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Anorexia and depression
I don't eat. Is that retarded? No. It's not. I'm happy all of the time at school, and then I'm sad and "depressed" at home. I get mad at my parents a lot, I don't smile. At school, I'm happy all the time, people tell me I laugh a lot, and then i just smile all the time. I'm really sensitive: ex) I once saw a homeless man in front of the subway station. I gave him 5 bucks, and he said happy holidays. I turned around and said happy holdidays to you too. then i went into the subway station, saw one of my friends, and started crying into his shoulders. After like, 6 stops, I stopped, and he asked me what was the matter, and I told him everything. Then I said i was sad cause the guy WASN'T going to have a happy holiday. The next day, i went back with my friend and he held my hand and everything, and we gave the homeless man 10 dollars with a post it attached that gave him the address of a nearby soup kitchen. He said bless you. And then I started crying all over again. How messed up am I?
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well maybe at school you are happy being around alot of other people that enjoy being with you. maybe your not happy at home because your parents don't support you or they don't enjoy being around you because you get mad at them. try doing something nice for them that thet will appreciate. see what happens. your not messed up, you're just grateful for what you have and upset because you see people who don't have what you have. it simply meens you have a great heart.
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that's not messed up at all!u dnt have anything 2 worry about.you r just sensitive.and a lot of ppl feel depressed at home and happy at school.so dnt worry!Happy Holidays!please rate
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k man your not retarded your actually a really sweet person...lol i think what you did for that man is something other people wouldent do and thats what makes you a good person at heart and for the not eating thing.....dude thats not cool.....try to just at leased eat a lil something for lunch and super and i think for alot of people its depressing at home because well for me i hate it because i dont get to see most of my friends and like maybe its the same for you but ya most peple do feel that way also.....anyways if you ever need more advice feel free to ask me anything
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your not messed up, your jsut emotional! thats nothing to be ashamed about, seriously! i can be a lil emotional at times to! dont worry! i promise your not messed up! and about the food thing, if you hungry then eat, but if your not then dont just eat to please other people! thats just dumb! plus if you eat to much when your not hungry then you'll throw up and that might make you become belemic, so yah, eat when your hungry, dont if your not! haha, problem solved!
happy holidays!
~Haley~
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i feel the same way all happy and smiley at school but always mad and stuff at home becuase i someimtes can't stand my parents. and well it was really nice of you to give the homeless man money and you cried after the Happy Holidays thing your normal your just more sensitive than others. you just feel sorry for the man and you just think that he could live a better life. or that your living the life that man could have lived. it's okay to let it out. it shows you care for the people that need help.
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no your not messed up, it just shows you how much you care about someone and man, if that guy knew that you were crying because of him, i bet he would feel so much happier because someone thought of him and CARED about him =) you did a very good thing about giving him 15 dollars altogether. your a good kid, and your not messed up your perfectly fine, i'm the same way (home = not happy, school = having a really good time) this doesn't mean theres something wrong with you!. x0
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omg you are not messed up at all! that is so kind of you to do, i give homeless people money al the time too.. i wish i could just bring them home and give them a place to stay, so i know how you feel! your just reallly nice and caring x3
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You're just veru generous and care about people around you. There's nothing wrong with that. But if you're around the age of 13, your hormones are acting up. But otherwise, nothing. You're fine, so don't worry. happy Holidays
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You are totally not messed up at all. You seem to be a very kind sensitive person who likes helping people out. I'm usually like that, i laugh all the time at school then i'm depressed soemtimes about other stuff. That is one of the most nicest things you can do during the holidays was giving that man money and the name of a soup kitchen.
~Brina~
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Maybe you could see some counsolars. I go to Youth works it works well. And i can really understand where you are coming from. With him not having a really good holiday but he was thankful for what you did and he is going to make the best of that and that will give him a good holiday! Hun what you did was so thoughtful and so non-selfish. You did a very nice thing for him! Im proud of you! Keep that up its people like that makes the world go round and a better place!! My mom and my auntie used to work at a homeless shelter and me and my cousin would go down there and we would watch them eat just bread and a bowl of soup and that would smiles on there faces. It was awesome to see that the littlest things could bring a smileon there face. But once again good for you! To maybe let you help more you could join a team like we have on thats called Hero.. and you help the poor. Or you could go to the Dorthy Day house and help get food for the needy. Or you could go to a old folks home and help them out play a game of checkers with them. You know. I totally gapped out on the hole not eating thing. I did that for like 2 weeks my mom got extremely worried brought me in and it wasnt to good. Eat. its good for you and if you are really worried about then you should tell your mom about it so you can fix that and get better and healthier. I hate to see you go thru it because it could kill you and you dont want that!! Im always here if you need to talk or whatever. I dont care if you dont make sense when your talking because ill always be here to try and help! Some of my friends can barely talk thru all the tears and i do my best. So just know that i am here for you! Happy holidays Please Rate **trix**
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your not depressed your just another drama queen! and yes, it is retarded not to eat! do you realize within months you could end up dead? take it from someone with experience, if you are really anerexic you have a poblem and that is most likely the reason for your mood swings. eat something! and if you can't hold down your food, then you are seriously sick and you need to tell somebody. i didn't mean to be rude, but i think your 'depression' is the least of your problems.
good luck hunnie
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You're definately NOT messed up. Everyone is saying almost the same thing, but I think I should still give my answer. One question: Why don't you eat? Eatings good, believe me..yum. There's no reason not to eat. You CAN be mad and you CAN be sad, but you have to eat. I just don't understand why you are so sad and depressed. You are such a great person and from what you've said, you are very, VERY generous. That homeless man was right--"Bless you". Why did you cry? Did you cry because he was homeless, or did you cry for your own reasons? Be happy, smiling and laughing is fun. Enjoy childhood and being a teenager. It won't be here for long, so have fun while you can. These are the best times of our lives! We get to hang with our friends and do anything (mostly)! I hope you start eating again and I hope you feel better..I don't want anything bad to happen to you. We need more people like you in this world =)
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You're not messed up. you're just a considerate person. it's a good thing when it concerns you that other people wont be having as good a christmas as you are. you could probably get somethign started in your community to help these people, but first you need to help yourself. you can never really do your best to help other people until then. start eating, and then maybe you could volunteer in a soup kitchen or something of the sort. i hope you feel better soon and have a Merry Christmas!
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You're not messed up at all. You're very kind and generous. That's so cool of you to help that guy! About the depression at home, talk to your parents about. I have that same problem. I'm happy at school (i know, weird), but later on, at home, I get mad at my parents a lot, and I don't smile or laugh or anything. So I know how you feel. The best thing to do is to talk to your parents about it. Also, not eating is bad for your health. It doesn't mean you're retarded, you just have a problem. Just eat. If you think you need to lose some weight, go on a diet and exercise. Other than that, you're fine. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy Holidays!
~*Erin*~
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Messed Up!?!?!?!? i laugh! what you did was barely messed up at all. It was very very very very very generous of you to do that and the crying thing is just a little bit off BUT that is OK! because what you did was a nice thing and you should be very happy at what you did. The happy sad thing is just like what i have kinda. happy at school sad at home. maybe you could try bringing a friend home one day to do homework or something. that might help. And PLEASE PLEASE eat. think of all the delicious juicy things out there! well i hope you have a nice winter and happy new year. and i hope i've helped.
From The Monk of Funk!
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your not messed up. your just sad that they wont be having as good of a christmas then you. trying to help them is really good of you. i think its great. maybe next year you can get presents for the homeless from people you know and when you see the homeless people give them a present and maybe that will make you feel better about it.~jourdan
have a happy christmas
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