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I AM CURRENTLY TAKING APPLICATIONS FOR A GUY THAT IS REAL, HAS GOOD TASTE IN MUSIC, AND CAN SCREAM IN MY EAR. IS THAT A LOT TO ASK?
Member Since: January 16, 2005
Answers: 16
Last Update: March 18, 2005
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i'm goin out with this boy and he likes me but i hav a crush on someone else. what should i do? i want to break up with him but i'm too afraid i'd hurt his feelings. (link)
You have to decide who is more important to lose. Pick the person you know youd be most happy with!


hey! I've been with my boyfriend for a while now...and he wants to have sex. I want to make him happy, but I just dont know if we're ready yet...what should i do? (link)
If you're not ready just dont do it. If he loves you he'd respect that. But if you BOTH are then thats all up to you =)


Well .. i like this boy and we were talking for about 2 weeks -- not very long but yeah .. and i like him ALOT .. what should i do ?? And everytime i try to call now he wont answer his cell phone or his home phone . i don't even know what i did to make him hate me .
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(( What should i do ? )) (link)
Well you dont want to chase him away! IF he wants to talk to you or get to know you let him make the move! if not i donno what to tell you. Make sure hes interested or else you're gonna get hurt!! xox


I am in love with this one kid Paul. We have been together for 8 months. But, lately, him and I have been having problems. I dont know wat to do now because i found this other kid that I REALLY REALLY like alot. His name is Mark. He is my friends ex-boyfriend and my other friends best friend. I met the kid and we got really close. I dont know what to do. Because now I dont know if I still love my boyfriend. And also my boyfriend told me I acted like a slut. Also Mark and I are going to Hawaii over the summer. I dont know how to choose. help??
I am 14 and female. (link)
hmm this is tough. You just have to decide whos worth it. If you dump you're current boyfriend make sure its what you really want to do and you wont regret it later! But then if you think Marks the person who will make you happy or someone who is worth the trouble..then go for him! Just make sure you think everything through before making a decision...you dont want to hurt one of the guys PLUS youreself



hey hun well okay im 5'2" and i weigh 110-115 pounds.. and i dont think thats normal cuz all my friends are like the exact same height as me and their all in their 90's and like 105's.. im a weakling so it's not muscle..my mother calls me fat so now im on a diet. an unhealthy one.. i dont know what to do.. (link)
I personally dont think thats fat. But if you want to get down to the weight of you're friends it wont take long. Just do things to loose wait..its not always necessary for a "diet" do you like to run? even if you're a weakling! lol..or dancing...anything to loose that bit of weight! it wont take long!!


Okay well i like a boy and he likes me back but he doesnt want to go out with me...i dont get it! (link)
hmm i dont either? that doesnt make sense but since when DO guys make sense? lol maybe hes just not ready! give it time and keep talking to him..maybe the day will come sometime!!



Ok well I really like this guy who 17 but im 14 and hes black..im not aloud too date some1 black but i am n now i feel guilty..he too mature for me n i dont kno if im ready for it yet..what should i do..dump him or stay with him? (link)
This is up to you sweetie!! you're still young!!! its not time for you to be mature yet anyways! lol! 14 and 17 is a big difference..when does he turn 18? it'd be illegal! But its up to you how much you care/like him!!



I've liked this guy for a very long time and i found out that he likes me to. He wants to talk to me and get to know me better...but every time i try to talk to him i get so nervous that i turn around and walk the other way! He's in my science class and when he looks at me i turn away. i feel so bad cus he thinks i dont wanna talk to him...wht should i do?!? (link)
Dont be so shy!! or he'll KEEP thinking you dont like him or you dont want to talk to him. I had the same problem..its self confidence!! just loosen up a little bit...it gets easier the more you're around him. SO try and get use to it!!



ok heres the problem.. theres this guy at school who ive been friends with for a while and one of my best friends likes him. well one day me and him kissed. it didnt mean anything at the time but now i kinda like him . but my friend likes him too.. what should i do? (link)
these are things i dont know the answer too! Its your decision which is more important ..a guy or you're friend. See how she'd react just bring it up. Be like "what would you do if so and so liked me" or "what would you do if i liked so and so" see what she'd say....if i were you i wouldnt choose a guy over my friend. CHICKS BEFORE D!CKS!!!!




Hello!
For a while i thought it was just normal mood swings ya know? But then they got worse and no one else i know is like this, and whenever im out with friends and having a really good time all the sudden ill just feel really bad for pretty much no reason.

I don't know how i would confront it to someone else, if u sugges on getting help,either

Thank you!(girl, 14) (link)
i would suggest getting help or talking to you're mom or whoever it is you live with. IF i had to guess it sounds like depression -_- so i would deff. get that checked..its easily taken care of!



does mystic tan really work? how much do it cost? thanks J0KiE (link)
i heard that it was a rip off and that you turn orange!!! im not sure how much it costs i've never tried it


ok well my best frined hates my boyfriend and as of right now she refuses to talk to me .. but idk i love him with everything nd i been with him for about 14 months now .. nd i try to explain to her its just hard to get out of a relationship out of nowhere .. but shes so stubburn nd she told me not to talk to her nd i have no respect for myself nd now i have no clue wat to do at all .. do you have any suggestions? (link)
It sounds like shes jealous. I dont think it has to do with you're boyfriend. Ask her straight up if she is. I think thats kinda shady tho..to make you choose and alla that. But maybe she'll come around. Thats a long time to be with your boyfriend..dont drop him out of nowhere..


ok, so this boy i like . we hung out and everything and he sayd he was gunna ask me out , and now he likes this other grl, what should i do or tell him ?
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wow that sucks! He sounds like he doesnt know what he wants-hE doesnt seem worth it if he likes somebody else already. I think you should talk to him about it see if hes confused or if he really has feelings for the other girl. If he does-drop him-and i know..easier said than done but he doesnt seem stable to me.


can you please help me..see theres this boy named alex and i rilly like him and he likes me and we haven't talked since we broke up and we just started talkin 2 days ago. i'm rillly happy thast we are talkin again but i don't kno what to do all of my friends keep asking when hes going to ask me out again and he keeps saying soon but i don't now if i should waint ..i really like him and everything but should i waint? thank you for listing (link)
Thats all up to you sweetie! If you think hes worth it then obviously hes worth the wait! and it does sound like you REALLY like him! But dont wait forever! let him know whats up! tell him you want to be with him and that he needs to make up his mind!


i have a problem. the person i love is in college and i barely get to see him. he doesnt have a cell phone and i barely get to talk to him. but when we're together it feels so right and being we cant talk or see each other only hurts me. what should i do? (link)
I Know distance sucks! but if you two really love/care/want to be with each other then stick with it! it sounds like waiting then being with him is worth it. See how he feels.


okay .. me and my best friends all like the same guy.. and i hooked up with him .. and so now their all mad at me!! . . what should i do ?? thanks so much !!

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Well was it just a one time thing? or do you still want to be with him? I think u should just tell you're friends it was a mistake! Dont let a guy come between you and you're friends!! Theres always someone else out there!




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