I'm 14 and live in RI, I have more questions then answers, but if you veiw this, I can try to help you as well as I can.
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Location: RI
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Age: 14
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Member Since: August 18, 2004
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This guy asked me out like two years ago and I said no but now he and I are sort of friends. And I think he might still like me. So if I hinted around and flirted and stuff do you think he would ask me out again? Or do you think I already missed my only chance? (link)
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There is never olny one chance. Just be yourself and flirt and do whatever you want. I would do all that because i bet he still likes you a bit and you could get him to like you again. Happy Holidays!
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my bf isnt excactly the cutest person in the world but i love him so much. alot of the time some of my friends that i'm not that close to always ask me questions about why im going out with him. and this girls in one of my classes always says how she would only go out with a guy if he was cute. and my bf sits right behind me in that class. he's not like ugly or anything but he's not hot either. i don't know what 2 do about it when pple tell me that i shouldnt go out with him or ask me why i am going out with him. please help........ (link)
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I have the same problem. And you shouldn't listen to what they say and just go with how YOU feel not not worry about what other people think. If you love him, who care what he looks like? MY bf is the nicest guy in the world and people tell me I could date a better looking guy if I wanted, but i love my bf too much and I don't want to risk hurting him or giving up on something great. You just should not listen to them. I mean, u sound happy and he's happy so that's all that matters, right? Good Luck.
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Hey, I'm 13, and my bf wants to take it to the next level. I'm not sure what to say, I want to, but my parents would kill me. Pleaz help.... (link)
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umm... your 13, my next door neighbor had sex when she was 13, and now she's 14, and she's having sex with like EVERYONE! You really don't want to get preggers when your 13 do you? Plus, if your parents found out, you wouldn't be aloud to go anywhere and they wouldn't trust you for like, EVER! sorry for kind of yelling, but you really shouldn't have sex at that age.
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Okay my friend and i (he's a guy) are not really talking! Because I have been ignoring him, and supposedly he isn't mad at me! I found out he is sick today and lives right up the street from me! I was wondering should i go up the street to give him some chickensoup or pasta? Or should I even go up there to see him?! Would it be too random?! (link)
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I'd go up there and give him some soup! It would be nice, and maybe you'd talk again. And atleast he'd realize that you care about him and want to talk again.
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Dear Advicenators,
One and a half years ago my brother *Henry* was diagnosed with hemophilia, which means that his blood does not clot normally. If he gets a cut, it's really hard to stop the bleeding. If he loses too much blood, he could die if the blood is not replenished.
Henry and I always liked to spend time together (he's two years older than me). We'd ride bikes to the park and shoot basketball hoops. He couldn't be too active, but he was my best friend and I felt safe around him.
Anyway, he lost a lot of blood one day, and was taken to the doctor for another blood injection. The horrible part was, that the person who had donated that blood was carrying the AIDS virus. The doctor proclaimed that Henry now had AIDS.
Henry is 15 years old, is in diapers, and must be fed through an IV or a tube. He has about 4 months left to live. My entire family is sad, and angry about it. My parents must monitor him all the time, so I always have to get a ride to my volleyball games. All three of us never have extra time, because we are always there for Henry and when he must be hospitalized. I had to drop out of volleyball for him.
Henry has been the butt of the jokes from the kids at school lately. They make fun of the fact that he has been in diapers. They are unaware of the fact that his brain is slowly being devoured, and he can't feed himself. The AIDS is tearing the whole family apart. But luckily, my friends are there to console me, but I always feel resentment towards the cruel kids at school. Can I please have some suggestions on what to do about that?
Anyway, as I am spending my last Christmas with my brother, I have no idea what present to give to him. Could I please have some ideas? I want it to be special and something he'll remember when he goes to Heaven.
Also, how can I comfort / cheer up my parents? They have been having lots of mood swings lately and have been very stressed.
Any input and prayer would be great. Sorry about the length. (link)
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I know, you've heard this a million times, but I'm very very sorry for you and your family. You all are in my prayers. I'm really cant answer your questions, but you may want to try to collect photos of good times you have with your brother to help remember when everything was good. You could also write to your town, or donate money to an organization (maybe to do with AIDS research or a blood bank) You could also try to set up somekind of charity fund or %K run or something in his name. I bet many people who hear about his story would participate, or have had the same sort of experience. I will pray for you. My sympathies.
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Ok there is a guy a like aand he thinks I'm cute and he and his friend asked if my friend and I wanted to go swimming and we said yes. But should I change my mind? I'm scared because what I fall or trip or something.
Sincerely,
CameronLover1 (link)
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GO WITH HIM!! Don't worry about falling or something- because if you don' think about it- it prbly won't happen. Just take everything one step at a time- and you'll be fine. Have fun!
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i am the kind or person that likes to keep things tom myself how can i get my mom to buy me tampons and let me shave my legs without saying it to her face?(hinting) (link)
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Write her a note adn tell her in that- that's what I did.
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I'm 16 and i know im pregnant. Im starting to gain weight, my family has a good reputation,like no pregnancies below 20 i dont know how to tell my mom what should i do
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Write your mom a note- and tell her you're pregnant in that. Or ask her to drive you somewhere ALONE and tell her then, when you're in the car. Unless you're afriad she's gonna crash the car when you tell her- then that wouldn't be a good idea.
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My friend is having a birthday/sleepover party this weekend. Problem is..I dont like sleeping over anybody`s house (just a problem I have) I do sometimes though..but i reeally dont like it. Plus, the friends shes inviting are people i dont know at all.Please help, i dont want to go to this party..what should i say to my friend? I really dont feel comfortable sleeping over someone`s house ive never been to before.My friend, whos going to be there, knows about my problem and im afraid shes going to tell.Should I make up a dumb excuse or admit my problem and jus hang at her house til like 10? I really dont wanna hurt my friends feelings or embarass myself.
Thank you soo much for the help in advance!!! (link)
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A fellow person who doesn't like sleepovers! I feel your pain. Tell your friend who knows that you don't wanna sleepover that you don't want her to tell. If she's really your friend, she won't tell. If she does- just tell your friend whose having the sleepover the truth. Just tell her anyway. Say you have something big (like a soccer game or relatives coming) in the morning and you can't sleepover. Just staying till 10 sounds fine!
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well i have a boyfriend but i really like my best friends boyfriend…but so does she…she absolutely loves him! my boyfriends really nice…and i like him and my friends boyfriend the same…which is a WHOLE lot…please help! (link)
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So do you like your own Boyfriend as much as you like your best friend's boyfriend? You had me a bit confused. If you like your boyfriend the same amount- just try to forget about the other one. I would just try to get to know your boyfriend better. I think you'll find out you like your own boyfriend a lot more. :)
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