Question Posted Wednesday December 22 2004, 5:39 pm
theres this girl at my school who really likes me and this other guy. both us guys like her and where like best friends. if 1 of us ask her out she says she dosnt want to hurt the others feeling. so i want 2 know if i should wait or move on. i really like her.
AdInA answered Thursday December 23 2004, 1:26 am: uh move on! don't let a girl get in the way of your friendship! atleast your friend will ALWAYS be there for you! girls just come and go.. and plus she already told you she wasn't going to go out with neither of you because of that.. so stop trying! [ AdInA's advice column | Ask AdInA A Question ]
Tinkerbelle answered Thursday December 23 2004, 12:11 am: Move on. It sucks, but you'll have to. You can't be waiting around for a girl if she doesn't wanna hurt either of your feelings. Unless you want to risk your friendship, just let her go. [ Tinkerbelle's advice column | Ask Tinkerbelle A Question ]
Shortie8959 answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 9:43 pm: Wow, that's a tough situation. I wouldn't go out with her at all, as long as you're friend didn't care. You both like her, and whether you wait or ask her out now, it's not gonna make a difference. If at anytime, your friend says it's ok, or he doesn't like her anymore, then go ahead! Good luck!
Happy Holidays!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~ [ Shortie8959's advice column | Ask Shortie8959 A Question ]
Lil_Chocolate_Boi answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 9:11 pm: You should definetly move on because if you or he were to ask her out yall are going to eventually have a big argument and not be friends anymore and that is just a waste of time...period...So move on. Hope I helped [ Lil_Chocolate_Boi's advice column | Ask Lil_Chocolate_Boi A Question ]
tcklmepink13 answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 9:05 pm: in my opinion if you really like her then go for it but confront your friend first. because you never know he might never talk to you again because of that. so deff talk to him and you both work it out...if yall are mature enough then you wont not talk over a gurl! gurls stop talkin because that happens but with a guy and its so immature! hope i helped! ~britt~ [ tcklmepink13's advice column | Ask tcklmepink13 A Question ]
icey0990 answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 8:43 pm: Talk to your best friend about it.Who knows..maybe he`ll say "you know what, i see you like her more, so i`ll back off." But if you both ssay you really like her..i wouldnt make a move. Why ruin a good frienship? im sure you understand. Just stay friends if you both really like her [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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