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Question Posted Wednesday December 22 2004, 5:37 pm

My sister was raped and killed about a year ago ( we havent found out who it is yet but they're still looking)and I lately I have been see her well her ghost and she always says some thing but I cant hear her like she just moves her lips and I want to tell my mom but I'm afriad she will put me in some kind a hospital or something but about a week ago my sister came back and she made me fallow her some how I mean she walked through the wall and I just had to fallow her and when I did it I found an old beat down house and I really really wont to show it to some one because I think it might be the guy that killed her

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wondering answered Saturday December 25 2004, 6:55 am:
I believe you really did see your sister . things like this happens when you're experiencing a particularly strong emotion . Were you upset that day or thinking about her ? My best friend died when i was about 8 . Some scary freak had kidnapped and mutiliated her in a sick fashion and stuffed her into a garbage bag , leaving her body to decay . This is one of the most intense memories i've ever had , and sometimes i still get nightmares . Thankfully , her body was found and identified , the killer was caught , and he's now in jail . not long before the killer was found , i remember her appearing to me , crying , her body bruised ,cut ,clothing torn , i still see her sometimes , but now she's happy . how do you see your sister ? does she look like how she did before or how she looked liked when she died . Next time you see her , don't hesitate to follow, but note down how she appears to you , when she appears to you , and what she looks like . These are vital clues . Maybe you should spy on the house to see who goes there , and perhaps follow him around , see how he acts around girls . And see what your sister does , what she tells you to do .Do not be afraid , she will guide you . Try to talk to her sometimes , i'm sure she might try to tell you something again . call out to her , will her to come to you , to help you solve her murder . clear your mind and focus only on your sister , do not hesistate or be afraid and she will come .

i wish you all the best for this mystery ,
trust in her .

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lollygag1234 answered Friday December 24 2004, 10:02 pm:
you most definateyl should show it to some one. if thats the case you want some one to now right away. dont hold back!

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angelbabi91 answered Friday December 24 2004, 3:00 am:
wow, i'm really really sorry to hear about your sister. but no, i'd take it as a sign. if she's trying to tell you something, then it must be important. i mean i myself dont believe in ghosts, but if you think that this is the real deal then you cant ignore it. wow that is really freaky! sorry but it is! but like i said, dont ignore it!
hope i helped!
~Haley~

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xxBrOkEnxx answered Thursday December 23 2004, 7:13 pm:
im really sorry for your loss but anyways i would tell your mom and tell her that you have been seeing her and its not your imagination she will believe you but if you cant tell her ythen tell like a teacher at school or your friend but make sure you say something about the house ...acually thats kind of spooky but i still believe itso make sure you tell someone and your mom wont put you in one of those hospitals

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 6:42 pm:
My mom said that when her dad died.. she was only 16.. he used to always sit in this chair.. this old green rocking chair or something like that some sort of chair anyways.. forget details. She saw him always sitting it and one night and just waved and said Its okay dawn everything would be okay and she rubbed her eyes.. because she thoguht it was all fake and she squinted real hard and he was gone. So i think ghost are true. And wow this stori is very interesting. I mean i would defintly tell someone. I would start off with your mom and i wouldnt really tell the police that your sister lead you there just say you just really have this feeling. I think if this is where this guy lives i would defintly get that mother f*er locked up! So you should really tell. No girl or guy.. usually girls that get raped. should have there raper person thingie get away with it so i think you should honestly 110% sure that you should tell. Let me know how things go and what you decide on!! good luck!! HoPe i HeLPeD ((RaTe Me PLZ) TRiX

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JennaRESPECTS answered Thursday December 23 2004, 6:16 pm:
I really truly believe that that happened. If you know where the house is (street, address, state, etc.), then tell the cops, if they say sure and don't believe you, beg them to go see if your right. If your telling the truth, some evidence must be there. I hoped i helped!!

thankz

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Somnambulist answered Thursday December 23 2004, 5:13 pm:
if your serious than do something about it, tell someone, maybe dont tell them about the ghost though.... i wish you luck.

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alisonmarie answered Thursday December 23 2004, 4:41 pm:
I think you need to tell someone, probably your mother. There's no worry she would put you in a mental hospital - people are not locked away for experiencing normal grief.

At the very least, you have the chance to share your experiences with another person. You aren't alone, and your mom might be able to comfort you some. As far as seeing your sister's ghost, the police probably won't consider this as any sort of evidence of a crime.

