Hey yall, My name is Jay. I am 13/m. I go to Harris Middle School and i give a lot of people advice. Matter of fact they come to me and ask me what they should do so if you have a problem I think you should ask me. I give great advice...
Gender: Male
Location: Shelbyville
Occupation: student
Age: 13
Yahoo: singer10003@yahoo.com
MSN: jay_king_13@hotmail.com
Member Since: December 22, 2004
Answers: 21
Last Update: August 5, 2005
Visitors: 2550
Main Categories:
Love Life
Families
Friendship
View All
|
| |
i have like horrible sleeping problems...like sometimes i dont even fall asleep till almost 3 in the morning. does anyone have any like tips or something to help me fall asleep?
thanks ♥ (link)
| |
Well first of all I think its normal to fall asleep that late because after all its summer and I dont go to sleep till 5 in the mornin....but my advice to u iz that u should take some tylenol pm and that works,,,thats what i used to do so.... hoped i helped
|
I love to go out with my friends all the time, we go to dances, out to the mall, and stuff like that but latley my mom has been asking me to take my sister with me. ITs kind of anoying because when i go out with my friends im with a whole group of guys and girls, and i dont always want my sister near me. I mean i love her to death but im sick of my mom asking me if she can come. What do i do?
(14/f) (link)
| |
Hey I know how hard it is having to take your sister every you go. Trust I have to do the same thing every other time. But I think you should tell your mom that you need your space. Explain why you need your space to, otherwise it won't ever work. Just trust on this one, Ive done it a couple of times. Lol, well tell me how the results go
|
|
I was hanging out with a group of my friends the other day after school. We were just hanging out having a good time and one of my friends pulls out a joint and lights it. She started passing it around our group of friends and everyone took a puff of it but me. I basically just stood there confused. These innocent girls that I had known since I was 6 years old had just lit up a joint and smoked it. I am completely disgusted by drugs and drinking and I will never do it because it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. They started making fun of me that I wouldn't smoke it. I wasn't hurt that they were making fun of me, but I was just hurt at their stupidity for smoking it. I don't know what to do. They've been my friends for a very long time and have always been loyal to me, but this is something I can't handle. What should I do? Should I tell them they should stop? I'm so confused! Please help. (link)
| |
Well first of all you cant control what your friends do; Trust me most of my friends smoke. So tell them how you feel about the smoking like how you dont like it and the thought of them doing. That might more than likely probably wont work so tell them that you know there is nothing that you can do about them smoking but they wont influence you to start. That way all of yall get ur way partially. You will still have your friends and not smoke and they will still smoke having you still tho. Hope I helped
|
|
my friend is going out with this guy. i think she's too good for him but anyway. he's in my PE class and the other day i saw him touching another girl's pussy. like feeling up on her. they're both black and the girl he was touching is white. plus right now there's a lot of racial stuff going on. should i tell my friend or keep my mouth shut? (link)
| |
Well you should definitely tell your friend cause think about it this way... If your boyfriend was feeling on somebody else and u didnt know it wouldn't u like for your friend to tell you. Especially if all this racial stuff is going on. You wouldn't want him to get hurt so yeah tell her.
|
Tonight I have to babysit for two twin girls who are 5. I cant keep them busy and in my control. Can anybody give me some pointers?
(link)
|
Bring them some things to play with and they might actually listen like a coloring book, or some other type of toys. Give me the results
|
I babysit my 3 year old niece and she gets on my nerves and i don't get paid for it and my sister makes me babysit .
What should i do? (link)
| |
Just tell her that if she is not gonna behave then your not goin to babysit her. Plus it is your life and u should get to spend it however you want it
|
Hi all well im babysitting 3 girls after xmas can anyone give me some ideas on how to keep them busy so its a bit easyer for me
roxie
ps ill rate any good ideas
have a great xmas everyone (link)
| |
Well if you r goin to their house bring a load of toys with u for them to play with. If they come to you let them play with your toys or something make cookies and stuff like that. theyll be sore to listen to u.
|
|
My best friend and I dont ever hang out anymore. Her and I got in this really big fight back in November and we didnt speak to eachother for a few weeks. We both kind of brought our parents into our fight so now my mom doesnt like her and she never lets me go over to her house. Its like her and I are only friends in school and not outside of school. And sometimes in school she'll be with her other best friend who is a guy(my ex) and when she is with him, its like I dont exist to her. What do I do? It just seems like her and I have completly drifted apart. What can I do to make our friendship stornger.I havent really hung out with her or had a decent converstion with her in well over 3 months. When we talk on the phone she is always on her computer and I am wathing TV or listening to music and we dont even talk on the phone, we just sit there and it bothers the fuck out of me. We honestly can be on the phone for like 2 hrs and we will only have said maybe 5 mins of a conversation. PLease help me! (link)
| |
Me personally I would just dump her cause what is the use of bein friends if you cant be friends outside of school but you can be on the inside of school. She acts like you dont exist. yea U should definetely dump her.
|
Ok so I need some opinions on this really LONG love question... It has 2 parts... This first part is that I need to pick between two guys.
Guy #1- We're going out, he's really sweet and nice and i like him, sometimes. My friends all like him because he doesn't want to hurt me and he has never made me cut myself (yeah- i cut) We've only known eachother for about a month, and the only reason I know him is because I was jealous of my friend, who was going out with the guy I liked at the time. Him and I are very much the same, and are very shy around eachother. I barely see him in school, but he really likes me.
Guy #2- I'm secretly in love with him. He's kind of a jerk, and he acts nice to you and then will say something horribly offencive to you in the same sentance. He's absolutly gorgeous, and more popular then me. He lead me on beofre, and my friends blame him for making me cut once. They all think he's a jerk, but I really like him.
