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Q: im a guy who is shy and i like this girl who is like my best friend and i want to have a bigger relationship with her, what should i do to get her attention? please help!! thanks
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Kinda subtly let her know that your single, hang out with her more, give her more of your attention, etc. If she doesn't already have a bf, you could talk to her or ask her out if you think you could. If not, just spend more time with her, and talk to her more. Hope I could help!
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Q: my friend is depressed. she always tells me her problems and itold her to get therapy bcuz it helps and ive been through it. but after i tell her this she always says "see thats why i cant count on you. you never help me with my problems" she always makes me feel so guilty. How can i help her?
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Just be her therapist. Since you've already gone through it, you can just tell her what your therapist said to you. I'm like a therapist to my friends, and it might get annoying after awhile, but if you don't want to do that, you just have to tell them you're not a professional, and explain how they helped you, if you haven't done that yet. There probably isn't a good way to get her off your back, if that's what you are terying to do, at least, not a nice way, but you could say I'm sick of your complaining, you need to see a professional, but that sounds mean. If you just really want to help, the thing she probably needs most is just a friend to listen. You can't solve all her problems for her, because you probably wont be able to do that her whole life for her. Just listen, and do the things to her your therapist did for you. Hope i could help!
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Q: okay big health project and the question is what turns a girl on about a guy?
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first things girls notice are hair, smile, and eyes. Always. But girls like guys that are funny, nice, and have a hot body. But just becasue a guy is hot, doesn't mean a girl will go out w/ him if he doesn't have a good personality
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Q: how can i lose weight by watching what i eat and excersing but sometimes i have a hard time not eating what i usally eat and its not very healthy. so how can i mangage what i eat?
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You might not have to stop eating all junk food or anything, just try and cut back. Drink more water, and burn more calories, and that can help burn off any extra fat you can get from eating foods that are bad for you. Hope it works out!
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Q: ok, so this is the deal..i met this wonderful guy this summer, but he has a GF. Anyway, we spent 6 weeks together and we made out, held hand and all that (IT WAS WONDERFUL!) please dont tell me what i did was wrong, i know it was but i dont care cuz i love him, i really do. And he's told me that he loves me too. We made a deal yesterday (he's been with his GF for about 2 years, and he says he loves her too) he said, he doesnt want to cheat on her anymore cuz he loves her but if the feeling is right-something could happen between us this summer. And i was like: what do you mean? and he asnwered: well, im gonna have my place all to my self this summer soo..who knows what could happen between us!? ;) anyway, i live in japan and he lives in america so we only see eachother during the summer. Hmm, id ont really know what my question is..im just so cofused..i love him so much, and i miss him..i really dont give a damn about his GF (i know i sound like an evil person, but i really really really love him, i cant help i.)Is there anything i can do to get over him? should i even try to get over him? should i sleep with him? (he's 18 and im 14) what's gonna happen between us? ( sorry, i know you cant answer that question) he's just so amazing i dont know what to do. Alot of guys like me here in japan, but i dont like anyone of them im just soo stuck on joshua.
Help! please?- mariana
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okay, you asked alot of things, so i have alot of answers.
1. There are things you can do to get over him. Hang out with friends, go out with a guy back in japan, eat chocolate, just go on living life the way you normally would've
2. yes, you should try to get over him, because it sounds like (to me anyway) that he isn't going to be your bf, he just wants to sleep with you.
3. NO, you should not sleep with him, because doing so will probably not get him to be your bf, becasue he's already told you he doesn't want to break up w/ his gf, and besides, he is 4 years older than you
4. I can't say what is going to happen to you, but i can guess. If you do see him again (i don't know if you guys made plans, or you might accidently hopefully see him again), he might've moved on, or be happier w/ his gf. i mean, there's a chance that, over the year, he broke up with her, but i dont know
5. I realize you only had four questions, but i'm just going to summarize it, becasue it was really long (sorry about that). I don't think he's right for you. It seems he's just using you, and all he wants is too sleep with you! I mean, he's 4 years older than you! Do you really think he'd keep you as a gf while in college? (not to sound mean) Besides, he already has a gf. All you can really do is try to get over him. I hope i helped!
