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Hey, I'm 13, and my bf wants to take it to the next level. I'm not sure what to say, I want to, but my parents would kill me. Pleaz help....
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If you think that you are ready to go to the next level with your boyfriend, then go for it! No one can stop you, even your parents! But I think you are too young to go to the next level because you will regret it, trust me! Your parents wouldn't kill you, they just don't want you to make a mistake that would cause problems! Just think about all of this and decide what you want to do! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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alright well as i can see you dont want to take it to the next level because it seems to me like your hiding being your parents....but if your really into going further....go for it....its a natural thing to do but dont think that you should if you dont want to.....if he really likes you....he will wait after all your only 13 and you shouldent feel presured to do things you dont want to do.....me personally i havent gone gone to the next level with my boy-friend and he respects that so ya......i'm 15 and i'm not ready to go all the way so you shouldent have to feel like you should if you dont want to and if he dosent respect that tell to get!!lol anyways if you need anymore help just e-mail e and i'll help!!
xoxox
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if you think your ready go for it and if your not then tell him. he can't force you. as for the parents its your life nad your body not there's. it's your life they just live in it.
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yes u should dumbass
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I would do whatever feels right in your heart. I base my decisions off of that and what I think God will think of me because I know that is all that truly matters. Good Luck! ~Brit
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Well, if the level your talking about is sex, as you probably should know that is a really young age to be doing that. You should never disobey your parents no matter what. If you do decide to you should tell your parents.
~Brina~
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Well dont tell your parents no matter what. I mean c'mon would you want to know that stuff about your kid? I wouldnt but yet i would but still. Anyways your only 13 and you shouldnt be going to far. Maybe kissing and thats about it. I am 15 and havent had sex. Im waiting for that. Just tell him you dont want to and if he doesnt except that then dump him because you deserve a bf that respects your choices! Happy holidays Please Rate **trix**
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Take it from experience, you are too young to think about doing that. I'm sure you've heard that 50 times before and only because it's true. Your parents should want to kill you (not literally) for taking it to the next level. Wait a couple of years. You have your whole life ahead. Don't worry about taking it to the next level at such a young age. Worry about fun and family and friends like we all truthly should be. You'll regret it if you do "take it to the next level". Far be it for me to stop you, I can only warn you. xoxo
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ok i'm sure you know what's coming. you are TOO YOUNG, and you're hearing this from a fellow 13 year old. If your boyfriend is asking for "the next level" then all he wants is to get in your pants and nothing else. I'm a guy by the way so either i know what i'm talking about or i'm all off. but NONE THE LESS listen to everybody else who's been against this crap and don't do it.
Monk of Funk
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I think you're too young. It also sounds like you have some doubt, otherwise you wouldn't have asked! I wouldn't do it. Wait until you're older. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Happy Holidays!
~*Erin*~
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Definitly, if you have somthing inside you telling you that its not right- DO not do it. This could hurt your relationship, or you, or like you said- your parents. So absolutly be 100% certain on what you want to do. Your boyfriend should understand this completely.. and just talk to him about it- no worries. And when the time is right.. go for it. But Only if your ready.. and not what HE wants to do or w.e .. Good luck ! :-D
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umm... your 13, my next door neighbor had sex when she was 13, and now she's 14, and she's having sex with like EVERYONE! You really don't want to get preggers when your 13 do you? Plus, if your parents found out, you wouldn't be aloud to go anywhere and they wouldn't trust you for like, EVER! sorry for kind of yelling, but you really shouldn't have sex at that age.
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first off your 13 i think your too younge but thats me. im almost 15 and i still wont do anything past kissing. its up to you on what you want to do right now. if you dont want to say no its up to you. just know this, know the conseqences that youll have later, like regreting and all so think it over well before you do anything your not sure about
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You need to think about it sweetie. Maybe you've heard this a couple times before but 13 is WAY to young! Your not ready and to be honest, your boyfriend will probably have sex with you and leave you for someone else. Why give up something so special to a guy who you wont be with in the future. Sex is somethign sacred and should be with someone you love and you should wait till your older. Also think about pregnancy. What if your 13 and pregnant? Then what! Think about it and its your choice but be smart--Macwh0re
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