been doing this for 7 months.. and last night i got caught by the cops for curfew i was salty as hell... and my mom didnt really care that i went out that late but she thought i was driving round with friends not walkin the streets but i guess if i was her i'd be mad too cause i live in a bad neighborhood.. but anyways like i said thats the only way i'd get to see my boyfriend and i wanted to be with him really bad last night cause my birthday and valentines day is on monday and i wont see him there... so i keep worryin to like what if we dont see eachother? he said he wouldnt break up with me.. but im like a big worrier.. so i need advice on what you think do you think i should chance it tonight and try and see him.. i mean i know no guy is worth goin to jail for or anything.. but i jus wanna be with him more then anybody.. and i've had problems at home and like i can only talk to him and i feel like i need to..and i like talkin to him in person instead cause he comforts me more then talkin on the phone..Much luv i rate high and sorry so long
.....dont risk it...
Its all started I was freind with this guy, let say his name is Jo, We talk few time and talk online, we started to get know eacther and becoming freinds, I start opend up little and treating him like my freind. and sometimes he be little goffy in class and funny, I like to pick on him and tease. for fun, but he don't do it back. only to other girl that pick on him and stuff. Maybe he just like be my freind. later he started like watching me and lookign at me couple of time for some reasons. when were working on a play, I know he like me as a friend but problem is i feel like i am falling for him, and i don't want that. i want be freinds and talk. but he seeem blew me off sometimes. like he be online for hours, but sometimes he not really on long becouse i am talking to him, but thing is i know he maybe buzy stuff like that. but thing is everytime i friend with a guy I thinking bout having a bf. but i know that i can't make him like me i not doinng that. but i need some thoughts to htink bout not thinking bout him that way.. pls help, i try relex my mind today and listen to my heart but my mind seem to controll me..
amanda
why? why?! WHY!?!?!?!?!
ok ive been "going out" with this guy "Adam" for about 3 years now, and i am truelly in love with this kid. You wouldnt believe. He has told me that he loves my, and all that jazz, but the outher day, he told me he waas falling for another girl. Not as hard as he fell for me. he was all like " i just thought you should know, and i still love you more than anything, and i still wanna hang out, because you are the only girl i have fun with" My question is, should i really be woried, and another thing is i dont know how to talk to him about it. I rate high!
if he really loved you...you would be the only girl that would ever be any where near perfect for him.
hello!! okay in my school there is this girl who thinks she is al that because her dad is "in the mafia" she has to have been like "my dads so busy cuz hes in the mob" or "im a mafia princess becuz my daddy is in the mafia". so the other day she sid "my mom was showing me this picture and she was pointing to all these guys and she was like 'hes in the mafia, and him, and him, and him too....' and then i asked who they were and my moms like "oh theyre your uncles" so i was thinking SHUTUP! in my head but instead i just said "right..the mafia" and she gave me this look like "omg" and like a really snotty look!! but i mean she ALWAYS talks about her dad being in the mafia! its so annoying she has to have said it like 20 times already im NOT kidding, i sit right behind her. I live in chicago illinios, preferably oak lawn, are there really mafia?? what should i say to her? what if she gets her dad and her dads mob to kill me or my famlily? thats why im scared to tell her 'honey, keep dreaming' or something but im getting really mad and i want her to shutup what shouldi say?! thanks for anyone who answers!
tell her to get over herself.
Hey ya'll!
I am going up to New york to see the Broadway play Wicked in March. I became totally obsessed with the play and I bought the sound track, made a collage of pictures of the cast and the cast in the play. But like a week ago I found out, I am not going to see the original cast. I still want to go see it, But why did they change the cast? Its a brand new broadway play...why?
Just wanted to know & thanks... and I rate!
xo0x
because the original cast played in december and january. So they would get a break or maybe go to another state. Dont worry, the play either way was awsome!
i used 2 always see matthew in school and hes always stare at me and smile. then i met him and he was friends with my boyfriend and whenever my boyfriend would go to the bathroom matthew would say mike if i was you i wouldnt get up your girls kind of cute i wanna sit with her..so it was sort of weird.. all the time in school he always says hi to me and yesterday i was in lunch and hes in the same one but i was walkin out of the caf to go to the bathroom and he was walkin in and like hugged my hips with like one hand and was like hey beautiful where are u going.. then later i was walkin by and he said hey and i said hi and kept walking and he was like how come you always walk away from me? so i stayed and he was like call me tonight if you want to hangout.. do u think he lykes me
yes
okay..well there is this boy in my class named "Collin" and collin and me are best friends..and we tell eachother everything..and well he tells me that he likes some else..but he cant tell me right now..and he and me always flirt..and all my friends think i like him and he likes me..the problem is i dont think i like him..i used too..but i just cant figure out my feelings at the moment..i mean..should i try to tell him that i might have feelings for him..or dont tell him at all..and does it seem from this thing..that he likes me?! i need help! thanks! xo
talk to him.