Still, pay attention to your surroundings. Your sister could be contacting you and trying to reach you, and details could be important to remember.

I also think you should consider getting some sort of counseling. Not because I think you are crazy, but because losing a family member in a brutal crime is something terrible to go through. A professional could listen to you vent - if you don't feel comfortable talking with you mom - or even lead you in exercises designed to help you heal or get more in touch with yourself and your memories of your sister.

I'd be careful, though. There is a chance you are deeply in grief and this is causing you to see your sister - this does NOT make you crazy, but normal. Still, seeing your sister's ghost and feeling some sort of responsibility for solving her murder is a lot to handle. I think you definitely need to talk to someone.

Best wishes.

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gangsta4uboo answered Thursday December 23 2004, 3:20 pm:
um i think you nedd to tell somebody that you know wont think your crazy and have them help you.. LAdessa

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luckycharm answered Thursday December 23 2004, 11:21 am:
sweetie i am so sorry... you should tell your mom... next time you see the ghost, get your mom or someone you trust to follow the ghost with you... so you actually walked through the wall? dont worry ive heard so many stories about this... just try to understand the ghost...this could be extremely important and she could be telling you something that you need to know... get get a witness or something when you walk through the wall or whatever to believe you and you wont be sent to a hospital! i know this sounds really crazy but get a camera- a video camera... and tape everything that happens including when you see the house... or just take a normal camera and take a picture of the house... this is very important and this could be real... you need to tell someone next time it happens... there was this one story (true)(my teacher told me)-- my teacher said that this boy in her class told her that he was seeing a ghost of a boy that look exactly like him every night... at conferences the teacher told the boys mom about this and the mother said that when the boy was born, he had a twin who didnt make it... im not kidding you this is real...tell someone and try to figure this out... good luck!!! and i hope i helped... i believe you
--lucky

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SweetStarx89 answered Thursday December 23 2004, 12:28 am:
hi. i'm sorry about your sister. like what everyone else says. tell you mom that youre not crazy and let her know what happened from start to finish. let her know before yout ell her naything that you are serious about this and it's not lie rahter she believes it or not. then take her the house but dont go inside. then i would let the police take over. if you dont want to tell them about your dreams or something just tell them you have a feeling the person that might live there did it. hope this helped. take care! x3 SweetStar.

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Beccers_boo answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 10:58 pm:
freaky! i would advise telling your parents. DONT go into the house of course. I would definitly tell your parents because this could be useful info. i dotn know what else you can do besides report it.

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Lil_Chocolate_Boi answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 9:39 pm:
U should definitly tell your mom where the house is and actually go in it. Your never going to find the person if you just look at the house and never tell anybody. Hope I helped

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Shortie8959 answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 9:37 pm:
OMG, I'm sooo sorry about your sister! That's kinda creepy, lol. But I really think that that's where the guy who killed her is. You NEED to tell someone about it, the police will want to know. Don't worry about your mom putting you in a hospital, I'm sure she'll understand. She wants to find him as much as you do! Good luck!
Happy Holidays!
Hope I helped!
~*Erin*~

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xShOrTiEx answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 9:20 pm:
i seriously believe in paranormal activity and i think you should tell your mom. tell her this ghost is leading you somewhere and you think it might be clues to the killer. if she says your crazy be like im not joking do you think i would joke about my own sisters death? then investigate! pay attention to what her lips are saying. then keep following her. at least i would, but tell your mom first. on tv shows about this stuff, paranormal people say that ghost try to contact people when they need something to be discovered. good luck and i hope you find her killer. <3

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tcklmepink13 answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 9:16 pm:
if i were u i would have the same problem bout my mom. she would deff think there was sumthin wrong with me. but i dont think i would tell her because of that. i would try talkin to your sister. maybe she can answer one of your questions by moving her mouth and you would understand it. also if she takes u to that house again then try to see if there is a address and maybe look it up and actually go to the house. i hope i helped! good luck! ~britt~

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givingbackmonday answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 9:10 pm:
tell your mom about this. you never know what could happen. and if she does say something like "youre crazy" or something like that then just drop it but otherwise just tell her. good luck i hope you find her killer

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icey0990 answered Wednesday December 22 2004, 8:40 pm:
Hey i think your mom is someone who would support you and listen to ou..so i would talk to her about it. Whats the worst that will happen? She could say "your immagining things" but at least try. Your sister is reaching out to you..dont ignore it! You`ll regret it if you do. Just go for it! If she doesnt beleive you find someone else you can trust
-melissa

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