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my poor friend Ok weell my Friend Jazzy has all of sudden become weight concious. Whenever me and my friends would go to the pool she would always complain about how fat she was and everything. I mean i no its normal to do this but once the school year has started she has still never stopped. Whenever i was wearing a mini skirt she would always complain on how her legs are too fat. I feel really bad though because she isnt fat and im scared that she will want to be around us again, because thats the impression were getting! plez help!!
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welll i think yu n yur frii3nds shud talk to Jazzy n tell her to stop wOrrying to much! the more yu worry the more yu believe it! i just think yur frii3nd shud not just stop eatiinq its not healthy just make sure she keeps eatiinq or yu mite lose her.. tell her that yull help her by excersisiinq with her n stuff! tell her thats she really pretty n not fat..
maybe she just feels like this because she doesnt have a b*f <--if she does ignore this!
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She's a teen. when u r a teenager, ur brain is at the most emotional point of your life. (school, dont ask). All you can do if she's not listening to you is wait for her to shut up and stop complaining. (and i mean that in the nicest way, its just that, if she were actually fat, it would be one thing, but she's not, so...) ]
Ok, if u are scared that she will want to hang wround with you, then maybe you shouldn't be friends with her, and she can be with friends who understand her wanting to get attention. Just sympathize w/ her, and pretend to care, and if you get sick of it, just ignore it. Hopefully, she'll drop it if she realizes you don't want to talk about it. ]
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