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ok im thinkin of having my boyfriend and 2 other friends who are also a couple, come over to watch a movie or 2 tomorrow. i think we wanna do a comedy and then romance. any ideas? 14/f

hmm.. i think you should watch a scary movie first like any kind of scary movie...then watch like a cute movie thats like funny and sweet like..the wedding singer with adam sandler and drew barrymore! haha i love that movie

I wanna be the very best
Like no-one ever was
To catch them is my real test
To train them is my cause
I will travel across the land
Searching far and wide
For each Pokemon to understand
The power that's inside

Chorus
Pokemon! (Gotta Catch 'em)
It's you and me
I know it's my destiny
Pokemon!
Ooh, you're my best friend
In a world we must defend
Pokemon! (Gotta Catch 'em)
Our hearts so true
Our courage will pull us through
You teach me and I'll teach you
Pokemon
Gotta catch 'em, gotta catch 'em all!
Yeah
Gotta catch 'em all!

Every challenge along the way
With courage I will face
I will battle every day
To claim my rightful place
Come with me, the time is right
There's no better team
Arm in arm we'll win the fight
It's always been our dream

Chorus
Gotta catch 'em all!!!!!!

-SIMON

lol wow blake that was...amazing:-) thanks for that

heyy everyone. ok i was wondering if a guy is 18 years old and your 15 is it illegal to go out as boyfriend and girlfriend? because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out because its illegal. thanks yall!

is this for you or a friend cuz it sounds like your a guy trying to ask out a guy look -because theres this really hott college guy and i really like him a lot but hes like i cant ask her out-?? confusing post me back and explain it pleasee

okay, so "my friends" birthday is coming up and she promised herself when she was 9 that when she turned 16 shes gonna commit suicide. i dont no what to do. please give me some advice that i can tell her to stop her before its too late.

-birthday girl

dont do it

well i drink sometimes and its fun! all my friends think its not right and they r worried bout me but all my high school friends dont think it is bad! i mean its fun doing it but none of my friends will do it wit me and they dont want me to drag them into it and it sucks but then i get sad when they tell me that it worries them. but i jsut wanna have fun!wut should i do?

signed,
drinker!

well when you said " your high school friends" it seems like maybe your too young to be drinking and thats why your friends are like that....i dont want to tell you how to live your life but you cant really make your friends want to do something that can harm you or your friends. maybe you should stop the drinking because there are alot more things funner than that:0)

hey dis is shelby ur cousin! well anyway i have this guy friend and he is soo nice and sweet and i really like him but hes going out wit my friend! and i went out wit him but that was summer and i didnt really lik him and i really didnt give him a chance but now i like him like a hole bunch! wut do i do??

hey shelbs! talk to him about it but maybe just wait it out and after they break up or whatever cuz if you go out with them right after they break up that will make the friend mad. maybe you could just go and talk to the friend and say you kinda miss him but you dont want to take him away from her? i dont know thats a toughy! hope i helped sry babe!

ok, i think this is going to sound really dumb, but i may as well ask it anyway. im 14/f.
well, im going out with this guy, we've been going out for nearly a month now, and he's my first proper boyfriend, and i know im the most serious he's had.
anyway, we're going to watch a movie in a couple of days, and some of my mates and some of his are coming too. the thing is, when we've been out before, we've been out in town, in the park, ive been to his house and things like that, so its not really the most romantic of settings, and i havent kissed him properly yet. i mean, we're fairly comfortable with each other and stuff, thre just hasnt been the right time to kiss him. and ive never kissed a guy before. so, any tips on how to handle the back row of the cinema? any advice would be appreciated. thanks

first off... dont do anything your not comfertable doing. thats just awkward for you and him and his mates. if your friends or his friends or goin..maybe u should wait whatever works for you i dont really wanna tell you how you should have ur date but just have fun

*All my friends say I'm cute, but I think I'm ugly. They've all had boyfriends and I haven't. I'm 13 and in 7th grade, I've never been kissed or anything my little 11 year old brother already had his first kiss and he was making-out with the girl. I don't know what to do. I sort of guess I'm just ugly. But I can't take it. What can I do? It's tearing me apart it makes me feel unwanted.*

maybe your too good for all the guys:0) i bet ur not ugly its just you havent met the right person and thats cool- maybe u should go flirt and find that mr. first kiss ;0)

i am in seventh grade and i am am taking algebra. im not doing so well. its a hight shcool credit class and i have like a 77. thats not good. i get to add seven points because im taking it before high school and when i add seven points thats my grade for my gpa but i would like to be making a 90 or above atleast with the seven. i try so hard. like i feel confident and i check over my work and it all seems right but i alway get stuff wrong like i always get 70s on thye tests. and i hate it. today we had 20 minutes to do a really hard 6 question quiz. it so wasnt enough time. i didnt even get to answer two questions. but i know for a fact i got the bonus right so the highest i can make is a 72. i am stressing out so much. i try i really do i need to bring up my grade. right now were learing about systems of eqautions and stuff. ill have a test sometime next week and ill need to geta 95 or above to satisfy myself. i need to bring up my grade. can some help me learn to ace theese thests and quizs??? i really hate algebra!! please can you help??

