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i was raped and need helpe
ok over the summer i was raped by this kidthat i was kinda friends with but not like best friends but i didn trust him and we were at a block party and he was like "do u want to go see my new computer?" and i was like "okay?"
and so when we got there he like locked the door and pulled out a condom and pushed me down and wouldnt let me go. i said no over and over again but he wouldnt stop. then i started cutting myself and crap bc my parents like beat me and cps is even involved with my family...so i cant tell them bc they wont believe me. i still cut and i dont know how to deal with the rape bc thats all i ever think about and i dont know what i can do. (i dont know where he is now and i dont know his last name and there is no proof so i cant press charges) what else can i do to deal with this?
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I am so sorry this happened to you. It sounds like You are afraid to seek outside help I thind it is best . If you don't want to seek help through others do it by yourself. Go to the libray and do research read up on victums there are tons of us out there. You should report the rape who knows it could be my child that he rapes next please if not for yourself then for the next victom.
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well you could still go to a doctor and get checked because if somehow the condom broke is DNA would be in you and then you could easly press charges! and im extremly sorry for you =o'( and about ur parents and stuff .. i'd go to ur guidence counsler at school to find you some regular help such as a (therapist or such) i hope you honestly get better im really sorry if you ever need anyone to talk to you can IM me and candii advicex0 or xox0britney ♥britney<3
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Sweetie you should talk to someone about it cutting isn't gonna take it away. You shouldn't let your parents beat you take your idependence. I'm not trying to tell you what you should had done i'm telling you the police prob wouldn't do anything about it bc there's no proof but you can always e-nail me at prettyness4eva@yahoo.com If you need a friend to talk to. Just e-mail i listen.
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well .......get a fuckin bat and beat that montherfucker with it ! NICE AND HARD! and get help because maybe u will never get over it
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You need to get help before its to late or before he can do it again. Its never to late to press charges!!!And I think you should stop cutting because thats not going to help.
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i wish i could help you.. but i dont know what to say! my best friend was raped when she was 13 last year in 8th grade.. and the same thing happened, there were people in the room but she was drugged and drunk so she didnt really remember much.. she also slit her wrist and still has scars, ive done that before and got out of it
but trust me, the least you can do is stop hurting yourself.. its for the better.. scream or hit something when you feel angry or stressed, dont cut yourself because it leaves horrible scars mental and physical..
this guy, we knew who he was and where he was and all, but he got in a car accident in the middle of the court case, so i dontk now how to help you there
just keep your thoughts written down and always remember while your doing that that its not your fault....♥
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i was dhen i aws 11 so dont ever feel like your alone after i was d i did the same thing you do i cut myself partaly cuz i wanted to die and cuz i wanted to inflict pain on myself to stop mental pain. you need to get help if not you are sure to end up like me, i have a disorder called mdd and i have 2 take med. and stuff. you need to talk to some1 you trust, your parents, a counciler, the police even. if you ever need to talk you can talk to me my email is lilchica389@hotmail.com.
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That guys a freak and deserves much worse than jail. Talk to me and ill try to help.The lord will provide a way for you. talk to me on the prof. or my aim. ill try to help as much as possible.
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try going to therapy. since your parents dont belive you, go talk to a professional that does. im really sorry that this happened to you. i hope that you start to feel better! hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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aw im sorry but dont cut please!!!! maybe you could try therapy. i kno it sounds odd but it will help and you wont have to worry about it as much. if you dont want to do that then talk to your school counslor! x0
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Try going to a therapist, I know it might sound really stupid, but trust me it works. You have to let someoen know. I mean if you go to a therapist then you can let it all out and stop cutting.
Hope I Helped!!
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oh im sorry about that hun.you have to talk to someone about it.thats the only way.please dont cut yourself.if you need to talk just im me its TaNgLeDuP x InU...or email me...bdromeoville@aol.com.im here for you!
<3brittany
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i'm not going to load on what you should've done right after the rape but you really should've went to the police even if they had something to do with your family you could've gone to a different precint but enough of that....you might be able to press charges on him....have you ever heard of hypnosis???....well if you could find a good hypnotist and have it recorded like on tape of what your saying you might be able to press charges....if you said "no!!"during the rape you definately can press charges but if you didn't say anything then you probably can't... you can start going to a psychologist nd get your feelings out....talk to columnists or me because i'm sure we'd be glad to help you....confide in a friend
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sweetheart..im so sorry first of all. Is professional help an option? Its a great way to deal with this. Iff not..what about a school guidance couselor? If not.. what about a group where peoople who have been raped can alk about it? Expressing yourself to others who have been through the same thing is very helpful. Maybe go to chatrrooms wwhere people have been raped and talk to ppl nline...expressing yuorself wwill make u feel better.
-melissa0
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