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Love Trianglish...
Ok so I need some opinions on this really LONG love question... It has 2 parts... This first part is that I need to pick between two guys.
Guy #1- We're going out, he's really sweet and nice and i like him, sometimes. My friends all like him because he doesn't want to hurt me and he has never made me cut myself (yeah- i cut) We've only known eachother for about a month, and the only reason I know him is because I was jealous of my friend, who was going out with the guy I liked at the time. Him and I are very much the same, and are very shy around eachother. I barely see him in school, but he really likes me.
Guy #2- I'm secretly in love with him. He's kind of a jerk, and he acts nice to you and then will say something horribly offencive to you in the same sentance. He's absolutly gorgeous, and more popular then me. He lead me on beofre, and my friends blame him for making me cut once. They all think he's a jerk, but I really like him.
Who should I pick?
The second part is that today, I am supposed to call #2. Atleast he wants me to, or so he told me last night. I am very intrigued, and I think I may call him. My best friend, the only other person who knows about this, says that I should call #1 and break it off with him before I call #2. But I don't know if I should becuse, #2 might hate me, and i don't want to be single right now, and have to explain to my friends why I broke it off with #1. So what should I do?
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Definatly #1!! he sounds like alot better person, and you sed you two have alot in common. That will make it easlier to start conversations. And he doesnt make you cut?!? y do u cut yourself?!? youshouldnt hurt yourseld because you hae some problems, it ok, everyone run into problems. Call #2, and tell him that you like him and all, but you just dont think it will work out, but you would love to be friends. hope i helped!
*~*Danielle*~*
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damn i'm too late. I hope you didn't call.
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guy #1 if he makes you feel good about your self and doesnt make you wanna cut u should go wit #1 AND YOU Shouldnt care if he is popular it isnt ahat your friends think it is what you think and if #1 is sweet nice and is kind to you go wit him !!
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i knoq exactly how you feel! im or @ least was in that positiion..i broke it off with #1..bkuz he didnt give me no space, but yet he was sweet!!...nd well im going owt wit #2 now bkuz hes my 1st love..nd we been talkin on nd off 4 2years now....but yet he is a jerk..and im scared of being hurt again by him..bkuz he think hes a pimp!..but do wut u want 2 do..or maybe u can juss be signle..nd pimpin it! mess wit anyone!!
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i think you should stay with number one guy.. hes sounds so much better for you and is keeping you from cutting yourself.. but girl dont throw something good away wit somebody really good.. when you could end up getting hurt emotionally wit this gut thats a jerk.. so i hope i helped LADESSA!
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GIRL PLEASE! cant you use your common sense? pick #1! he seems like a waaay nicer guy than #2, and he definitely won't make you cut yourself! call #2, but if he asks you to go out with him, say no. people will be amazed at how you can stay grounded, and how you dont seem so "clingy". #2 won't know what he'll be missing.. and if he REALLY, REALLY likes you, he'll ask you out again. that's a good way to test if they're playing around or that they have true feelings. Good luck! and stop cutting yourself.. its not worth it.
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#2 sounds like a guy that i was interested in( saying mean stuff, jerk, etc.) i guess there is one every where.
i'd say to stay with #1, because he loves you and you like him too, good luck.
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Ok U should stay with number 1 first off and second you shouldnt call #2. You said yourself that he is a jerk and will talk nice to you and bad about you all in the same sentence. So y go out with him. Oh! your friends think #2 made u cut yourself. Well being that he is a jerk and everything dont you think he will eventually make you cut yourself.
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hey
i think you should go with guy #1 he sounds like a great guy and he really cares for you guy#2 might be gorgeous and popular but if hes making you cut you should leave him alonce and stay with guy #1
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I think guy #1!! You dont want to date a jerk! Also you need to stop cutting its not good for you and very stupid!!
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