no matter what, if your in an advanced class-even if ur in highschool it adds 7 points. however those 7 points dont show up when you go to colledge. like when theyre lookin to accept you, they only see the report card grades...the 70s. i was in algebra- and sucked at it so i swapped down to pre al *8th grade now ppl* and im making like 101s on report cards so i think you should go to a lower thing if ur not doin well in algebra

tommorow at school we'll have to do a run for 12 minutes and i have a soar throat. if i run for that amount of time my throat will taste like blood and i dunwant to make it worse so what can i do to fix my soar throat?

tell your coach or whoever u have a sore throat. theyll understand

I have dark hair on my arms and I wanna bleach it. Do I sue regualr bleach like the stuff for clothes or what?

use jolen or sumthing it makes the hair on ur body the color of your skin. its like 8 dollars at drugstores

i liked this guy and all of my friends knew about it. i was talking to my friend one day and she said that he had a girlfriend and today i was asking my friend who she liked and she said that she was going out with the guy that i like. i'm really mad but i dont know if i should tell her.

ya id be mad

Okay im DESPERATE for a good Eyeliner and a good Foundation, the liquid one, the ones I wear ALWAYS come off within 30 minutes, and its so annoying! and they smell bad too! I really need help!!

you can get good stick eyeliners at orgins or mac, good liquid eyelinders are lancome thingys idn what there called but they work good and foundation a really good onne is aquasmooth u get at department stores lol hope i helped

You know those things like "6 Reasons to Date a Volleyball Player" or "10 Reasons to Date a Horseback Rider" and like for example, for the volleyball player, one reason will be "works well with balls" etc? Does anyone know any for someone who does karate?? thanks

uhh karate....umm u kick butt, you wrestle till u get him down, weird postitions, just make sum up not that hard i dont even do karate and i did those lol

Okay lets start my saying im 13 years old. I am dating a 17 year old. My parents along with his parents think it's a bad idea because of the age difference. I havent been able to get ahold of him and talk to him about it. I also like some one who is closer to my age. But does kind of bad things like drinking isnt a problem to me since i do it but he does ciggerates and weed and stuff. He told me he wouldnt pressures me in to anything and he told me he likes me to.HELP ME IM CONFUSSED!!!

drinking is worse for you then smoking babe and your 13 and hes 17...i can see why he wont return your calls if i had a 17 yr old son i wouldnt let him date a 13 year old. you have the rest of your life to do that but id say just move on.

is it right for a 15 year old to date a 19 year old?

if u want him/her arrested

how can a thirteen year old (me) about 5 feet get a modeling job in something like abercrombie in the tampa area? (locally).thanks!

i think you have to be a certain hight and age im sorry hun but i wish it was that easy i think you have to have sum kind of modeling background to be with A&f

Ok well let me tell you the whole story! Last year i was a frosh and timid and shy and i had a boring life. I only had 2 real friends. This year I realized that this was no way to live... I decided I wanted to have A LOT of friends! One of my friends last year gets on my nerves SOOO much! So i barely hang out with her anymore because of that! but the other one and I are still best friends! Well since I'm not extremely tight with my new group yet, things are a bit sketch. Some days i feel like they reallllyyyy like me and I LOVE IT! but then other days it feels like they are just annoyed with me... i dont know what to do! Everyday its different! How do i get closer with them?

be yourself. If they cant like you for who you really are then why bother? you dont need alot of friends to be happy but just have fun and theyll love u:-)

This might be long but I need all the help I can get...heres whats going on...I started going to this school and no one there liked me and no guys liked me or anything and I had no friends and the friends that I did have ended up backstabbing me, and I'm A very nice and careing person and i'll do anything for anyone who needs help with something or just needs someone at all, and right now I really need someone, I see all these girls who are so pertty and I wish I was pretty, these days people dont care about personality or whats in the heart they care about looks and I was wondering if there is anything I can do to make myself look pertty, I wish I had the things that other girls have like the clothes and the looks but I dont have money..heres what I look like...I'm 5'4-5'6 I have long red hair blue eyesand I weigh about 120-125 i'm skinny and everything but I want to look beautiful...does anyone have any ideas on how what I can do to make myself look attractive? I know this all sounds stupid but i'm going to go back to the school I went to and I want people to notice me and guys to like me but I dont know what I can do to make that happen so I am asking yall for help, if anyone can help me with this I will rate really high, thanks!-signed wants to feel wanted

Im not really sure if i can help you but i will try. its not always about the looks and clothes and the personaility does really count but its just that beauty stands out. its not a secret but like you can look beautiful and attractive without having to spend like a gillion dollars. You can start at a MAC counter or sumthing and have them give you a makeover and learn how to put on makeup all sexy like lol and when you shop rembeber this- dont buy anything u dont feel comfterable in its good to dress down sumtimes its like your pretty and not trying hard! just trying to help :-)

Is it wrong to have a crush on one of your good "guy" friend?

it may be a little awkward since yall kno each other pretty well but hey its not wrong

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