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My name is Amy Bussel and I am 21 years old, my fiance and I have just seperated, because I cuss to much at him. Although this is not the first time that this has happened and every other time he has came home to me this time my hope is very low. I have never done anyhting that would hurt him and have always gone out of my way to make sure that he is happy. He has always came first in my life. When he leaves like this it is usually for a few days and even without a phone call. Can you tell me do you think that he will come back home to me this time??
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You say that u do everything to make him happy then why do you cuss? If you really cared then such a small change would not hurt you it can only make u better. i know. i used to cuss and my ex hated i changed im not with him now but i did get something out of the relationship more than just stop cussing but it was a plus for sure. Now i have a question for you how many times does he just up and leave is there a pattern what? i dont know your life but beware if its a pattern then maybe its not about your cussing so be carefull and dont get caught up like i did.
wish the best good luck.
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There is no way for anyone to tell. People do get fed up with other's crap very fast though. Not to be rude, but, stop cussing at him and everyone will be happy.
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Depends on him I guess no way of knowing that answer.
You say that you have never done anything to hurt him but, that is not true.Evidently cussing at him hurts him.So, if he comes back and you want to keep him this time you'd better wash your mouth out with soap before he get's really sick of it and leaves for good.
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if he loves you and really cares hun dont worry he'll come back to you..try to call him.. and if you really wanna keep him hun maybe control the cussing and whatever else the reasons might be for him to leave..
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Wow, I might not have to best advice for you, but I'll try. First of all, why do you cuss at him? Is it out of anger? No offense, maybe you should surf the web to see if there are any solutions to cussing so much. Call him, and talk it out. Go to a marriage counselor. Good-luck!
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Ok for one if I were you I wouldnt put your name on anything thats on the internet because there are some crazy people out there who could track you down and get any information about you they want but thats besides the point. I couldnt really tell you if he would come back or not but if he truely loves and cares for you then he will come back. But if he doesnt then that just means that hes not worth it. Theres a saying I have heard many times befor..."If you love someone let them go, if they come back it was ment to be and if they dont come back then it never was" Just look at it like this if he comes back then it means he truely cares for you. He could be wateing it out or something trying to figure out what he wants but just give him time and dont get your hopes up because alot of guys are jerks and they wont think twice about hurting a girl. I hope this advice helps! If you need anything just send me a message to my Inbox and tell me how everything goes! Bye-NikNik
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No one online can tell you if he will come back to you, you have to ask him that for yourself. If he leaves you because you cuss at him too much, then don't you think it is time for you to get yoru mouth into check? Seriously. If you love your fiance, then you should be willing to change the negative habits about yourself that affect your marriage. You also need to tell your fiance that he can't keep running away from you all's problems. He needs to be mature about your relationship and sit down <b>with you</b> and talk about what it is that is keeping you all from staying together. His leaving is pointless because he always comes back. So instead of him leaving, maybe you all need to try communicating, talking about and working through ya'lls problems.
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No. You blew it. Good Job.
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anonymous -
It's really hard to say because I do not know the specifics of your relationship, but since this has happened so much, your fiance might be more reluctant to come back home. Why because he doesn't want to deal with the same thing happening over and over again.
If you want him to come back home to you and stay with you, you have to make some changes. You wouldn't like it if he cussed at you constantly now would you? Treat others as you wish to be treated darlings!
As for him coming back home, although he probably won't answer his phone, just call and leave a message apologizing to him for what you did and tell him that you will change. He probably won't believe your words that you will change, and if he does come back, it will take some time for him to trust you on that, but if you love him, don't give up and constantly find ways to prove it to him. Otherwise it'll be deja vu all over again.
Good luck hun :)
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