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Question Posted Wednesday February 2 2005, 10:22 pm

ok with every guy ive dating they have been touchy and lovey and stuff but this one guy now is just so shy and wont open up how do i get him to and be touchy and huggy and affectionate?

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Cath answered Thursday February 3 2005, 9:59 pm:
Hi Sweetie,
My ex was the shy type (well I was his first girlfriend so I understand). My current boyfriend is... well... he gets touchy and affectionate quicker than my ex. I can totally understand wqhat you are saying though. My ex never asked for a kiss or tried to kiss me... (we weren't together that long anyway... but my current boyfriend kissed me the day after we got togeher). Since your guy is shy you will have to be initiate some affection. Maybe when he walks you to class or when you are saying goodbye or something... you can ask him if you can give him a hug. Then next time he'll probably ask for one. If he doesn't then slowly start making it like a costumery thing to hug when you guys say goodbye. At first you may be in that stage for a while... but he'll strat opening up and getting more affectionate.
My best wishes to you two! ~Blessed Be...

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mascott106 answered Thursday February 3 2005, 8:36 pm:
well he might think that youre really preety and he might offend you or soemthing. you should like, be huggy and affectionate to him and them maybe he will do the same for you.

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lilchica answered Thursday February 3 2005, 1:41 pm:
you have to give him time and patience.

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twynelyne answered Thursday February 3 2005, 2:15 am:
tell him your thoughts, if that doesn't work, try to be a little towards him the way u want him to be around u..
if u want him to puts his arms around u, place his arms around u..just stuff like that. good luck and hope i helped
please rate - AMANDA

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IPIiINIkI_my_anti_drug answered Thursday February 3 2005, 1:09 am:
Have you talked to him about it? Maybe he needs to be more comfprtable around you!
&heats; Michelle

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Teza answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 11:38 pm:
maybe he hasnt had that many g/f`s before and i think that you should make the first move. he prolly really likes yu and doesnt wanna mess up !x0

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cheerldrgurl answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 11:03 pm:
maybe you should try to make the first move. maybe he hasnt had that many girlfriends and hes somewhat new to everything. you should let him know that you dont care and he can be affectionate towards you.hope i helped.

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DrummeR4LifE answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 10:56 pm:
maybe he really likes you, and he wants to take it slow so that he wont ruin the relation ship between you, but by opening him up more... maybe talk to him about personal things that you wouldnt mind telling him and maybe hang around him like youve known eachother for years.
just take it slow with him.
good luck!
Nat xoxo

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