Question Posted Wednesday February 2 2005, 5:38 pm
I'm just plain confused. This year all of this boy/girl dating stuff started and I don't know how to make heads or tails of it. I don't know how to ask a guy out, or how to keep from ruining an almost-hookup. I had this crush in the beginning of the year. He liked me too, took me to the dance, and then suddenly the day after the dance he was going out with this other girl. He's still my friend and all. I feel that I have this weird kind of friendship with about 3 guys where i can talk to them over the internet and i feel that they're my friends and all on the internet, but at school they hang out with their friends and nothing happens between us.. we talk a lot on email and it seems we're getting along great..
Can you please help me because i am totally new!
(f/13/7th grade)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? crazykellie2009 answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 9:22 pm: i wouldnt ask a guy out to start off with, that is supposed to be a guys job and dont worry about it, if it is meant to be it will work itself out and your only in 7th grade. im in 8th grade and i dont have a boy friend and im doing fine. having boy friends young just complicate your life. just dont worry about boys now and just concentrate on school and having fun and hanging out with your friends hope that helped
lollypopgurl769 answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 6:58 pm: Aww hey I know exactly how you feel. I was in your position before and I know what you're going through. I was even the same age & I was totally new, too. I say just let it flow. Go with the flow. I learned my lesson, IF YOU WANT SOMETHING, GO OUT AND GET IT. I have a couple of good guy friends too but thats all they are, friends. I don't know exactly what you're trying to ask. If you're asking how to get a boufriend, then just go out and be lirty. Smile, make jokes, listen to them ... that kind of stuff. They'll fall for you, trust me, especially since you're new. If you want to have the guys you are friends went to become closer with you, then ask them to han out sometime or soemthing. Also, flirt with them. You're their friend so it won't be so awkward. If anything just say you were joking.Well I hope I helped, good luck and drop meone in my inbox i you need more help! Later babe! [ lollypopgurl769's advice column | Ask lollypopgurl769 A Question ]
xosweetiepiexo answered Wednesday February 2 2005, 6:05 pm: ok.. if you want to ask a guy out just drop little hints... and then one day just go for it... its the easiest way... don't try and make yourself fall in love, one day there will just be this guy who comes along and captures your heart... as for the 3 guys on the internet, just try and talk to them in school and then see what happens... anyother questions, just drop them in my inbox [ xosweetiepiexo's advice column | Ask xosweetiepiexo A Question ]
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