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hey yall! whats up! well my name is haley, i am 13, i go to ctms, which is a pretty awesome school bc i have really awesome friends to help me through everything! my best friend moved tho, waAaAaAaAa, and i miss her like no other, but we still hang out all the time and are still like sisters! i am pretty tall, '5''6, brunnett hair, dark brown eyes, and i'm pretty much everyones friend, at least thats what i think, but you know i could be wrong! i have a boyfriend that i love more than anything in the world! and well yah, i hope that you'll let me help you with your problems bc thats why i'm here!
love yall bunches!
xoxoxoxoxo
Haley
p.s.- please please PLEASE rate me, whether its good or bad, i would love to know if i helped or not! thanks if ya do! if you dont, well ok i guess thats fine too, lol! thanks yall!

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I have this friend named Emily. She has recently just liked this guy named Justin. Well a week ago she decided she didn't like him anymore. Last night they were talking online and Justin told Emily that he really really liked me and he was going to ask me out and if i said no then he would like be at da point crying. I don't like him and i don't really want to go out cuz i like someone else but my friend wants me to go out w/ him... what should i do?

well you shouldnt go out with someone that you dont like, that would just be dumb! sometimes, even though they're trying to do the right thing and help out, they're really not! i mean come on, we've all done it at least a few times! just tell her that you dont want to go out with him and if she still pushed the situation and he does end up asking you out just tell him no. you really shouldnt tell him yes just because you wouldnt be being fair to you or him. if you friend doesnt understand right away then dont worry about it! she'll eventully get it!
~Haley~

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How do you know when you're in love? And I mean really in love, not lusting after something you can't have, not loving someone, IN love, with 'the one'. How do you know?
Thnx,
Hallie

when your in love then feel like that one person means more than anything else to you. you would do anything for them, ANYTHING. you dont care what other people think about yall, as in like together. its a tricky emotion and it sometimes takes time to fully understand it. i hope i helped!
~Haley~

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why are you giving advice you aren't good at all. your only in middle school your not a shriek or something. stop giving advise because you fucking suck!! and you are such a whore! and really pale!

lol ok! think w/e you want bc i really dont care! if you look at my average rate then it will tell you otherwise, sorry sweetie! if you have such a problem with me trying to help ppl then just dont look at column, its that simple! and seriously, like you said, i'm in middle school, and so are about half or more of the ppl giving advice on this site, so just get over yourself. and like i've said before, yah i'm pale, and your freaking point? and for your info., i'm not a whore!

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I love this guy so much. His name is Ryan and he lives in Florida, I live in Texas. We talk to each other on the internet and on the phone and we've gotten in alot of fights and he would tell me sweet things like "Molly, you're so perfect I love you" and my friends tell me not to feed off of his words but I can't help it! He's in love with another girl but she lives far away too. I love him sooooo much and I'm in love with him but it's stupid cause I haven't even met him. And I know he doesn't love me back. Please help!

if yall really really do love eachother, than distance shouldnt really matter! **love is stronger than 1000 miles of rough mountain road** but you do kinda need to find out about this other girl because that might be a lil problem! hope yall work out!
lots of love!
~Haley~

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ok tomorro night my dad and i are going out for a steak dinner and maybe some shopping. My friend tutored me for free a few times, which was really nice of her. My mom suggested me taking her tomorro.. my dad said he didnt mind even though he did mention he'd rather it be just the two of us. What should i choose to do?

i would just take your friends another time bc it sounds like your dad wants you 2 to spend some time together! you can always repay her another time for being so nice, and i think that your dad would like it better just being yall!
hope i helped and have fun!
~Haley~

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FUCK YOU you sorry ass bitch!
NO ONE LIKES YOU...you have absolutly no TRUE friends! so yeah go fuck yourself you fucking white as hell bitch ass WHORE!

you can cuss at me all you want, and yes i'm white a damn proud of it, and i do have true friends, probly more than you, so cuss at me as much as you want, i really dont care!