I'm falling for a really good friend of mine, Chris. He likes me also and we talk about dating.. we've kissed and gone on a few dates already. In June I'm moving back home to texas for college and I was wondering if it's really a good idea to date him when I'm leaving in 3-4 months. I think I know the right answer, but I'm torn and curious as to what everyone else thinks.
Thanks, I rate.
date him...if its "love" its worth it.
How do I dumb my bf without being mean about it?
"Its not you its me. Lets just be friends." He'll hate you either way.
one of my bestfriends just called me to tell me that like one of my bestesteset friends house is on fire..she knew this because her dad is a firefighter..no one knows where my friend is and im startin to freak out..we're doing the paper together and im hoping shes ok.would it be nosey to drive over there?
Signed,
Freaked out Friend
No! do it now!!! GO GO GO!!!
there's this guy that i like ALOT and he knows. well he tries to make it not akward by talking sometimes like in a class and stuff. well, all my friends tell me to talk to him online, but im such a chicken! i have talked to him online and had good convos probably 3 times out of the last 3 weeks. yeah, i know, lame! well i don't know what to talk about! also, what are some good ways to strike up convos? and he's not the kind of guy to talk about like what his hobbies are and whatnot... that's just dorky. so thanks in advance! :-)
just talk to him...about anything...its really not that hard!
but last night i was messing around with my friend's bf. he's my friend too, and it wasn't anything sexual, it was just dancing kinda kinky...and these wierd stalker friends of hers told her (the girl with the bf) and i dont know if shes mad at me or not...i asked her, and she said she wasnt...but how can i know for sure? was what i did wrong?
yes.
Im head of heels for this boy (you honestly couldnt even imagine). He's absolutly perfect in every way imaginable. Well almost.. he's not brad pit (lol) but his personality shines through and makes him beautiful. What's my problem? He introduced me to his best friend who is equally wonderful.. and he is brad pit (if you catch my drift). Im not dating either one of them because Im not allowed to date. But it was sort of understood that him (the first boy) and I were together. But this best friend of his has jumbled my heart. I've fallen for both boys in completely different ways. Should I choose one or leave them both to save their friendship?
You shouldn't play with their emotions. If you play with them like that...you'll only hurt them. So...if you really "love" them, as you say you do, decide which one you "love" more...and dont assume that you are the only one who knows what love is.
If you're an advicenators columnist then maybe you've see this question. It was about this girl who is 2-1/2 months pregnant with this guys baby and she claims to want him alot. I wrote to this person that no guy is worth it no matter what his excuses are. (this is assuming the girl is still in high school you understand) I gave her information on where to get more help and advice, including a website and phone number. Was that the right thing to do?? I'm really lost and unsure.
you did the right thing.
There's this guy I like I mean a lot he sits next to me in all the classes we have together (which is most of them 2) and were like really good friends And I asked him out he said yes!But he likes this other girl on and off! But what i've heard is he likes me more and now he hates her! But they still talk (like friends)and when i'm around him it feels like were just friends! How do I make him mine, and make him like my real bf?
Okay, I will help you out here. Listen carefully, just ask him how he feels, and if he says something that you know isn't true...dump him...I know that sounds hard...but it'll be for the best.
*All my friends say I'm cute, but I think I'm ugly. They've all had boyfriends and I haven't. I'm 13 and in 7th grade, I've never been kissed or anything my little 11 year old brother already had his first kiss and he was making-out with the girl. I don't know what to do. I sort of guess I'm just ugly. But I can't take it. What can I do? It's tearing me apart it makes me feel unwanted.*
ok, dude, i'm almost 16 and i've had one bf and never been kissed.
there is nothing wrong w/ u.
and u shouldn't be dating anyway.....
My friend, Angel, never liked my boyfriend, Wyatt. Wyatt is my best friend, even now that we broke up. Now Angel won't let me have anything to do with Wyatt because we aren't going out. Angel tells Wyatt to get lost because i don't like him, which isn't true. They're both good friends. What should I do?
sounds like angel likes you.
talk to both of them.
i have a big butt and i kinda get made fun of my people and i wish my butt wasn't that big cuz its really noticably big and its hard to get certain kinds of pants. what exercises can i do to make my butt smaller? suggestions would be great thx
squats.