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Tonight I'm going with a few friends to see a scary movie. My boyfriend is going to try to come behind his parents back to go with me. This one guy that I know who really really likes me is also going, and I kinda like him. What should I do because I'd rather cuddle with my guy friend than my boyfriend. Help!!
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you tell the boyfiend you just want to be friends and then date them both.
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i would tell your guy friend i like you and all but i would like to spend this night with my boy friend watching a movie together but we could still be friends and i wouldn't dump your boy friend for your guy friend because your boy friend might get offended and start trouble with your guy friend you have known your boy friend forever and you to love eachother and i'm sure your boyfriend doesn't want to loose you.
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if this is true than i think you might need to be open about it to your friend and tell him that you are having feelings for him, if you are, if you change your mind than dont tell him because he will have gotten his hopes up
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This prolly isn't what you want to hear but i wouldn't go. One of my friends was in the same sitch and wow... it did NOT go well. Maybe you could reshedule it for next weekend and break up with your bf over the week. But don't invite him to the movie. If you were cuddling with ur guy friend RIGHT after you broke up with your bf in front of your bf, it'd look really bad. hope i helped! ♥
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thats a really hard decision! guys are really confusing! but if you have a boyfriedn... stick with him.. chances are hes not going ot blow u off since you are "going out and all" and r you 100% sure this other guy likes you? because if he doesnt you may end up getting yourself into a not so hott situation.. hope i helped a little...
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If you'd rather be cuddling your guy friend, then you should dump you bf, because your guy friend already really really likes you, and apparently you like him back.
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dumpin your boyfriend would be the better idea...you dont want to be known for cheating. If you have stronger feelings for your guy friend then you do for your boyfriend then that would be the better choice.
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well this is an interesting situation. save your boyfriend the trouble of going behind his parents back and let him go so u wont be cheating on him. hope i helped! <3
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Then why are you going out with your boyfriend? You're dumb.
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If he goes behind his parents back, get rid of him. That's not exactly an example of high morals. If you want a guy who'll stay with you, get a guy who'll obey his parents. If he doesn't obey his parents, what's to say he isn't going to cheat on you? I know that's an assumption, just food for thought on your part. If your "guy friend" has a better standard of morals (which is largely ignored in this country) than your boyfriend, go for him. But let your boyfriend down easy, don't just walk up and say "I hate you" then walk off.
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If you'd rather be with your guy friend who you know likes you, then maybe you DO need to break up with your bf. But if you still like your bf, then just tell him, "You shouldn't come, becasue if you get caught your parents will ground you," or something like that so he wont come.
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Well Just try and convince your boyfriend that you dont want him to go cuz you care about him and you really dont want him to get caught cuz that'd suck big time!! Maybe this is calling for you to break up. And take a break. No matter how it may be to talk to your boyfriend about that it may have to be done. I broke up with my bf just telling him it was break.. and i ended up meeting someone awesome 3 weeks after me and that guy took a break and i ended going out with this new guy 2 months later and i spent 10 amazing and unforgetable months with. So my point is that you could take a break with your bf and spend amzing and unforgetable moments with this friend of yours. Thers always.. usually.. good that comes outta bad. So a break just might be good-trix
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Well, since your guy friend really likes you and you kind of like him, then you should go with your instinct and dump your boyfriend for your friend. Make sure he will go out with you when you dump your boyfriend. Cuddling with a guy before you break up with your boyfriend is sort of cheating in my opinion so dump your boyfriend and go with your friend.
-Karen
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Well I think instead of 'cheating' by cuddling with the guy friend instead, you would be better off breaking up with your boyfriend. But make sure the guy friend likes you. But seriously whether or not the guy friend likes you, if you no longer have those positive feelings for your boyfriend, then break up with him before you really hurt him. You shouldn't be with him if you don't truly care, or at least if you don't care the way he does. Break up with him. Then if the guy friend likes you, have your fun. But don't do it unless you break up with the guy you're with now!!
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