Oh, btw, i looove your name! It sounds really awesome! Mariana! Lol, just thought I'd tell you.
Hope everything works out for the best!
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Q: Ok here's the deal....I like this kid named Brett we are going out and stuff i think he likes my friend,Kalysta but he says he likes me my friend kalysta likes him.What can i do???
Please help because i ♥ him,
Confused
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maybe you should just keep kalysta away from brett whenever you are with him. just dont hang out w/ both of them at the same time. Hope that makes sense.
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Q: Tonight I'm going with a few friends to see a scary movie. My boyfriend is going to try to come behind his parents back to go with me. This one guy that I know who really really likes me is also going, and I kinda like him. What should I do because I'd rather cuddle with my guy friend than my boyfriend. Help!!
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If you'd rather be with your guy friend who you know likes you, then maybe you DO need to break up with your bf. But if you still like your bf, then just tell him, "You shouldn't come, becasue if you get caught your parents will ground you," or something like that so he wont come.
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Q: 17/f...anyways i like this guy and his name is james.... i texted him on valentines day and whatever and then he told me to call him tomorow so i called the next day and he didnt answer so i tried later that night and the same thing happened he was probably workinbg or had class....anyways i didnt leavea message eventho i probably should have so my question is should i try calling him again tomorow and if he doesnt answer leave a message?
im really confused because people are telling me to do different things..and my past with him is a long story so please any advice would be helpful
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You should call again, and this time, leave a message. Since you didn't leave a message the 1st time, he might not know it was you (unless it was his cell). Just be like hey, just calling to talk, but since your not hear, i'll talk to your machine(or some line that suits ur personality), so call me back at ..... I Hope This Helped!
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Q: we are doing a brosure for class on a planet and my planet is mercury and i put "Come and swim the nice beaches of Mercury. It gets very hot so
come and get a nice tan and make sure to bring sunblock too! Make sure to pack for very hot weather. You can go scuba diving, swimming,
surfing, build sand castles, meet a bunch of new people, or just play a simple and fun game of volleyball and hang out with your friends. At
night you can have a fire and roastmarshmellows and relax the night away! This will be a trip you will be sure to never forget! Garenteed.You
can stay at The Beach Front Hotel or The Merc Motel. .. how does that sound to you? I have to have 4 more sentences could someone help me?
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Well it depends on what grade you're in. If you're in like 7th grade or above, you probably want more facts, like actual temperatures. If you aren't then it sounds good. Not to sound mean or anything, it's just that like teachers on different grades grade differently, you know? You could say like at night, the planet cools down to a whole 600 degrees farenheit!(dont use that number, i just made it up. But if it sounds kinda sarcastic, it'll sound funny. I hope i helped!
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Q: My aunt and uncle are going to my grandma's house from like 4-1 am (certain reason) my bf can come over we've been going out for 5 months and havent made out.. how can i lead him into that
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If this isn't too forward for you, just be like, my parents are gonna be gone at 4-1 am, you wanna come over? if that time wont work, just try another time when maybe his parents aren't home.
*Sorry! He might get the hint just from that though. Ok, try this: have like music or something in the backround, or like a movie or sumthin, and then be like holding his hand and stuff. Or like at the end of the night, kiss him "good-night", but just hold it longer, or deepen it yourself Hope THIS helped this time!
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Q: My bf and i were making out when he started to slide his hand up my shirt. We had to stop suddenly after though, cuz my sister came in. Does this mean he wants to go farther? How can i show to him I'm ready? We've been going out for 4 months, btw.
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IF you think you're ready, the next time you guys are making out, you need to make the move, and run you hands over his shirt.
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Q: Ok weell my Friend Jazzy has all of sudden become weight concious. Whenever me and my friends would go to the pool she would always complain about how fat she was and everything. I mean i no its normal to do this but once the school year has started she has still never stopped. Whenever i was wearing a mini skirt she would always complain on how her legs are too fat. I feel really bad though because she isnt fat and im scared that she will want to be around us again, because thats the impression were getting! plez help!!
