Member Since: February 7, 2005
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Last Update: May 21, 2005
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My name is Amy Bussel and I am 21 years old, my fiance and I have just seperated, because I cuss to much at him. Although this is not the first time that this has happened and every other time he has came home to me this time my hope is very low. I have never done anyhting that would hurt him and have always gone out of my way to make sure that he is happy. He has always came first in my life. When he leaves like this it is usually for a few days and even without a phone call. Can you tell me do you think that he will come back home to me this time?? (link)
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You say that u do everything to make him happy then why do you cuss? If you really cared then such a small change would not hurt you it can only make u better. i know. i used to cuss and my ex hated i changed im not with him now but i did get something out of the relationship more than just stop cussing but it was a plus for sure. Now i have a question for you how many times does he just up and leave is there a pattern what? i dont know your life but beware if its a pattern then maybe its not about your cussing so be carefull and dont get caught up like i did.
wish the best good luck.
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When I was ill recently, I really relied on my partner, and he was wonderful at looking after me. I've told him how thankful I am and how much it meant to me, but I'd really like to show how grateful I am and am really stuck for what would be appropriate. Would a card or gift be tacky/inappropriate? I saw a book I know he'd enjoy, but it doesn't feel quite the right way to say 'thanks' for all that he's done.
Basically, I'm just looking for opinions - should I get him a small token like the book, or is it more appropriate to just talk to him about it as I have been doing? (link)
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simple is always best, but if you want to go all the way take care of him for a day be his beg and call guy(pretty woman). If u dont have the time for that get him a bear or something like that but make it a nurse bear or animal.
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I'm 14m looking to find a girlfriend, and i've seen people i like. problem is, i can't get enuf courage to ask them out, and i lose my chance. what do girls like to hear? i've thought of things to say, but they always sound so cheesy. do i complement her and charm her? do i come right out and ask? do i lean her back and kiss her? j/k. PLZ HELP!(i'm assuming ur a girl.) (link)
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i know this might sound lame but u have to be ur self make her laugh girls love to laugh.
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Heres whats going on...see theres this guy I really like and we go to school together and we have known eachother for over 3 months now and we went out on dates and everything like that and when we went on our first date afterwards he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes and then the next day he told me it was a mistake and that he came on to me to fast and well we hung out some more and everything and we hang out everyday at school because we have to classes out of 4 together and he gets mad whenever someone asks him if me and him are dateing because we kinda act like we are like by flirting and everything and well on our second date we held hands and then the next day he told me once again that he thought it was a mistake and that he was just trying to make me happy by holding my hand and like one minute he says that he likes me more then a friend and then the next minute he says he only likes me for a friend "For Now" I mean I dont know what I should do...because he is playing all of these childish games with me and if anyone could help me out with this it would help me out so much...If any guys out there who reads this knows whats going on with this dude and why hes doing me like this please help me out...Because I dont know if I should stick around or move on and find someone else...thanks to anyone who answers this for me...sorry its so long!!
Signed:Sad, Hurt, And Confused (link)
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Dear sad, hurt, and confused, He is playing a games somewhat if you act as if you are not intrested in him he will come crawling to u i suggest ignoring him and see what he does all the same i would just give up and stop talking to him
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im 13f n ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost three weeks now and we still havent kissed. he kisses me on the cheek all the time but thats it. is this going too slow? (link)
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no not at all, your going at the right pace. thers no need to rush life,take it slow. i wish when i was your age someone gave me this advice. i promise it will come eventually, please dont rush it.
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hey. ok my problem is that my parents give me noooooo freedom. They won't even let me go to the mall alone!!!!! I always confront them but they never listen. I am getting really fed up with them. I don't know what to do. Green day is going on tour and all my friends are going and i really want to but my parents wont let me because they think they swear too much. What should I do besides talking to them because that doesnt help! (link)
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Make a presentaion to your parents. Go online and look up statistics on what kids your age are doing and let them know that you or your friends dont engage in those activitys tell them that u know they love you but they have to learn to trust u. Be proffesional about it,they will respect you for it.
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I've never watched Will and Grace. What happens? (link)
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well, will and grace live together in newyork but he is gay and she is in love with him and because she wont move on she never finds anyone for her.
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what do u mean go to...google broken heart...what is it and what do i exactly go to? (link)
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its a search engine what ever you use internet explorer mozilla.
