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It seems like everybody is doing it ....
Most of my friends are gettin pregnat and getting herpes it is scaring me ... All my friends I thought were so much smarter than me are stupid and having sex already . I know you want to but you need to hold back .... I am scared that in a way I am gonna be forced into it .... Can you help ?
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You are making an excellent descions. You shouldnt be have sex at this age at all!! You need to tell your friends that havent already and help them not. If your friends start forcing you to do thins that you don't want to do then u need to find new friends, because apparently those are true friends.
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Well, BE THE SMART ONE (no offense to your friends) and DON'T have sex!!! And if you are afraid that you are going to be forced into it...try and stay away from it...stay away from people that you feel uncomfortable around....and if somebody does anything to you that you don't want...TELL SOMEBODY!!!! DO NOT BE AFRAID...THE LONGER YOU WAIT....THE MORE IT WILL HAPPEN...!!! I hope I helped!
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if someone tries to force u its called rape if they make u..and remember if ur friends are getting pregnant and getting STDs dnt do it be the smarter one... hope i helped
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Only idiots would wait to have sex I mean come on think about how much fun it would be giving a guy a blow job.I would say to someone who wants to have sex with me to just get in the bed and undress not hold on a year because boys are not like that they breathe sex like it is needed every second of everyday of their life butthey hate it when girls say lets talk instead of lets fuck!!!
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Just don't give in and remind yourself that once you do something like have sex and get pregnant or get a std you will regret it and there is no turning back or a redo. also it will mess up your future. so don't follow in your friends footsteps and itz ure decision and your choice. <3 Peachgirly
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well, just so you know, hold your ground, dont give in. Have you ever heard the song? I'll get the lyrics and put them here!
This one's for all you girls about thirteen
High school canbe so rough, can be so mean
Hold onto, on to your innocence
Stand your ground when everyone's giving in
This one's for the girls
This is for all you girls about twenty-five
In a little apartment, just trying to get by
Living on, on dreams and spaghetti-o's
Wondering where you life is gonna go
This one's for the girls
Who've ever had a broken heart
Who've wished upon a shooting star
You're beautiful the way you are
This one's for the girls
Who love without holding back
Who dream with everything they have
All around the world
This one's for the girls
This is for all you girls about forty-two
Tossing pennies into the Fountain of Youth
Every laugh, laugh line on your face
Made you who you are today
This one's for the girls
Who've ever had a broken heart
Who've wished upon a shooting star
You're beautiful the way you are
This one's for the girls
Who love without holding back
Who dream with everything they have
All around the world
This one's for the girls
Yeah, we're all the same inside (same inside)
From 1 to 99
This one's for the girls
Who've ever had a broken heart
Who've wished upon a shooting star
You're beautiful the way you are
This one's for the girls
Who love without holding back
Who dream with everything they have
All around the world
This one's for the girls
Yeah, this one's for the girls
That's by Maritina McBride- she sings Country if you didnt know already!
just stand your ground and dont give in, they may think that they're cool now- not when they get cought, not when they get pregnate and dont know what to do and cant tell their parents. not when then do end up telling their parents. not when they get kicked out of the house. not when the guy that did that to them wont help. not when the guy that did that to them is with another girl.
I read these books- they are diaries of young girls, one had sex- and had the baby- the other died of aids. they really teach you a good life lesson. You sould read them and have your friends read them too. They are an easy read too!
one is called : Annie's Baby Its by unknown, and its edited by Betriece someone, shes a Doctor, and she helpes these girls! Its about a girl who is pregnate!
OH!!!!!!!!!!! No!!!!! YOu have to read Go Ask Alice! Its a great book, it has to do with everything! Sex, Drugs, everything!!!!! its sooo good too! it really teaches you alot, and how important it is to not do anything!!
and one last book is called "It Happened To Nancy" its about a girl who got aids. and how, is really sad.
Keep in mind- in real life stories, the guys always say that they will be there if/when you get pregnate, but sadly, thats not always the case. they dont generally stay with you!!
So just Stay strong!! :) YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!
:-)
Hope I Helped-
Always There;
*KeLs*
P.S.= If You Ever Need Advice, Leave One In My Inbox. :-) Kels
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NOT WITH YOUR FRIENDS!!, if you're ready then do it (cant tell you not to) but all my advice to you is whatever you do just dont do it with your herpe friends!!! sorry and good luck! Ariella
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If you dont want to do it you dont have to. If the guy that wants it really likes you he will wait for you to be ready. Hope i helped!
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Dont give in to pressure, You cant have sex when your ready you dont have to do it when your friends want you to do if they ask just tell them your not ready and that its my life not urs and if they want to ruin there live thats there chosce
rate honestly
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Well it would seem everybody's doing drugs too but are you doing those also?
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how do you mean by force? do you mean peer pressure? well if so then just hold your ground. just say NOOOO. and then you mite need to get some others to hang around. but if you mean rape then just get outta there ASAP. so i hope i helped if you need anything else at all then just leave me a message or email me.
*~~~shana~~~*
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Hey,theres one thing that you have to keep in mind you never have to do anything that you dont want to. So just because your friend are making stupid choices doesnt mean you have to. You need to be your own person and do what you want to do and not what people want you to do.
~BBGIRL15
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noone should ever force you into doing ANYTHING..if anything, you should be learning from this. if most of your friends seem to be having sex and getting pregnant and so on, then maybe you need to reevaluate your friends...and if you really feel as if you love these people regardless, then be there for them. but if ANYTHING, you should definately be taking all of this as a lesson to be learned and it should only be making you wiser and more knowledgeable for your future and with the choices you make. good luck to you and your friends. get back to me please if you still want to talk. im here. take care hun.
-asherz
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it's good that your not into that. i think the thing to do would be to either stop hanging with them, or build up your will so you can say no. dont let them force you.
~ANGE
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oh man i know, everyone i know is all into it now. but trust me, either they regret it now or theyre going to. losing your virginity is a big thing, you can never go back and change it. you wanna make the first time with someone you love and yu want to make it memorable dont you? the only way you can be forced into it is by someone elses power, but if you have sex and you dont want to, i consider that rape. for example, a guy says hes going to hurt you if you dont do it, i think thats rape..and you really have to avoid that. plus, condoms are about 99% effecient against pregnancy but not against std's. some std's result in permamnt infertility, so when you get married and wanna have sex with the person you love, you cant make a baby with him, the reason sex is supposed to be for, anyways. im trying to remain abstinenet so when i get older i can have the things ive never had, a family, and a good happy one too. im not saying having sex now is going to ruin everything when yu get older, but it sure can have a pretty powerful effect and change alot of things.
*Good luck in your decisions!
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