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Q: Well I been seeing this guy for about two months now and its great...sometimes. what I mean is that we dont always get a chance to see each other and when we do have a chance he goes riding with his boys. But then there are sometimes when he can be a SWEETHEART idk when he goes riding with his boys WHAT THE HELL IS HE RIDING??????? lol but sometime I feel that his friend are more inportant then me.
grow some balls and a dick

Q: *13 f*

i'm goin out with this guy n i like him alot...but i keep thinkin...is he goin out with me cuz he really likes me or is he jus goin out with me cuz hes desperate for a g/f? wut should i do to know if he really likes me or not? HELP!
suck a cock

Q: Well people say when your horny and things you get wet and you juice? Well when I'm horny I dont think I juice because i dont feel wet or anything but I do feel tingerly down below is this juicing or what? Or is it a orgasim and actually.. how do you know if you have a orgasim?
stick your fingers farther up or call a male escort

Q: I want my lip pierced and for people who have it done, does it hurt bad? I want mine on the side. Tell me about it please?

What should I know about lip piercings?
grow some balls

Q: I will be a senior now in highschool and I have no clue what I want to go to college for. Its summer and I dont have a job, all my friends and my boyfriend have summer jobs. I don't want to be stuck at home all summer bored to death. I have been looking for a job but my mom is so picky she wont let me have a job at a fast food restuarant and some other places. How can I figure out what I want to with my summer and my life??
fuck you

Q: I have a bunch of guyfriends at school, but one of them I really like.
Unfortunately I have no clue if he likes me that way and my friend's ex-boyfriend talks to me and everything way more than her and he always did before too...so I'm a little confused.
Anyways he's moving soon so ya

Back to the guy I like- he hasn't had a girlfriend for a while now and I really like him but I don't want to be like every other girl in school who asks the guy out themselves.
It's like friggin' Sadyhawkin's everday in my school...-_-
skrew you

Q: I read one of the questions you answered. It was the one where a guy wanted to know what to do to make the sex he was going to have with his GF special. In your info. it says you are 15. Isnt that to young? Also your guy may not be the right guy. Is he responsible, caring, and is there anyone else that you like or likes you that you should save yourself for?
First of all I am saving myself untill I find that special one. And yes I do think 15 is to young. The only thing i said was we talk about it and talking is one thing.

Q: hi, im 16/m and me and my gf have been talking about having sex for a really long time but i want to make it special for her. does anyone know any good positions or things i can do to make her feel good or turn her on? i rate high if theres a good answer!! thanks
Ok me and my boyfriend have been discussing this same issue. I think you should ask her when you talk to her tonight. I think it will be special either way as long as you don't LEAVE! I think that you should just ask her if she has any positions that she has in mind and then just take it from there. What ever happens happens.
BBgirll15

Q: Just as a warning, this will be long. If you have a problem with that, skip on to the next question.
Okay. So my guy and I have been together about 18 months now, and it's been great up until awhile ago.
Now, my boyfriend and I used to have the exact same ideals about sex - we both thought oral was stupid and disgusting, and neither of us was really into the whole manual thing.
All of a sudden, he's asking me for oral all the time - I did that once and I told him I wasn't comfortable with it. He's even asking for "road head" which I always thought only assholes asked for and only sluts gave.
Does he think I'm a slut just because I've had sex?
I feel like he's been taking advantage of me lately and making me feel like a bad girlfriend. I know I'm not, though he makes me feel like it's my fault when we fight, and makes me feel like I'm the one that needs to change, when I believe now that it's him that needs to change.
I really do hope this is just a bump in the relationship - don't most people hit bumps when they've been together awhile?
We were such a great couple for so long, and then all of a sudden, he decided he wanted more sexual stuff than I'm willing and comfortable with giving him. Now, I can understand he may be a little sexually frustrated, as we haven't had sex in like a month, but I told him we'd have to wait a month (due to a medication I ended up on that conflicted with my birth control pill), and he was okay with it. Now he's suddenly not. I'm confused.
He used to be utterly romantic and sweet. Now he's turning into a complete ass.
I really want to ask him right now if he really loves me or he just enjoys fucking me. Recently, it seems like the latter.
We always said that sex was like the icing to a cake in this relationship. He claims this relationship is based on love, not lust, but I'm not so sure about that anymore.
I don't want to break up with him. I want him to realize what he's doing, and I want to fix this between us, hopefully before saturday. Saturday's his birthday, and I went to a lot of trouble to find him a present he wants this year. I'd rather not return it.
But mostly, I just want this to go back to normal. I was so happy with him before...
Help me out?
~Cali~
I can relate. I thimk the best thing to do is sit him down and tell him how you been feeling and how he's been acting. A relationship is all based on conmutcation{ sorry cant spell}. And maybe its just a bump, guys sometimes go throw stages,but dont worry if he really loves you then hell understand your fellings. Hoped i helped
BBgirl15

Q: Are girls scared of erections? I mean if you're making out and they feel one, would they be freaked out?
WELL IM A GIRL AND IT WOULDNT FREAK ME OUT I WOULD FEEL PROUD AND THATS A WAY OF TELLING ME THAT IM DOING MY JOB.
bbgirl15

Q: My boyfriend dumped me about a week ago and the other night, he realized that it was a bad idea. So he asked me out and we are back together, but I was wondering, is it a good idea? We love and care for each other, but there seems to be some tension still. So yeah.
Hey I can relate. I went through the same thing. I think the best thing for you to is to stay with him ONLY if your happy and you guys should talk about your feelings so you guys know how each other feels.

