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Friend has gone bizzerk
Ok well Ive had this good friend for awhile (not too long) and before everything was fine... But she has been getting on my nerves like crazy for the past months. I'm having this party with only girls and it should be really fun.. but I dont want her to come.. I'm afriad she's going to find out and feel hurt. All i want is someway for her to get plans so she wont be able to come! But i know that I cant set that up! I need advice and not something like "tell her how you feel" BECAUSE THATS NOT AN OPTION
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Honestly, have a party and dont invite her, see what happens!
♥ Michelle
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Yes, we have all been in the situation. If u really dont want her there. dont invite her, that simple, just make sure u tell the people who are invited 2 keep their mouth shut!
- katie
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Tell her how you feel.
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if its a small party- then dont invite her if you dont want to, and if she finds out, tell her that your parents would only allow a certain number of people whos parents they are familiar with. if its like a big party, and you dont want to invite her, either tell her that shes annoyin you or try to make her bust that day by settin her up on a date with one of your guy friends. im sure you can find plenty of stuff to keep er busy. hope this helps!
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is it a big party or a small party? if its a big one just go ahead and invite her, i mean its not like she`ll be tagging along with you the whoooole night. but if its a small party, dont tell her, and if she ends up finding out say your parents only let you invite a certain amount of people, and they didnt kno you well enough and i didnt tell you because i thought youd be mad.
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Why is it not an option? I always tell my friends if they are getting on my nerves, but I don't rant. I tell them exactly what they are doing, and request them to stop. If she is really your 'good friend,' then why don't you want to invite her, and why are you so chicken? If you don't get her to stop whatever she's doing, she'll just keep getting on your nerves until you can't stand it and blow up.
That probably wasn't what you wanted to hear, but the truth hurts.
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invite her to the party. i understand shes bothering you, but its a party, and you'll have other friends there with you. put yourself in her position. she obviously doesn't know shes bothering you, so when she finds out, she'll be an emotional mess of anger, confusion, and that terrible feeling of being left out. shes your good friend, on your nerves or not.
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