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I have dating issues to start off and am very picky about who I go out with. My most recent boyfriend and I broke up about 9 months ago. It was difficult to deal with. Now he's engaged, this is a trend for my ex's. All of them are either engaged or married by now. I'm 22, but I tend to date guys at least 5 years older than me. SO...one of the reasons why I broke up with him before was that I fell in love with my best friend. I've told my best friend and he's said he likes me too, however, we are incredibly close and risking our friendship is a horrible thing. I've moved on more or less and have dated quite a few guys since. None interest me as much as my best friend, but that's life. Now I'm dating two guys, both are nice and intelligent and have good stable jobs, one is a stock broker, the other an engineer. However, the engineer, who is my age, is probably one of the most boring guys I've ever met. His idea of a "wild" night was going to a party at a friends house and then some woman danced on the table. That was the craziest night of his life. That same night, I had been partying and dancing on tables at one bar (It was Halloween, so there were parties everywhere) and then I drove to another city and continued the partying there, where I ended up meeting up with the other guy, the stock broker and we ended up doing some pretty bad things on the hood of his car in a parking lot that just so happened to have security cameras. The next day I spoke to the engineer boy about his wild night and I couldn't help but be annoyed with him. I know he's a great guy and he said he's crazy about me and knows I'm a bit wild, but hopes it'll rub off on him a bit. THe other guy, obviously is wild like me, but that's not necessarily a good thing. He's assured me he's trustworthy and isn't dating anyone else, and I have told him about the other guy. So do I go for the safe, yet boring guy or the wild one??? Ideally I'd rather lose the two of them and get with my best friend, but that isn't happening. :) Sorry this is so long. I babble a lot. I think maybe I'm just totally insane. (link)
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Hi this story was my life 3 months ago right down to the engineer, actually he goes to school for it now, but my best friend and I really like eachother alot and we took that chance and made love it confused things for a while and we eventually broke up cause he still had feelings for his ex. But after a month or so he called me and we started talking again we are just as close as ever. I think we will be together eventually sorry wondered off. but seriously dump the nerd he cand't give you what you want and need your still young and man our own ages don't get it i to date 5-10 years older than me i'm 22. goolluck
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I have been dating my current boyfriend for one year this coming month. We are constantly talking about marriage, but we are light in the pocket book. I don't make a ton, and he has about $12,000 in debt. Not to mention that his idiot sister talked him into buying a new car that he couldn't begin to afford so tack $25,000 on to that. I am trying to scrimp like crazy.
We have dated off and on for many years, and I want to be with him no matter about the money thing. He isn't used to saving money; he has been spending for a long time. He is trying very hard to stay on a budget. And I am very proud of him. I have squirreled away a small amount o cash but less than 6 months salary. I have no outstanding debts. What more can I do to save money and still continue to be healthy?
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Before you marry him he should be out of debt remember what debt he has you will have when you marry him so his credit becomes your credit.
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I just found out my husband has been cheating on me. We agreed to separate for a while because we can't live together right now. But he is still sleeping with this woman who is also married with children. He says he is not sure weather or not it is going to work out with her, that he doesn't know her, he is just living a fantasy right now, replacing what was missing in our relationship. He is getting attention he hasn't gotten from me in a while because our lives have been so busy. It doesn't make it okay, but our relationship is way to special to throw away and I want to work it out with him. We are going to couples counseling in a few months. I am having a hard time convincing him to stop sleeping with this woman, and I am thinking about sending this woman's husband the e-mails she and my husband have exchanged along with a letter I have written to him revealing the truth about what his wife has been out doing. But will this push this woman further into my husbands arms or will it make her and her husband focus on their own relationship instead of her focusing on hers with my man? Please help, I don't know weather or not to send it without everyone's advice out there!! Will it only cause more problems that will work against what I want (my husband back in my arms) or will it end the affair my husband is having? (link)
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How long has the affair been going on 6months 1year thats makes a diffrence if his seen her for years you should bite the bullet and leave no one should be treated like trash I just got a divorce from my husband because of his cheating ways they never stop so leave him you will come out of it alot stronger. As far as the emails I would send them but only to make her suffer it will not help you in your sition.
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Can any one tell me how to shut little sisters up and also i keep a diary and it's impossible to have any privesy in my house does any one have any good ideas to stop little brats getting their hands on my diary! Thanks for any suggestions Joolz (plus i rate high) (link)
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Me being a little sister myself I am heart broken that you feel that way about your sister. If you want to hind your diary I suggest the toliet put it in a zip lock bag and hide it there no one will look there unless the toliet over flows and When you bath its right there so you can have privacy.
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you see...i've known this guy since the summer..hes 3 years older then me but he always said it doesnt matter! he lives near me and we went before for about a week. and then i got grounded and couldnt see him or talk to him so he dumped me. after that we started fighting more and more. but everytime we would be friends again. it was no big deal but now its getting worse and ive liked him ever since the summer and there feelings wont seem to go away. i feel like he doesnt even like me. he already likes another girl but hes always saying that he will always have feelings for me and he does. and everytime we hang out all we do is kiss and stuff..but his profile and away messages always have different girls in them saying that he loves them and that hes always thinking about them! and when alot of people are around he doesnt even talk to me! it seems like hes using me but what could he be using me for?? i know your probably going to say for me to get over him and jsut stop talking to him but i cant! i really like him...i need to know what i should say to him or ask him i live right near him and hes also a really good friend and really fun person to talk too! so i dont know what to do i cant just STOP talking to him! but i like him more then a friend. and he says the same about me. we dont go to the same school but he hooked up with a couple of my friends weeks ago. one of them was one of my closest friends and he stopped talking to me and started talking to her.i was really jealous. and then he hooked up with my other friend and i was even more jealous but NOW hes talking to my other friend that I introduced him to! she said she wouldnt hook up with him but THAT was when she had a boyfriend and her boyfriend dumped her a few days ago and then she asked him to be her special and only valentine! and hes mine too...but he also has a valentine which is the girl he likes. i really need advice!! what should i do? PLEASE I NEED HELP! i cant stand it anymoree!! i rate! (link)
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I know how you feel I was in that same situation when I was younger. The only good adivise I could give u is to think of all the bad things he put you through since you have known him your heart will eventually change and you won't feel so strong for him. i suggest typing in google broken heart you can find sites that will help you get over him.
