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I need Help..Sad,hurt, and confused
Heres whats going on...see theres this guy I really like and we go to school together and we have known eachother for over 3 months now and we went out on dates and everything like that and when we went on our first date afterwards he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes and then the next day he told me it was a mistake and that he came on to me to fast and well we hung out some more and everything and we hang out everyday at school because we have to classes out of 4 together and he gets mad whenever someone asks him if me and him are dateing because we kinda act like we are like by flirting and everything and well on our second date we held hands and then the next day he told me once again that he thought it was a mistake and that he was just trying to make me happy by holding my hand and like one minute he says that he likes me more then a friend and then the next minute he says he only likes me for a friend "For Now" I mean I dont know what I should do...because he is playing all of these childish games with me and if anyone could help me out with this it would help me out so much...If any guys out there who reads this knows whats going on with this dude and why hes doing me like this please help me out...Because I dont know if I should stick around or move on and find someone else...thanks to anyone who answers this for me...sorry its so long!!
Signed:Sad, Hurt, And Confused
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it seems like this guy doesnt even know what he wants, every time he makes a move, he says its a mistake, just ask him what he wants. Does he want to stay friends or does he want you to become gf/bf but later and not so fast?
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Dear sad, hurt, and confused, He is playing a games somewhat if you act as if you are not intrested in him he will come crawling to u i suggest ignoring him and see what he does all the same i would just give up and stop talking to him
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I know exactly what you mean even though my situation was a bit differnt i still no my ex told me the same stuff though we ended up going out for a while he still says he likes me but no but yes but no. i think maybe you guys could just be friends with benefits you know since you seem so close just if your scared talk to him will he protect you, dance with you if u have no one to dance with ect. It's called a GOOD friend, and for now go explore some other guys if he comes to you and he seems serious than go ahead and give it a try, always believe in chances. Guys and thier hormones...you'll never know. lol. Hope i helped.
X3 Addy X3
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try talking to him, he obviously likes you as more than a friend. maybe he's just afraid of commitment or something like that.
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If this guy is telling one thing after the other, it tells you that he doesn't know how he feels about you. You could just wait until he figures out his feelings for you but that may take a while. If he told you that it was a mistake of asking you out because he came on to you too fast, then it's probably true. You should talk to him and ask him why he tells you different things such as liking you one day and then saying he only likes you as a friend, for now. Tell him that if he doesn't know how he feels about you that you will move on. You should move on and find someone else, rather than waiting for him to figure out how he feels about you. Just decide what you want to do and go for it.
-Karen
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it's alrite dat it's long lol. i think he likes but he's not sure. or may b he likes you but he doesn't no if u like him or how 2 act around u. ask him watz up wit him? does he like u as a friend or more than a friend? i hope i helped!
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forget him. he obviously has commitment issues.
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