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hiya
hiya, my friend has just recently got a new boyfriend. she has had one before and had sex and her mum didnt no. im scared she will have sex again beacuse today she said to her other friend that she did something with him, and im thinking it may well be sex, cos she sed she was in a shed (by theirselves).
anyone give me advice plze?
thanxz x x x x
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Well, I understand how you feel, but you can't make the decision for her whether or not shes having sex. You can upfront with her and ask her if she is having sex and if she's using protection. If she isn't using protection, THAT would be an issue. Talk to her and help her make sure that shes doing the right thing, be her friend, you may not like what shes doing, but you have to be there for her,I'm sorry to tell you that, but thats the truth.
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Victoria
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thats her business, and just because they were in a shed doesnt mean they fucked, so first off.. dont assume
just ask her, and if it really makes you so uncomfortable that shes doing things with guys that you wouldnt, just talk to her..
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Ryan: Why does it bother you that they are having sex? Are you jealous?
Elke: *Not around*
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you need to tell your friend about the risk of and if she doesnt want to hear it then you have to let her learn from her mistakes.
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if you really care about your friend and you're worried of what might happen to her, oyu should confront her on it.. Just tell her your feelings on the subject, and let her know you're worried! also you should suggest going to the gynocologist incase anything would happen..(incase she hasn't already..) if you want to make sure she's safe and nothing happens you really just need to talk to her about it!
Hope i helped!!
--KaSS
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why exactly are you worrying about this? this is her buisness and i dont think you should be asking ?s about her
♥ kellie ♥
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nOt tO be rude but why does this really concern yu?? if she wants to have sex thats her business she'll probably regert it but she choice.. just make sure she uses protection.. thats all yu can really do --NOT BEING MEAN--! xO
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well, it might not be sex. They ould have done anything ... oral sex, masturbation, they could be just making out. I think that you should concentrate more on you then your friend though. I mean, dont become self involved ... but let your friend make her own decisions. Just make sure she is being safe
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wait i think that ur a bit jelous so get over it ..
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and sex is something horrible? how bout an age or something? cuz if shes 16 or something then its normal to be having sex already. if shes like 13 then yeah its early but all this also depends on the state. all in all let her live her life if you care jsut make sure shes using protection thats all you can do.
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i dont see how thats any of your business. what she does behind closed doors is her business. just let it go, if she wants to have sex, she going to have sex. i mean face it, you cant exactly stop her.
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Well this is your friends business.. let her do what she wants i mean you cant exactly stop her...~*DEZ*~ Thuggirl041790
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ask her what she did and when she tells you maybe you can tell her mom and ask her to keep it confedential that you told! this is really tough!! hope this helps!! sorry if it doesn't!
~Alyssa
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I don't mean to be rude, but why does it matter? Let her live her life and endure the consequences. I realize you're worried about her so try sitting her down and remind her of what could happen. Other than that there isn't much you can do but support her decisions. Hope i helped
PEACE
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