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im selling my house through buy owner and they gave me a standard agreement for sale form. I dont have a clue how to fill this out. Is there somewhere i can get free help?
Thanks so much (link)
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Go online and just type fsbo applacations there should be some kind of guide in there to help.
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I've developed a crush on my gay friend. I know that's not the best, but I couldn't help it. So, if any of you have any suggestions on how to get over your best friend, please share. (link)
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Poor thing been there. My advice is don't end up like Grace from Will and Grace. goodluck
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ok well i have been going out with this guy for a while now and every thing is going really good but i want to take it to the next leave and i dont know what to do can anyone help me
p.s. i dont really know how to give a guy head or like how i am supposed to let him fingure me can anyone help me please? (link)
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Don't do anything respect yourself wait till marriage.
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ok over the summer i was raped by this kidthat i was kinda friends with but not like best friends but i didn trust him and we were at a block party and he was like "do u want to go see my new computer?" and i was like "okay?"
and so when we got there he like locked the door and pulled out a condom and pushed me down and wouldnt let me go. i said no over and over again but he wouldnt stop. then i started cutting myself and crap bc my parents like beat me and cps is even involved with my family...so i cant tell them bc they wont believe me. i still cut and i dont know how to deal with the rape bc thats all i ever think about and i dont know what i can do. (i dont know where he is now and i dont know his last name and there is no proof so i cant press charges) what else can i do to deal with this?
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I am so sorry this happened to you. It sounds like You are afraid to seek outside help I thind it is best . If you don't want to seek help through others do it by yourself. Go to the libray and do research read up on victums there are tons of us out there. You should report the rape who knows it could be my child that he rapes next please if not for yourself then for the next victom.
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I am 41 year old male, at 18 I married my best friends sister who had been date raped at 16 (not by me) and was pregnant. I married her and raised the child as my own. We took in 2 foster children that we later adopted because she could not have any more. Although I was never in romantic love with her we had a good life and wonderful family. 5 years ago she had to have a hysterectomy and died for several minuets they revived her but she has never came back to "herself" I am now more of her caretaker. There is no sex, romance or even adult discussion. I can't leave her nor want to for the fact it wouldnt be right to leave her because of an illness that is not her fault.
I try to release my stress in the gym and other ways and have developed a very good physical appearance and have many friends, but Im so very lonley. I am afraid to have an affair, it wouldnt be right to either woman, but I so long for the touch, caress and conversation with a woman. I dont know where to turn. Whats your Advice?
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Turn to your wife. What would she want you to do? You're still a young man and i'm sure she loves you very much and she knows how much you love her. Ask yourself, if the shoe were on the other foot what would you want for her? There in lies your answer. You can continue to take care of her, there are so many options out there. The hard part is finding your balance, but you will. Think of conversations you had with your wife, you'll find your way.
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This is mostly to the females out there: What is the most romantic- meaningful gift you've ever received? (link)
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When i was in grade school i was outside playing as a car drove up with a man and a little boy inside. The boy got out and I could see that he was one of my classmates. He approached me with something behind his back. He then handed me a fire rock. It was the size of two fist and probaly the prettiest rock I've ever seen. It meant so much to me because it was from his heart and he had his daddy drive all the way to my house to give it to me. Basically its the thought that counts. Don't give a dozen roses when u can give one, don"t pass dandelions without picking her some.
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Needless to say, I'm the beast. I'm in love with this great girl (a whole long story) but she's absolutely beautiful. When I first met her, she was a loner as I was, and we connected intellectually. Now, she's a lot more popular, and is hanging out with people just as beautiful as her. She's kinda forgotten about me. I know that looks aren't everything but it is important. I'm trying to improve myself (6' 3" - was 280lbs (used to play football) and now down to 240 lbs.) I can keep losing weight but I have other defects that would require major surgery- I have a huge underbite which to fix they would have to break my upper and lower jaw to re-align it, which means taking bone out of my hip - side effects may include loss of sensation to my lips, tingling down my leg permanent- and not to mention a long time to heal). Also, I had a bad skin infection when I went abroad for a year which left my face scarred and pitted (another surgical procedure to maybe fix). So my question- how far would you go to be more acceptable to the person you love? Thanks for your help > (link)
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I'm 5'9 and drop dead gorgeous. When i met my husband he was 6'6 305 pounds. I love him to death. More women like me are out there. If she doesn't appreciate you for who you are then hold on and wait for a me. We're out there,there's someone for everyone.
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