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Plez help!
I love to go out with my friends all the time, we go to dances, out to the mall, and stuff like that but latley my mom has been asking me to take my sister with me. ITs kind of anoying because when i go out with my friends im with a whole group of guys and girls, and i dont always want my sister near me. I mean i love her to death but im sick of my mom asking me if she can come. What do i do?
(14/f)
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Hey I know how hard it is having to take your sister every you go. Trust I have to do the same thing every other time. But I think you should tell your mom that you need your space. Explain why you need your space to, otherwise it won't ever work. Just trust on this one, Ive done it a couple of times. Lol, well tell me how the results go
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I know that it could be hard sometimes with siblings, but what i think you should do is give up going out w/ friends mayb 3 times a month to do something with your sister instead of taking her with you when you just want to be with your friends. It will give you your space and still please your mom & sister. (oo yea but 1st see what your mom thinks!)
hope i can help!
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tell your mom you need space
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Tell her how it is.. just make sure your not rude or mean about it.. jus talk to her about it and how you want to go out with your friends with out her.. tell every now and then wouldbe okay but not all the time.. get your lil sister to make friends her own age and go out with them.. ~*DEZ*~ ThugGirl041790
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Just simply explain to your mom, that although you love your sister to death, adn love spending time with her, you just need time to be yourself with your friends, adn that its kind of uncomfortable having your sister with you. if the talk goes well she should get the hint..
but anyways, every now and then just go to the mall or hang out or something JUST with your sister, so then your mom really cant blame you when you dont want her to go out with you and your friends..
hope tht helped!
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Try talking to your mom and explain to her how, despite the fact that you do love your sister to death, you'd rather the time you're out with your friends be spent with JUST your friends and preferably not members of your family. If she says no or something, be sure to figure out why because she may have a good reason for sending your sister with you. But if not, just explain to her how you feel without being disrespectful and she might change her mind.
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Well I'm not sure what I'd do but I think that I'd talk to my mom in private and ask her that if you take your sister to places then your mom should let you go by yourself sometimes! It's only fare.I really hope this helps!!!!!
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what you need to do is go straight to your mom and tell her how you feel. tell her that whenever your out with your friends you want to go alone, and that maybe once a month or something you and your sister can go oout together and have fun on your own. Maybe your mom doesnt know how your feeling. goood luck! :D
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