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Is there anything you can do to make your hair heathier. I deep condition my hair every other day. I've died my hair over 24 times and I know its really really bad and now I've stopped and I haven't died my hair in like 6 months, and my hair has almost grown out my the ends of my hair are really hard and prickley. I can't stand it, I use everything I can possibly think of to make it soft. I get my hair cut every month and I really don't know what else I can do. Any suggestions? (link)
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use main and tail shampoo and conditionar
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13-Male----everyone says im the nicest person in the entire school,(as in i get snacks for the bb games and i open doors and stuff),but still everyone is mean to me. they pretend to like me when im doing something nice but right after that its back to the mosters once again. and just to say this isn't one of those situations where uc an say, just igrone them. its about 50 something ppl.It might be that i was really wierd like 4 years ago but it hasnt helped. It's gotten so bad that I can't even try to get a g/f. help meeeeeeeee. (link)
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when people are mean or talk about its only cuz theyre jealous or have low self esteam. hang on good ppl will come 2 you.
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Hi.. I dont really know where to start but first off i cut myself... and i do it beacasue my life is so hard.. Many of my family members have died and in January 5th my friend Joe died and he was really specail to me .. and so i took out the blade.. and i started cutting.. and i have lied about me cutting myslef but if i told my mom she would kill me ... most of the time her and i get along but some times we have issues and she yells at me sometimes and it gets me all fired up jus wanting to cry .. and then i have an older brother ((15)) and he hits me sometimes.. and he annoys the crap out of me and that fires me up 2 .. and then i have a little brother ((6)) and he does everyhting in his power to annoy me .. lik for instance hell make faces at me and make nasty commments about me lik how much he hates me and i cant take it anymore.. and so i bring out the siccors and i cut myself.. Now i go to this Christain Youth Center and we talk about god and isssues and just things that come to mind.. and the lady incharge i talk to her about me life and how i feel and i tell her that i cut myself and last week we all got into a discussion about anything we wnated to talk about and then someone starts to talk about Depression and then it gets deeper into cuttin yourself.. and im just sitting there thinkin .. y is she talkin about this ... and it hurts me bad to hear this women say that its stupid to do it and its not right to take it out on myslef.. and so im wondering if i can really talk to her about my life anymore.. but im askin if i should continue doin this if it makes me feel better (( maybe not inside)) but i cant talk to my mom 4 certain reasons so imaskin you people....
Ashley PiNkPrEp092591 (link)
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i used to cut myself util i found a reason to live,all you need is a reason. but if this continues you need to get professional help.
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ok the valentines day dance is the 18th or 19th and i really want a guy to go with..even just as a friend would be fine with me. There is a guy i have had in mind about but he is a grade younger than me? is that wrong? also one of my close friends like him too and she know that i have a *crush* on him but she doesnt know that i actually like him..what should i do? i will rate high!! *lost* (link)
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its ok to be with a guy younger than you. my cuzins bf is three years younger than her. as long as its cool with you it shouldnt matter.
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i am like madly in love with my best friend. we've been friends for about 5 1/2 years. he's the coolest person ever and he is so nice and so cute and just generally amazing. pretty much everyone says he likes me too but i'm sort of afraid to say anything or make the first move. and if something does happen, then im afraid to loose the great relationship that we already have. help? (link)
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you need to ask him if he likes you as just a friend or more cuz if you beat around the bush he may get the wrong idea or you may hurt him.
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i have a lot of best friends but sometimes i feel like some of them really aren't my friends and r just acting like it. but how do i no if they are or not and how do i no to trust them???? please help me b/c its makin my brain hurt. (link)
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only time reavels.
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how can i give up the foods i love like ice cream, dots, and soda. i've tried so hard but i cant, whats an easy way? (link)
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cut down gradully
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I love to go out with my friends all the time, we go to dances, out to the mall, and stuff like that but latley my mom has been asking me to take my sister with me. ITs kind of anoying because when i go out with my friends im with a whole group of guys and girls, and i dont always want my sister near me. I mean i love her to death but im sick of my mom asking me if she can come. What do i do?
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tell your mom you need space
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hiya, my friend has just recently got a new boyfriend. she has had one before and had sex and her mum didnt no. im scared she will have sex again beacuse today she said to her other friend that she did something with him, and im thinking it may well be sex, cos she sed she was in a shed (by theirselves).
anyone give me advice plze?
thanxz x x x x (link)
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you need to tell your friend about the risk of and if she doesnt want to hear it then you have to let her learn from her mistakes.
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ok i weigh about 133 and im 5'1.5. i play soccer and lift weights everyday so i know alot of that is muscle. but i have unwanted fat on me and i really want to get rid of, i think im fat but people tell me im not it really bothers me because when i look in the mirror i want to break it. what can i do? (link)
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you need to love yourself and if you want no lose the fat dont do it in a distructive way.
