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ok, everytime i start to like a guy, i tell myself im not good enough, and i wonder why any guy would want to be with me. im 14 and have never had a real boyfriend, but i desperately want one. and when i finally do start to think im good enough for the guy, i woory about what his friends and my friends would think... i just dont know what to do...
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First thing you need to do is realise that you are a brilliant and unique person. Then that no one is too good for someone else, everyone is equal. Plus hunny, remember that it doesn't matter what any one else thinks, only what you and your guy thinks. I know it's hard, but I'm sure that your guy will be able to reassure you if you ever start to worry. So relax and start to let the real you shine through, then you'll have a boyfriend in no time.
Be happy
Claire xx
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Don't worry about boys so much. And if you're desperate, don't go looking for guys... desperately- you find the worst kinds that way. HOWEVER, if you do find a really great guy who you like for who he is and not just because you want a boyfriend, then date him. Who really cares about what your friends and his friends think? If they were really your friends they'd accept that you have a bf
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It's because u worry too much. see it from this point of view: im not good enough for you, please dont go out with me.
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:( don't EVER tell yourself you're not good enough for someone.Most guys you'll meet won't even be worthy of your presence. Even though you may be desperate for a b/f, pick wisely for someone who will treat you good of course, so you won't feel so bad for yourself.
Don't worry about what others will think. That will not help you at all. Worry about what's best for you and what will make you happy.
Hope everything works out!:D
~Diamyn~
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uMmM FIRST OF ALL dont tell yurself yu rnt gOod enough because yu have many good qualities some guy`sz just dont see because they r ignorant ii think yu shud just take chanche`sz n ask guys out who yu like if yu get rejected then well it happens but mOve on theres plenty fish in the sea!! n some are just right for yu! hOpe this helped xO
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just be yourself. If they don't like you, then they are missing out, and don't beat yourself up about it. Instead of thinking about all the bad things about you, think of the good. If you can't find anything, ask your friends why they like you.
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I think your problem is with self esteem. From what it sounds like, you are a very nice girl. Don't worry what others think. If you really like this guy, go for it. Any boy would be an idiot not to like you. And as far as his friends are concerned, Im sure they will like you. And if they don't its their loss. Don't be influenced by what people think. Feel free to talk to me anytime! Hope my advice helps! And stay confident!!
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number one) who gives what your friends say becuase i mean if they were your friends they would support your 100% number two) you'll never know if your not good enough if you don't put your self out there.
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