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Ok, if u are scared that she will want to hang wround with you, then maybe you shouldn't be friends with her, and she can be with friends who understand her wanting to get attention. Just sympathize w/ her, and pretend to care, and if you get sick of it, just ignore it. Hopefully, she'll drop it if she realizes you don't want to talk about it.
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Q: okay, i would REALLY like to shed a few pounds and get a nice flat stomach for spring break. I always tell myself that im gonna eat less & drink more water, but i never do, and i get a guilty conscience because i cant ever follow through with my goals. What are some tips that could really inspire me to want to be skinny & loose weight..everytime i start working out it only goes on for about a week..and then i`ll skip a day and say 'well i`ll do it tomorrow, i`m busy tonight" and then never do it the next day, and it just keeps going on and on til i forget about it. im really desperate, anything will help
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one word for you, procrastinator!!! you could like make a chart, and take it with you everywhere, and just look at it everytime you eat, to see if u can eat it, if you haven't already eaten enough or sumthin, or you can just ask a friend to take ur food away and eat it at lunch.
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Q: 15/f What are some good movies to watch @ a party?
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depends on what u like. A cinderella story (Chad) pirates of the Caribbean (Orlando) white chicks (just because) um... oo, i loved bend it like beckham (that one guy in it's hot, the coach!) lol. wait, why wasn't i invited? Jk! have fun @ ur par-tay! lol.
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Q: Ok, i'll get to the point. My friend has all these new friends this year, and she seems to wanna hang w/ them more than she would with me. what do i do?
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Just make new friends. u'll be all alone if u have no one 2 hang with, and if she doesn't mean to disclude you, then she'll just get a taste of her own medicine!
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Q: I know i asked this last night, but i have a reaaally hard time finding any sheet music for straylight run songs. Does anyone who didn't answer me last night have any other ideas?
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how is that an advice question? but anyway, just look for a store online or sumthin. just do a web search, and u r bound to find it. if not, check e-bay. ah, the miracle of the internet!
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Q: what is a good way to ask a heavy metal guy to a prom?! and when should i ask him cuz our prom is in may.
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can you say: planning tooo far ahead?
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Q: ok, everytime i start to like a guy, i tell myself im not good enough, and i wonder why any guy would want to be with me. im 14 and have never had a real boyfriend, but i desperately want one. and when i finally do start to think im good enough for the guy, i woory about what his friends and my friends would think... i just dont know what to do...
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It's because u worry too much. see it from this point of view: im not good enough for you, please dont go out with me.
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Q: 18/f. what can i give my bf for valentine's day? we've been going out for 4 months, but i dont just wanna get him chocolate.
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It depends on how close you are. if you are close enough, u could take it to the next level, if you know what i mean ;)if you aren't, you could just get him like a shirt, or a movie he really likes, or something. hope i helped
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Q: Hey, this is mainly a question for girls. Alright, I have shaving gel, shaving cream, everything and everything to make shaving easier..and my legs smoother. EVERYtime I shave, which is usually during my shower, the day after..I have razor burn. It is..disgusting. Little red dots, and hairs..are already all over my pale legs. Is there ANYTHING I can do to prevent this? After I use a shaver three times, I have to get a new blade..is this normal? Becase..otherwise, the third time I use it, my legs get cut everywhere, and bleed. It suckssss. Help me, please. :/ Thankss.
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Get razors with the strip of lotion stuff built in, and it shouldn't hurt as bad.
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I like giving advice, so ask me. But if you have a stupid question, i'll give you a stupid answer! No really, try me!
*Not all Dumbs are Blonde
*Why are you reading this?
*I didnt loose my mind, I sold it on eBay
*Never put a coat of nail varnish on before taking off the one under. This is the key to leading a successful life my friend.
*I'm Out To Conquer The World......Ooooo Look Something Shinny!!!
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Gender: Female Member Since: January 16, 2005 Answers: 29 Last Update: April 13, 2005 Visitors: 3510
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