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It seems that I am somewhat different. By this I mean that I am quite mature for my age, and am very outgoing spontaneous person. I am somehow taken granted for by the people around me who I give advice to and listen to their problems. Who am I to turn to when my whole life is falling apart? Basically, what I am trying to say is; How come no one notices I am dying on the inside? Also, why do people blow me off when I am trying to help? Just please come up with something to somehow help...
(I am 14 and Female) (link)
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you have to let trustworthy people know about your problems instead of waiting for help.
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I have a friend that ive known for several years. She lives a very long distance away from me and theres nothing i can do physcially for her. Her father makes her have sex with him on a nightly basis. Is there any way i can help her get help. Shes afraid of going against him, because he is paying for her college and everything. I love her to death. What can i do? (link)
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you cant make her do wat she doesnt want to do but you can let her know how much you love her would be the best thing at this point.
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I think I have depression, I've got almost all the symptoms on this website, and I've felt like this for about 5 months. I don't know how to tell my mum; she's so old fashioned and she thinks that young people can't get depression, and I'm 14 so she won't believe me. I started crying this morning for a stupid reason but I was feeling depressed, and she just said, "oh, here we go." She won't believe me if I tell her. I don't know who to tell, my friends are immature and won't understand - or they'll laugh about it, 'cos I'm good at hiding how I feel and I smile when I'm feeling bad so no-one notices. I can't make a doctors appointment myself, and I don't know how to get a counsellor, and anyway I also think I've got social anxiety so I wouldn't be able to say anything for them to help. How can I get rid of this depression because lately I've been considering suicide and looking on the net for ways to go about it. Thanks xo (link)
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im 13 but i have had mdd (a kind of depression) since i was 11 you need to talk to a school counciler because if your as serious as i was about commiting suice you need to get help. you can talk to me and i will give you some numbers to call. my email is lilchica389@hotmail.com i hope you will let me help you.
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my boyfriends birthday is coming up soon. Im completely broke and have no money. what cheap, extremely meaning present should i give him? his birthday is a week before valentines day. i was wondering if i could come up with a great present that could do for both ocassions..any ideas? please help me. thank you. (link)
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spend time with him and show him you care.
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ok over the summer i was raped by this kidthat i was kinda friends with but not like best friends but i didn trust him and we were at a block party and he was like "do u want to go see my new computer?" and i was like "okay?"
and so when we got there he like locked the door and pulled out a condom and pushed me down and wouldnt let me go. i said no over and over again but he wouldnt stop. then i started cutting myself and crap bc my parents like beat me and cps is even involved with my family...so i cant tell them bc they wont believe me. i still cut and i dont know how to deal with the rape bc thats all i ever think about and i dont know what i can do. (i dont know where he is now and i dont know his last name and there is no proof so i cant press charges) what else can i do to deal with this?
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i was dhen i aws 11 so dont ever feel like your alone after i was d i did the same thing you do i cut myself partaly cuz i wanted to die and cuz i wanted to inflict pain on myself to stop mental pain. you need to get help if not you are sure to end up like me, i have a disorder called mdd and i have 2 take med. and stuff. you need to talk to some1 you trust, your parents, a counciler, the police even. if you ever need to talk you can talk to me my email is lilchica389@hotmail.com.
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I have intense hair flaking. The skin on my scalp is coming off and causing dandriff. Its really gross and a few people asked me if I had lice and I said no its just hairspray but the fact is I dont even use hairspray.. This is really gross and Im constantly worrying about it so I dont know what I should do.. (link)
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ask your doctor for prescription dandruff shampoo this should work.
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What do you do when you someone tells you the guy you like will never ike you should you give up?
Signed
Should I give up? (link)
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them keep trying someone will like you.
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So my cousin had me meet this guy via phone and we hit it off really well. He's funny and easy to talk to. I started to like him and Im pretty sure it was mutual. We planned to meet up and I was really excited until I learned a little more about him. He's a metal head. lol He's got the long hair and listens to that kind of crazy music. We dont have a lot in common and definately not the same type of friends. He's my complete opposite. So the question.. Which would be worse > To date him and be labeled as "desperate" because he's not exactly my type.. Or not date him and be called shallow because he looks different than what I normally go for? (link)
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let your heart decide only you can answer this but i would say give him a try unless your opposed to his style.
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I have dark hair on my arms and I wanna bleach it. Do I sue regualr bleach like the stuff for clothes or what? (link)
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use peroxide cuz if you get it on you clothes it wont spot them.and it wont burn.
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ok with every guy ive dating they have been touchy and lovey and stuff but this one guy now is just so shy and wont open up how do i get him to and be touchy and huggy and affectionate? (link)
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you have to give him time and patience.
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