Who should I pick?
The second part is that today, I am supposed to call #2. Atleast he wants me to, or so he told me last night. I am very intrigued, and I think I may call him. My best friend, the only other person who knows about this, says that I should call #1 and break it off with him before I call #2. But I don't know if I should becuse, #2 might hate me, and i don't want to be single right now, and have to explain to my friends why I broke it off with #1. So what should I do? (link)
| |
Ok U should stay with number 1 first off and second you shouldnt call #2. You said yourself that he is a jerk and will talk nice to you and bad about you all in the same sentence. So y go out with him. Oh! your friends think #2 made u cut yourself. Well being that he is a jerk and everything dont you think he will eventually make you cut yourself.
|
|
I was in a mental institution and I got really close to one of the staff members that worked there, she helped me in every way possible and I thought of her as my mom. Since I have been out it seems like everytime I call the hospital to talk to her, they make an excuse for me to NOT talk to her. Last night my sister looked her up on the internet and come to find out, she lives a mile away from me, and I have her home phone number, I mailed her a christmas card this morning to her home, but I dont know if I should actually call her at home. I miss her so much and she made such a big impact in my life, what do I do? I don't want her to think that I am like stalking her or anything! ??????? (link)
|
Of course you call her, especially if she has made such a big impact on your life. Call her and say thank you or something...Hoped I Helped (HIH)
|
|
does anyone know any good places to make a babysitting flyer that will catch people's attention????? please help asap!! if you help, i'll rate 5!!!!! (link)
| |
You could try puttin it in ppl's mailboxes and they would have to see it then u no.
|
|
my lil bro had a bbsitter cuz i waz out... and when i came home she was screemin and yellin @ him. She grabbed his arm and he said to our dog.. "Daizee help help! Help Daiz!!!" the dog didnt do ne thing... but ne way.... shud i tell my parents? (link)
| |
YES, you should definetly tell your parents cause what if they get that baby-sitter again and she does worst to him than that. Tell your parents and get him a better and nicer baby-sitter.
|
|
Ok so I am 13 years old and I want to start babysitting. I'm not sure if there are laws on how old you have to be (I live in England.) Is 13 old enough? How would I go about it? (link)
| |
Well I am 13 yrs old now babysitting. I started when i was 12 yrs old and you might wanna start with your younger brothers and sisters then go to your neighbors and so forth.
|
|
I just moved to a new state and i do not know a lot of people and i want to babysit in my spare time. but i do not know how to get the word out that i will be able to babysit?help me please! (link)
| |
Put up flyers around the neighbor or put it in there mailbox. Make sure that you include that you are caring honest and all that other stuff you know...Hope i helped.....Lil Chocolate Boi
|
|
is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit? (link)
| |
No its normal to babysit even if you are a male. I always liked for older guys to babysit me because the girls always talked about stuff and always did girly things and guys had time for me and played with me. So no its practically normal. I even babysit but I'm 13 tho but still straight male.
|
|
Ok i have a puppy, i just got the other day and she will be 7 weeks old tomorrow...well my problem is...she wont stop useing the bathroom on my floor in my bedroom and everywhere else in the house...even though i tell her no...thats bad and not to do it again but she keeps on and on whenever i see that shes about to go to the bathroom i pick her up and rush her outside....its annoying and i need advice on how to get her to stop useing the bathroom on my floor...thanks...i'll rate anyone who answers this for me! (link)
| |
Ok u might wanna try using pee pee pads. And if s/he keeps using the bathroom on the floor, get a cage and put him in there for a real long time. Don't take him out or nothing don't even look at him. That is how I got my dog potty trained
|
|
My sister was raped and killed about a year ago ( we havent found out who it is yet but they're still looking)and I lately I have been see her well her ghost and she always says some thing but I cant hear her like she just moves her lips and I want to tell my mom but I'm afriad she will put me in some kind a hospital or something but about a week ago my sister came back and she made me fallow her some how I mean she walked through the wall and I just had to fallow her and when I did it I found an old beat down house and I really really wont to show it to some one because I think it might be the guy that killed her (link)
| |
U should definitly tell your mom where the house is and actually go in it. Your never going to find the person if you just look at the house and never tell anybody. Hope I helped
|
ok theres this guy josh and he follows me everywhere, its so annoying, he loves me and wont leave my side for even a second in seems like, but i dont like him at all. it seems like he stalks me, he carrys my book and kisses me on the cheek all the time. he's nice but i dont like him. Help!
(link)
| |
Just break it down and easily tell him that you don't like him. Try not to make him upset tho. Hope I helped
|
theres this girl at my school who really likes me and this other guy. both us guys like her and where like best friends. if 1 of us ask her out she says she dosnt want to hurt the others feeling. so i want 2 know if i should wait or move on. i really like her.
ill rate good
thanks. (link)
| |
You should definetly move on because if you or he were to ask her out yall are going to eventually have a big argument and not be friends anymore and that is just a waste of time...period...So move on. Hope I helped
|
im madly in love with my best friend, lets call him chandler (sorry i like that name lol). well chandler knows i like him but he still wants to be my best friend because he knows that i like him and i never want to lose him. well i really want to ask him out but last time i asked this guy out he said no because im more of a girl whos friends with a guy and not girl friend material. i think chandler sort of agrees with him so how do i make him like me? we like the same stuff and we are always constently touching each other and laughing like its no big deal. i really like him but i want him to like me the same way back. any suggestions??
signed,
MaD LoVe (link)
| |
Ok first, You cant really make anybody like you. And second I say yall stay friends because if yall were to breakup you no then yall wouldn't even be friends anymore. To me that is just not worth it. Hope I helped......Lil Chocolate Boi
|
|