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Confused


Question Posted Saturday February 5 2005, 11:39 am

*All my friends say I'm cute, but I think I'm ugly. They've all had boyfriends and I haven't. I'm 13 and in 7th grade, I've never been kissed or anything my little 11 year old brother already had his first kiss and he was making-out with the girl. I don't know what to do. I sort of guess I'm just ugly. But I can't take it. What can I do? It's tearing me apart it makes me feel unwanted.*

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LiSaxOBaBii answered Sunday February 6 2005, 11:09 am:
Nobody is ugly. There's beauty inside everyone. Maybe you just haven't found the perfect someone. Trust me, I'm in 8th grade. We're too young to actually fall in love. A boyfriend we have now is most likely not going to be with us till we are married. The real dating starts in high school, so don't be in any rush.

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houdini07 answered Saturday February 5 2005, 8:35 pm:
ok, dude, i'm almost 16 and i've had one bf and never been kissed.

there is nothing wrong w/ u.

and u shouldn't be dating anyway.....

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happyboy7122 answered Saturday February 5 2005, 5:09 pm:
ok frist i am 13 andmy sn is skatepunk7122 and just im me and we will talk

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Peachgirly answered Saturday February 5 2005, 2:04 pm:
don't worry....that special guy will appear in your life someday but you just haven't met him yet. Also never think that you are ugly because everyone is beautiful or cute in their own way like by your inner and outter looks and personality. You need to have confidence in yourself. also there are many people who haven't had their first kiss or boyfriend yet like me for example cuz everyone is different. also always remember this... always love and accept yourself for who you are. <3 Peachgirly

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xpianogirl89x answered Saturday February 5 2005, 12:31 pm:
Oh no hun! Don't think that for a second.. You're only 13, I know you don't feel young anymore but you have plenty of time.. It's better if you wait for it because then it's so special. In my own beliefs, no one is ugly. Everyone has something that makes them beautiful and you do too. I know exactly what you're going through so if you need to,IM me anytime.. but remember you're not unwanted and definitely not ugly at all! Soon you'll find someone who thinks you're perfect just the way you are! :)

Hope I helped!
~Lana

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Karen answered Saturday February 5 2005, 12:20 pm:
Hey, don't make yourself think that you feel unwanted and are ugly because then your self esteem and confidence will drop and guys don't like that. Don't worry about it, you will find the right guy one day. Some teenagers haven't been kissed yet and some have. Everyone is different and you will get your first kiss one day. The only thing you can do now is if you find a guy that you are interested in, start talking to him and get to know him better. This will help you feel not "unwanted". Hope I helped :)
-Karen

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sunshine1030 answered Saturday February 5 2005, 12:19 pm:
you're 13, you have PLENTY of time for your first kiss. and just because you've never had a boyfriend does NOT mean you're ugly. i'm sure you are a very pretty girl, and any guy would be lucky to have you. i didn't have my first kiss or boyfriend until i was 16, and most of my friends had already at least kissed a guy, if not done more with them. i know it's probably hard for you being the only one without a boyfriend, but just be patient. it will happen, and when it does, you'll realize that it's not a big deal that you didnt' have a boyfriend when you were 13 when all of your other friends did. if there's a guy you like, then maybe you could start talking to him, maybe ask him to hang out, and who knows, maybe he likes u too and then maybe he'll ask out! just be patient, and have fun! good luck, and i hope this helped.

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xosweetiepiexo answered Saturday February 5 2005, 12:14 pm:
aww... don't worry... the right guy will come along and you'll be really happy... maybe try and be more outgoing around guys so this way they won't care about your looks and they will care about how sweet you are

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emaleekate answered Saturday February 5 2005, 12:11 pm:
maybe your too good for all the guys:0) i bet ur not ugly its just you havent met the right person and thats cool- maybe u should go flirt and find that mr. first kiss ;0)

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