Q: (16/f) I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really do love him. Its just that he doesnt trust me at all. Just because of things people tell him. People dont like the fact that we're going out because we're in an inter-racial relationship. So they make things up to try to get us to break up. I know that they're lying but he doesnt. He just doesnt trust me and I'm constantly telling him not to believe them and " No I didnt flirt with so-and-so today." Im so sick of trying to get him to believe me. He also makes me feel guilty for things I did before we started going out. Im tired of it and I try telling him this but he just doesnt stop. It's getting to the point where we're fighting most of the time instead of getting along. I love him so much and I dont want to have to break up but I want to be happy instead of being sad all the time now. I just dont know if its at the point where I should end it or not. Please help me out I dont know what to do... thanks in advance.
Hey listen stop getting upset you know your not doing anyhing behind his back. And if he really love you then he would belive you and he would stop listening to hes freinds. I think you guys need to sit down and talk about it with ou fighting cause fighting gets us NOWHERE!!! and if he still doesnt belive you , you need to find some one better.Hope it all works out
bbgirl15



Q: ok,
there is tons of girls that like me at my school and they all want to go out with me, so i need to know if i should become a "player" and go out with all of them at once or let them take turns?
Are you stupid no girl likes to take turns!!!!! I think you should find the one who makes you laugh and that you like being with. And just stay with her . But take it from me cause I am a girl dont play the field!!!!

Q: I need your help... I like this girl and I'm pretty sure she likes me, but I'm not 100% sure. I dont know whether or not to ask her out. Please help me!!! This girl and I are good friends so it complicates things a bit too.
I'm a 15 year old male.

Thanks a bunch!!!


Hey Don't worry, ask her if she likes you and you like her, so just go for it. If you two are friends ask her if you and her went out and then broke up would you two still be friends? So, ask her out and tell me how it goes!! Hope I helped!
*bbgirl15*

Q: my best friend likes a guy who is a total *beep* and he leads her on then pushes her away. he wont make up his mind. he tells her he likes her but when she says she likes him and can theygo out he gets all wierd and just says shut up or lol or some stupid stuff. i dont know how to help her ne more. I need advice now.
Hey,
I can relate I like this guy and he tells me that he like me to but then thats it , so the best thing to do is give him space and if he really likes you then he'll come to you.
BBgirl15

Q: Most of my friends are gettin pregnat and getting herpes it is scaring me ... All my friends I thought were so much smarter than me are stupid and having sex already . I know you want to but you need to hold back .... I am scared that in a way I am gonna be forced into it .... Can you help ?
Hey,theres one thing that you have to keep in mind you never have to do anything that you dont want to. So just because your friend are making stupid choices doesnt mean you have to. You need to be your own person and do what you want to do and not what people want you to do.
~BBGIRL15

Q: i am not sure how good of a teacher of portuguese i would be because i have trouble with some american ideas or how you say words. if you would like i could teach you what you call phrases(did i spell it?) my address for computer writing is brazillian_girl_911@yahoo.com
Anyhthing will help!!!!!!
thanks,
`~BBgirl15~

Q: (15/f)
how can i like.. "come out of the closet" to 4 of my best friends.. i tell them EVERYTHING and i just hate hiding from them. they know i'm in a relationship, they just don't know its with another chick. please help.
Hey,

Q: .how can i get a girl to like me
The best thing to do is be yourself and dont act like anything your not. And hopefully they'll come to you. Good luck!!!!!


Q: hello. i apologize if the english that i speak isnt as good. i have moved to USA from brazil one month ago.since i speak portuguese(the language used in brazil), german, spanish, italian, french, and english, sometimes i do not remember to speak in english. at my school it is hard to join with friends. if a person has knowledge on joining with groups of people it would be helping.
YO WHAT UP!! Im PORTUGUESE AND ITALIAN .BUT I DONT KNOW HOW TO SPEAK PORTUGUSE DO YOU THINK YOU CAN GIVE ME SOME POINTER ON HOW TO SPEAK IT.

BBGIRL15

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bbgirl15
Hey I am 15 years old and go to High School. My best friends are Cynthia and Kristen I love you guys lots and I dont know what I would do with out you guys and I have the BEST boyfreind in the world and I love him soooo much. Just so you know I play basketball and I am almost a black-belt in karate SO WATCH OUT BITCHES!Don't mess with the Italian Black Belts!! lol. Just so you know I specialize in giving advice aside from my many other talents!(Which i will not mention) lol So please feel free to ask what ever the hell is on your mind!!!

~I LOVE S+M~

P.S
Cynthia wanna clean my carpet after your done eating your doritos!!! lol

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