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you see...i've known this guy since the summer..hes 3 years older then me but he always said it doesnt matter! he lives near me and we went before for about a week. and then i got grounded and couldnt see him or talk to him so he dumped me. after that we started fighting more and more. but everytime we would be friends again. it was no big deal but now its getting worse and ive liked him ever since the summer and there feelings wont seem to go away. i feel like he doesnt even like me. he already likes another girl but hes always saying that he will always have feelings for me and he does. and everytime we hang out all we do is kiss and stuff..but his profile and away messages always have different girls in them saying that he loves them and that hes always thinking about them! and when alot of people are around he doesnt even talk to me! it seems like hes using me but what could he be using me for?? i know your probably going to say for me to get over him and jsut stop talking to him but i cant! i really like him...i need to know what i should say to him or ask him i live right near him and hes also a really good friend and really fun person to talk too! so i dont know what to do i cant just STOP talking to him! but i like him more then a friend. and he says the same about me. we dont go to the same school but he hooked up with a couple of my friends weeks ago. one of them was one of my closest friends and he stopped talking to me and started talking to her.i was really jealous. and then he hooked up with my other friend and i was even more jealous but NOW hes talking to my other friend that I introduced him to! she said she wouldnt hook up with him but THAT was when she had a boyfriend and her boyfriend dumped her a few days ago and then she asked him to be her special and only valentine! and hes mine too...but he also has a valentine which is the girl he likes. i really need advice!! what should i do? PLEASE I NEED HELP! i cant stand it anymoree!! i rate!
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woah thats a little confusing for me but i'm going to try and help. i think if yall kiss and stuff yall r probley like friends with benifits and i no you can't stop talking to him so don't. you and him seem to be really close. what i would do is stop introducing him to your friends if your getting jelous. well hes a guy and hes probley trying to find the right girl right now and hes just getting a little confused thats why he wants to muliply his girls if you know what i mean.
hoped i helped
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I know how you feel I was in that same situation when I was younger. The only good adivise I could give u is to think of all the bad things he put you through since you have known him your heart will eventually change and you won't feel so strong for him. i suggest typing in google broken heart you can find sites that will help you get over him.
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oh, god... i would pack my bags and move to hawaii if i were you.
but since that's not possible, lets deal with the situation.
okay, from what i can get, you REALLY REALLY like him even though he treats you bad most of the time and blows you off for other girls and countless other things.
he has a commitment problem and loves to flirt, so i think the best way i can think of to deal with this is to go right up to him and tell him that you're tired of him doing this to you and you want to know right then and there how he really feels about you.
I know you don't want anyone to tell you this but i can't help it cuz it so true: if you don't get over him, you'll be miserable for as long as you like him. And he might do something one day that will kill your heart and make you unable to love again. Please try to get over him and then you'll be able to be friends like you wanted and he won't really be able to hurt you anymore.
Hope things work out for you.
*Diamyn*
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Well you should get over him.. but you dont want to do that so you cant really just get over him.. its going to take time for that to happen.. its not going to happen over night.. im sorry that this is going on but maybe talk to him about how you feel.. and maybe your too young for him or something.. and maybe your friends like him too maybe you should talk to your friends too about this and how you feel about it but dont tell em that your jealous cause girls are always wanting drama and they'd probably do it even more.. but if you care bout this guy also you'd want him happy with or without going with you.. you'd let him be with who he wants.. and yes it will hurt if that happens.. but he apparently dont like you enough to want to be with you *not something you wanted to hear i know* but its tru.. if he liked you as much as he talks he'd be with you and chillin with you not your friends.. but i sould try to move on and talk to someother guy and see what happens from there.. i know i didnt help that much but i tried hun..~*DEZ*~ Much Luv
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