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My boyfriend dumped me about a week ago and the other night, he realized that it was a bad idea. So he asked me out and we are back together, but I was wondering, is it a good idea? We love and care for each other, but there seems to be some tension still. So yeah.
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I suppose you'll have to decide based on what he broke up with you for last week. Did he have a good excuse? Or was it a stupid reason.
Just be sure he is sincere in wanting to work things out.
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Hey I can relate. I went through the same thing. I think the best thing for you to is to stay with him ONLY if your happy and you guys should talk about your feelings so you guys know how each other feels.
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ok well why did he dump you? maybe you should have talked about it first. he could jus be goin back wit you cuz he doesnt wanna be alone. you need to talk but i bet if what i say is true he wont tell you. you should have thought of all the points before you let yes slip out of your mouth.
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No. It's not a good idea. So what, he dumps you then thinks, no wait, actually I do like her? That's not the case. He probably dumped you for someone else, then that person wouldn't take him, and so he's back for you now. No. No. And no again. Go get yourself someone better.
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it will take time for it to pass but fate needs time to build never give up hope"even when all hope is lost there is still hope"
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i think u should talk to ur b/f and ask him how he feels. let your thoughts out, and maybe things will be better. hope this helps!!
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Relationships are always going to have some tension its normal to feel that way after breaking up, Stop right now and talk to him about it tell him that you feel like there is alot of tension but you dont no where its come from or what its to do with, If he understand what your talking about he might be able to help you with it! He might not feel the same he might not see tensions between you you never know.
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Well sit down and talk about it. tell him that you think that there is some tension and that it needs sorting out because you cant have a good, healthy relationship if there is some issues between you. you obviously do care for each other and he has show that he has made a mistake by coming back to you but you need to know how he feels because if he isnt happy there could always be a change he could dump you again. and he need to know how you feel because if not and espect that you are weary of him because you can tell somwthing is wrong. if you talk it will all be out in the open and no hiden tension and with all your cards on the table theres no reason you cant work throught this.
Hope i helped!
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just sit down and talk to each other. then the tension should lift. but if you care for each other that much then you should have a healthy relatonship
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There's always gonna be tension in a situation like this. Don't worry about it.
The thing is, he may have got back with you just because he was lonely, or felt sorry for how upset he'd made you, anything other than love. You need to talk to him about his reasons for breaking up with you in the first place. If you already know them, do you think they're fair? Do you think they're feelings that he can just ignore and have a satisfactory relationship with while feeling like that? Do YOU think you can get past them?
Second-chance relationships RARELY work out. I personally think it's a bad idea but then I don't know his reasons for ending the relationship. If it was a silly reason, or done in a moment of anger, then perhaps it can work out.
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx
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