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i have been going out with this guy brandon,brandon has an ex gf thats very jealous and wants him back shes made a huge deal about it she threatened me, my friends,shes been saspended.brandon said he would never go back out with her that shes stupid shes gotten so many people in trouble and upset.I kno the only reason why brandon ever went out with her in the first place is becuase he wanted sex,she did everything for him she did his hw,shed sleep with him whenever,just everything.he called me and told me things werent working out between us and he wanted to break up i agreed are relationship wasnt as good as i thought it was i wasnt upset about it i didnt really care until my friend karina called and told me he was hooking back up with his ex gf.I think thats so fucked up its really bothering me and i dont kno how to face it school starts agian monday and i have to see them both i kno someones going to mention something and ask me why he is with her i dont kno what to do help

people cant always controll their feelings for other ppl, so yes you have a right to be really mad but dont take it overboard, ok? if that happens just tell them that things didnt work out and yall broke up, its the truth so just tell it! i'm sorry that he did that to you bc he shouldnt have, but hey, it did happen, so you just gotta go on, right? right! lol! never give up!
lots of love!
~Haley~

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How do you ask a guy out without making it seem like your completly stupid? Like, how do you make it come up in a conversation? because I'm talking to this boy online, and I really like him, and we're awesome friends, and I want to know how he feels about me. How do I do it? None of my friends will do it for me because they say thats "cheating"

just be like, have you ever wondered what would it be like for us to like go out?, just something like that thats not saying like OMG I WANT TO GO OUT WITH YOU, but at the same time hinting that you do or have thought about it. and, i kinda agree with your friends(Sorry!), its way better and way more meaningful if you do it yourself, and if everything works out, then you'll be really glad that thats the way it happend!
lots of love and good luck!
~Haley~

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ok well im goin out with this guy and i like him so much and i dont wanna jeaperdise our relationship so i wanna take things slow. my friends keep eargin me to do things like hold his hand kiss him and im not comfortable with that kinda stuff and especially cuz one of my friends that does that has never had a bf so she doesnt know how it feels! what should i do to get my friends to stop?

tell them exactly what you just told me. dont let them presure you into stuff, bc its not worth it if it doesnt come naturally by-itself. if they dont understand then just tell them to back off and that its really none of their buisness anyways! i mean after all, its your bf, your relashonship, and most importantly YALLS decision, not your friends!
best of luck and lots of love!
~Haley~

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so. my best friend introduced me to a guy she dated about a year ago.He ended up falling for me, and then he got me to fall for him. and..we were in love. Seriously. The feeling is just to hard to explain. We basically did everying except sex, and oral sex. I look back on it, and it makes my skin crawl. So, he ended it with me about a month ago, and he let me down pretty hard. It hurt so bad, but then I found out what an ass hole he was. (He cheated on my best friend) I'm finally over him, but the problem is, sometimes, when I'm alone I can't stop thinking about him, and it makes my cry so hard. I just can't forget how he made me feel. I hate it because I'm dating someone else now, who is so great, and treats me so much better. I feel unfaithful almost. What can I do to forget him!? I'm 15, and a girl...obviously. Rarr! I can't handle this!

you loved him, and he loved you, your going to feel kinda bad about everything, beleive me i've been in your shoes before. you just have to think about your bf now, and about how great he is and it will be ok! if you need anything then just im me!
good luck!
~Haley~

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hey haley! omg your sooo awesome! i dont really need advice or anything but i just wanted to say hi! luv ya!
-xOx-
michelle

aww your so sweet! i luv ya too!!! your so awesome and idk what i would do w/out you! seriously babe you rock!!!!
lots and lots of love!
~Haley~

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ok i have these white dots on my nails. there in any random spot, anywhere on my nail. does anyone else have these or know what they are?? thanks

all it is is calcium spots, its nothing to worry about seriously! dont worry!!!!
lots of love!
~Haley~

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Is Lindsay Byars your friend? why? she's weird.
Oh, by the way she acts like a slut and everyone knows it!!

Signed,
un mentioned

gender: boy
age: 13

omg yes she's my friend! and i dont really care what you think she acts like! seriously! your just probly mad bc she wont go out with you! so you can kiss my ass! and believe it or not i have alot of friends that dont exactly love her and they can deal with me being friends with her so why the hell cant you? seriously! deal with it please bc its not going to change!
not so much love
~Haley~

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okay.. me and this guy have been "talking.." like.. we like each other.. and me and his ex girlfriend DONT like each other.. well.. she IMed me last night.. and she was like.. " i just wanted to tell you im sorry and i dont hate you.. im just jelous of you because you have the one thing i want.. " and then she was being super nice.. well.. today.. he came over to my house.. and she called his cell and was telling him all these lies about me... ( she didnt know he was at my house ) okay.. so i got on the phone and i was like.. "um.. hes busy.. bye!" and then she wrote my advice column saying all this stuff about me.. and i dont know what should i do? should i end things with him?

dont let the lil bitch get to you, she's just jealous, that part of what she said isnt a lie. and remember, if you really like him then you shouldnt just give up bc of his ex! i mean it is his ex, so it shouldnt even really matter! hope yall work everything out!
x0x0x0x0x0x0x
Haley

