Well i like to help people..um ima black girl from ohio in cincy,but sometimes live in Detroit when i wanna get away.. but my name is Ladessa Glover im 14,
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Member Since: December 6, 2004
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i have a mole on my cheek but i want to get it removed... this week im going to but i have to make up my mind first if i want to.. should i get it removed or leave it?! they said there wont be any scarring... so?? please help!! (link)
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yea moles r ugly..love ladessa
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Is it normal to still be bleeding the day after your first time? (link)
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yea it can be normal. but it depends how much u r bleeding..love ladessa
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I need help. When I get around people I never know what to do. It dosen't have to be a big group just one or two people but for some reason when I'm around them I just freeze. If they try to talk to me I just stare at them or walk away. It's getting really bad because now my friends are getting mad at me becasue of this. What can I do to get over being shy. (link)
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well maybe try not to think about it. try 2 open up and be more outgoing theres no real reason for u 2 act lik that.just try a lil bit harder..love ladessa
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Does anyone know how i can get a social worker in the uk? (link)
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get ur parents 2 help u..ladessa
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about three months. We havent kissed yet, but i think i want to. How should i tell him?? (link)
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no just take it.ladessa
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How is the best way to get a tan? Sun or tanning salon. I need one bad after this winter I am so pale. Any ideas? (link)
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sun always.ladessa
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My boyfriend thinks I like all these guys because they like me and it's getting annoying. I think he likes other girls too but he just says some are attractive. How do I get this "thinking" to stop happening? I am a glirt but he is too. (link)
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maybe you both need to grow up n u both probably arent ready for a stedy relationship..ladessa
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me and my bf like each other ALOT and i always have fun with him... lately he's been acting different in a good way though. like hes been talkin to me everytime he gets he kisses me more often and stuff like that. does this mean he wants to take it to the next level in our relationship? or is does he just like me alot (link)
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most likely means he jus likes u alot. but any guy wants to take it to the next level.ladessa
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does any one no any tricks to making deoderant last longer?? thanks a bunch (link)
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buy a better deoderant.ladessa
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How do you know if a guy likes you? I am in Middle school and 13 years of age. My friend and me think that this guy in 4 out of 6 of my classes and sometimes he's seems to have a crush on me. Please help me understand. (link)
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if he gives u signs dat he like u den he prolly do. best luck ladessa
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I cried this morning, and I never cry. I haven`t cried in months so this was somewhat of a big deal and I almost killed myself but my friend calmed me down. I cut myself, I did it not because I wanted to hurt myself or was upset for any good reason just because I could, it's dumb I know. My mother hates me, like seriously unconditionally hates me and tries to ruin my life by thinking anything that makes me a bit happy is stupid or along the lines of stupidity. I can`t talk to her that`ll just make things worse, and I don`t want to bring my dad into this because he tells her everything. Why can`t my life be better?! What did I do?! xxOo (link)
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Awwwww honey you didnt anything to your mom for her to be like that towards you.. Dont hate yourself just cause your mom acts like that towards you.. if you ever need somebody to talk to jus hit me up.. ill listen to you and help the best way i can.. and please dont hurrt yourself anymore.. you deserve to be happy weather your mom likes it or not.. hope i helped..~*DEZ*~ MUCH LOVE!!
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i shave my vagina almost every other day..i was wondering if its bad for me to shave so often.. but i like to be completely clean..ppl say that i shouldnt ( im 22yrs old ) shave there so often but i dont mind if alot of hair grows back coz life is short and i dont want my bf seeing me hairy there. please help.. (link)
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Jus keep doin what your doin.. its not bad for you too have to shave down there everyother day.. jus your hair grows back fast.. buti hope i helped..~*DEZ*~
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Ok my I have a friend Laura* and she is always copying me! For instance, I got my hair cut short and the next thing you know she decides to cut off her like 3ft long hair too! And the other day on the bus I was singing the Fresh Prince of Bel Air theme song (:D) and she goes " OH! I LOVE THAT SONG!!!! " I was like...goodddddd!!!!! It just gets on my nerves alot! Idk how to make her stop...anyone have any ideas? THANKS! (link)
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Tell this girl to shut up when she does that.. damn that would get on my nerves too..and i would tell her that you dont like her doin the same shit like you cause you dont like it and i would tell her shes annoying..hope i helped and wasnt to mean..~*DEZ*~
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how long does waxing "down there" last? not like the proccess of waxing... like how long until you have to get waxed again... thanks... i rate 5 (link)
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Depends on your hair growth.. but atleast over a week.. hope i helped ~*DEZ*~
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My boyfriend Justin was the kind of guy that had sex and did stuff alot before we started going out. I really like him, but sometimes he gets on my nerves because he's always saying I won't do stuff with him. Truth is, I would and I want too. But with sex, I just don't wanna get pregnant. What are some things that can make me seem a little bit more naughty, without stepping too far over the line. Simple things, even. Please don't critize, I not wanting to do anything because he's pressuring me, it's because I want to and I have thought about it. I rate! Thanks. (link)
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Well he should respect things the way they are even if you didnt wanna do anything.. but other then sex you can make out with him and you can let him finger you or something i guess.. but i dont know if thats to far for you.. just make sure he respects ya girl and make sure your comfortable with what you do wit this guy hun.. hope i answered your question or atleast helped a lil bit...~*DEZ*~
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what are signs that you are pregnant? (link)
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Morning sickness.. missing ur period..
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ive been dating this guy for about 2 weeks, and weve gotten really close during the winter break. we went to a movie, and all he did was hold my hand. i really like him, and hes said that he really likes me to. i want to take out relationship to the next level, but how should i tell him? (link)
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u should make the move and show him that u wanna go to the next level hope i helped ladessa
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My sister was raped and killed about a year ago ( we havent found out who it is yet but they're still looking)and I lately I have been see her well her ghost and she always says some thing but I cant hear her like she just moves her lips and I want to tell my mom but I'm afriad she will put me in some kind a hospital or something but about a week ago my sister came back and she made me fallow her some how I mean she walked through the wall and I just had to fallow her and when I did it I found an old beat down house and I really really wont to show it to some one because I think it might be the guy that killed her (link)
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um i think you nedd to tell somebody that you know wont think your crazy and have them help you.. LAdessa
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I think I might have paranoia. I have a wonderful gf. I love her todeath, but she talks to the one guy, who constantly flirts with her and it pisses me off. She says dont worry about it and that she loves me, but I still get worried. What if she will start to like him? I know nothing will happen. Were perfect for each other but I feel like bad things will always happen. Can anyone give me sties to read up on it or tell me what I can do to not be paranoid? I dont want to lose her over my problems. I want to be normal. (link)
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what you talkin bout wanting to be normal thats normal to be like that not unless were both not normal.. but jus make sure your the same towards her and not change.. if she really loves you your not going to lose her.. love you lots HOLLA Ladessa
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I keep getting these nasty bloody noses, 5 times a day! What should i do?! (link)
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go to the doctor.. or if your snorting something stop doing that...LAdessa
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