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hiya, my friend has just recently got a new boyfriend. she has had one before and had sex and her mum didnt no. im scared she will have sex again beacuse today she said to her other friend that she did something with him, and im thinking it may well be sex, cos she sed she was in a shed (by theirselves).

anyone give me advice plze?
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thats her business, and just because they were in a shed doesnt mean they fucked, so first off.. dont assume

just ask her, and if it really makes you so uncomfortable that shes doing things with guys that you wouldnt, just talk to her..



You are a hoe. How do you not feel like one after you were fingered with four fingers? Do you know that it is bad for your vagina and you will not be able to have babies now. You stretched your cevix too far and it won't go back and then all of these diseases will get up there and you will die of vagina cancer!
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wowwwwwwwwww! okay, it deffinatly wasnt my problem because i was yelling and screaming at this guy to stop i never was pleasured out of it obviously if i said i fucking ripped, dumbass. dont come on here and tell me that..

HEY DID YOU KNOW YOUR CEVIX GOES BACK TO THE SAME SIZE EVERY 4 DAYS?! dumbass

youre pathetic, grow up


i`ve never shaved 'down there'..i`m scared i`ll get razor burn, but it really bugs me and i want it all gone..without getting it waxed. Does using shaving cream keep it from no razor burn? what else could i use so i dont get it, because i`m in a swim class at my school..and i really dont want red bumps to be visible. i use a venus razor, if that counts for anything.. (link)
it really doesnt matter what razor you use..
buttt-
if it bothers you, just shave it.. just not often and you wont get razor burn, i usually shave once a week and it works fine, i have only gotten razor burn once.. and im 16 so realllly.. its not as bad as people make it to be, if you are that sexually active where you need to shave like 3 times a week. thats your prob., i cant help you there.. just tell the guy to get over it, but besides that.. just forget about it, and SHAVE IT OFF!


ok over the summer i was raped by this kidthat i was kinda friends with but not like best friends but i didn trust him and we were at a block party and he was like "do u want to go see my new computer?" and i was like "okay?"
and so when we got there he like locked the door and pulled out a condom and pushed me down and wouldnt let me go. i said no over and over again but he wouldnt stop. then i started cutting myself and crap bc my parents like beat me and cps is even involved with my family...so i cant tell them bc they wont believe me. i still cut and i dont know how to deal with the rape bc thats all i ever think about and i dont know what i can do. (i dont know where he is now and i dont know his last name and there is no proof so i cant press charges) what else can i do to deal with this?
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i wish i could help you.. but i dont know what to say! my best friend was raped when she was 13 last year in 8th grade.. and the same thing happened, there were people in the room but she was drugged and drunk so she didnt really remember much.. she also slit her wrist and still has scars, ive done that before and got out of it
but trust me, the least you can do is stop hurting yourself.. its for the better.. scream or hit something when you feel angry or stressed, dont cut yourself because it leaves horrible scars mental and physical..
this guy, we knew who he was and where he was and all, but he got in a car accident in the middle of the court case, so i dontk now how to help you there

just keep your thoughts written down and always remember while your doing that that its not your fault....♥


Ok, I'm not entirely sure if this is the right category, but yeah. So I was sitting with my Girl on the porch, and she was kinda Lying kinda sitting on me, with her back toward me, and I had my arm around her, and she grabbed my arm and put it down her top onto her breast, (This is while I was nibbling on her ear... I'm 17 and not really skilled in this area.. What am I supposed to do? (link)
try things out! it will be fun.. most girls i know will let you know if they arent enjoying something, or you can tell yourself if they aren't.. just do what youre comfortable with though, if she pushes you to far a lot of things can go wrong. i dont think theres anything else you can DO to prepare or whatever for this sort of thing.. you just gotta try things out


i once got fingered and bleeded a lot and i was told my hymen broke but also i had sex for the first time a while ago and i bleed a lot as well my and my bf were wondering how that is still possible ...and we want to have sex again but we are scared if it happens again..do i have to worry also say it is normal how many times do i need to have sex before i know it wont bleed anymore. thank u. (link)
dont worry much about it! i was once fingered with four fingers and my hymen didnt break and i still bleed[not to mention did that HUrt like hell or what!?]but you can bleed from more then just your hymen breaking, anyways.. my friend who has had sex also said that it takes a couple times for it to completely break.. so if your still bleeding after quite a few times.. then see a doctor! but for now, dont even worry about it!



I LOVE YOU KRISTA!
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lol, go my first question.. YES




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