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ok ...
well i am like..idk prude and i really dont have an interest in kissing or making out or anything, but most of my friends aren't prude and it like this little joke we have about how prude i am..but its not funny to me. i mean i dont want to be prude but i just AM...i feel uncomfortble when they are like talking about that kind of stuff too...what should i do?? ive tried laughing it off, but the feeling in my stomach when they talk about and do that kind of stuff doesnt go away.
its getting to be a big problem!!

their your friends, you have to be honest with them, and if you cant be then their not really your friends now are they? just tell them, or maybe not even tell them, just slip them a hint or 2 that saying that your prude really hurts your feelings. there are alot of ppl like you out there that are uncomfertable with making out and stuff, but just dont worry about it. when the time comes you'll be fine. oh and 1 more thing, if they dont stop then tell me who they are (if i know you) and i'll *talk* to them very *calmly* (yah right) and we'll *straighten out* this lil situation!
lots of love!
~Haley~

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On tuesday, my boyfriend broke up with me. I was really upset and then today I met up with some friends and he was there. We all decided to go back to my house and my ex and I were flirting quite alot. Then, one of our friends said: "Look, you both obviously fancy each other, go back out." So my ex asked me out and I said yes. The thing is, do you think it is worth giving it another try? The reason he broke up with me was because we didn't really talk enough or anything but can that be fixed? Should I bother trying again?

talk to him more then! if yall have gone out 2ce then there obviously must be a reason! just try and make it work this time and if it doesnt, then its just not meant to be!
~haley~

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hey, well i am a 16 yr old girl. 2 years ago i was in a bad car accident and fell into a coma. i was in it for 2 years and i woke up a week ago. well, i am kinda out, and well i was wondering, what kind of stuff is in? stores, music, fashion, hair and stuff like that. i am kinda confused! thx!

i'm glad that you woke up and hope that your feeling better!!! but yah just get an issue of seventeen, ym, teen people, or teen vouge and you'll be set! and remember, it doesnt really matter whats in, just be you!
happiest holidays!!
~Haley~

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My mouse is obese. I don't know what to do--I put her in an exercise ball and she just sat there (I don't think she knew what to do). I don't want to give her less food because I'm afraid she'll starve. What can I do to make my mouse lose weight? note--I've tried gerbil wheels on other mice, but they sometimes get caught and die so I'm afraid to use it.

it could be pregent, lol. idk, take her/him to the vet, lol. sorry i keep saying lol but i just cant get the picture of a really really big mouse out of my head. no offense meant at all, i promise, but yah i hope that you figure it out!
happy holidays!
~Haley~
ps, again sorry if i offended you, i really didnt mean it like that!

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I don't eat. Is that retarded? No. It's not. I'm happy all of the time at school, and then I'm sad and "depressed" at home. I get mad at my parents a lot, I don't smile. At school, I'm happy all the time, people tell me I laugh a lot, and then i just smile all the time. I'm really sensitive: ex) I once saw a homeless man in front of the subway station. I gave him 5 bucks, and he said happy holidays. I turned around and said happy holdidays to you too. then i went into the subway station, saw one of my friends, and started crying into his shoulders. After like, 6 stops, I stopped, and he asked me what was the matter, and I told him everything. Then I said i was sad cause the guy WASN'T going to have a happy holiday. The next day, i went back with my friend and he held my hand and everything, and we gave the homeless man 10 dollars with a post it attached that gave him the address of a nearby soup kitchen. He said bless you. And then I started crying all over again. How messed up am I?

your not messed up, your jsut emotional! thats nothing to be ashamed about, seriously! i can be a lil emotional at times to! dont worry! i promise your not messed up! and about the food thing, if you hungry then eat, but if your not then dont just eat to please other people! thats just dumb! plus if you eat to much when your not hungry then you'll throw up and that might make you become belemic, so yah, eat when your hungry, dont if your not! haha, problem solved!
happy holidays!
~Haley~

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my sister broke up with her bf last night becasue all he did was talk abotu ho upset he was abotu things. tom orrow is christmas and i dont want her to be upset @ christmas usualy she tells me things but right now she won t talk to me what can i do to cheer her up.

well, dont bug her about talking about it, but what you could do to get her in a better mood is this. go rent her favorite all time movie and get a bunch of her favorite candy and yall just watch the movie and maybe it'll get her in a better mood. if not then just dont talk about, i mean at all, and maybe you'll help her forget about it. i hope yall have an awesome christmas and that she feels better!!!
lots of love!
~Haley~

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