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should i be mad
i liked this guy and all of my friends knew about it. i was talking to my friend one day and she said that he had a girlfriend and today i was asking my friend who she liked and she said that she was going out with the guy that i like. i'm really mad but i dont know if i should tell her.
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Hi Sweetie,
My advice to you: yes, communicate your feelings. But in a mature way. BUT FIRST analyze it... give yourself time to think things through... write a letter about your feelings... once you are calm and you won't say things you'll regret later and stuff then talk to her. Decide what is more important to you. If your friend is more importantr then the guy (this is an example) but you are still pissed about it just try to work out a compriomise... like... tell her not to talk about him in front of you... not to hang out with you and him at the same time... that kind of thing. Anything as long as you feel okay. That is really the important thing.
My best wishes! Take care! ~Blessed Be...
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Ok i think that you shood tell your friend exactally how you feel about what is going on and ask her why shed do that if she knew u liked him... I really think that if she has a problem with how you feel then she really wasnt a good friend in the first place. Now if she had no idea who you liked and what not then its a different story and you cant get mad at her for going out with him but you cant help how you feel so.. just make sure you dont get in a huge fight over this cuz friends come first!! Its not pretty when you lose a friend because of a guy! hope i helped-trix
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Well if she's your friend i think you should be able to tell her, yet you can't expect her to break up with him or anything. If she really likes him, than you just wern't meant for him at the time. And you have to look at her from her side, if he asked you out woulnt you say yes? just try to realise you shouldnt take anything to far over a guy. hope i helped!
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yeah tell her!!!!! thats insanely rude of her to do that behind your back hun.. do something about it~
hope i helped
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I wouldn't tell her if I were you. It'll just make you sound really petty and may ruin any future chance with this guy should they split up. However, I wouldn't count this girl as a friend. She knew you liked him but she still went out with him without even asking you if it was ok first! She isn't worth your time, so I would distance yourself from her and spend time with your real friends who treat you with the respect you deserve. Good luck and be happy :-)
Claire xx
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You should definitely tell her because you do have a right to be mad at her. If she knew that you liked this guy and she shouldn't have gone out with him. Talk to her about this and ask her why she is going out with this guy that she knew you liked. Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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Well dont tell her your mad about it.. you might want to talk to her about it tho.. i mean she didnt know that you liked him.. but if you talk to her then maybe you wont be so mad bout it.. and its just a guy sweetie dont be trippin over him.. but dont get all childish over this guy.. he most likely isnt worth it.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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the same thing happend to me last year. first your friend should of been direct with you and second you need to think about who is more important to you if its your friend you need to talk to her but if its the guy then you need to wait till there realationship has ended.but take my advice good friends will be there 4ever, guys will come and go,bad friends are usaully a hoe.
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Mabe you should talk to her about it
if she new that you liked him and desideds to go out with him just because you like him thats not fair
roxie
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i think you should tell her because if she is really your friend shell understand. if that deosnt work, tell her that you really like the guy and to ask if she go with someone else. hopefuly this will help and be a friend and not go with the guy you like.
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she must like this guy as well.
You dont have a monopoly on blokes - you cant just 'shotgun' them.
she got him first cause you pussyfooted around and didnt make a move - or else he likes her and not you.
Youve no right to be mad.
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just tell her so she's know whats going on, if anything she probably already knows you are, but reassure her and try to work through it, don't let the anger lead to a lost friend over something petty.
gl hope i helped
amanda
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I has that same problem. Just let her know how you feel, but dont be too bitchy about it. In the end u will regret loosing a friend if you handle it badly.
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Tell her!! Dont hold back, you have a right to be mad at a backstabber lol!
♥ Michelle
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you should definetly tell her. she knew you liked hi mand she still went out with him. a good friend would have not done so or at least tell you about it before you asked. straigten it out with her. hope this helps!
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yea you should tell her that you're mad because that's not cool for friends to do that to each other.
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that`s not cool. i think you should talk to her one on one and tell her how you`re feeling. she knew you liked him but she still went out with him? that`s not cool at all. you definitely need to straighten this out with her and if she is a jerk about it.. she`s not a very good friend.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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thats gay and i`d be a lil mad and thats mean wat she did! tak to her n tell her that it hurt ur feelings that she did that to yu. x0
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well dont tell her that your mad but you can talk to her about her going out with the guy that you like and that your upset with it but... you know theres no need to because guys arent there to fight over... well they are but theres no need too, but best talk to her about how you feel with them 2 going out.
xoxo
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ya id be mad
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