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PLEASE HELP
my bf isnt excactly the cutest person in the world but i love him so much. alot of the time some of my friends that i'm not that close to always ask me questions about why im going out with him. and this girls in one of my classes always says how she would only go out with a guy if he was cute. and my bf sits right behind me in that class. he's not like ugly or anything but he's not hot either. i don't know what 2 do about it when pple tell me that i shouldnt go out with him or ask me why i am going out with him. please help........
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Dont listen to people. You should only like a guy for whats in the inside not on the outside.
~Brina~
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this has happened to me, all my friends thought he was ugly (he was hot) anyway, just tell them to shut up! Dont LET them say that about a person you love!
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screw what they think! one of the top 5 things i hate is when people say/do stuff to try and break people up. Your with a great guy and who cares what they think! next time someone says that to you..stick up for your guy! you know if you were in his place you'd want him to do the same right. Plus its wrong what theyre saying! tell her to mind her business and your very happy with your guy and you dont care what anyone else thinks. All these people who say this to you have nothing better to do..they are so pathetic! Most of them are jealous
Stick up for your relationship..dont let them say stuff again..looks arent everything and its something so0o many people dont realize. But im glad you realize it
-melissa
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That happend to me before. i think i can help. All of my friends were pressuring me to dump him, but i really liked him. I broke up with him, and no i wish that i hadnt, b/c i still liked him, and i felt really bad for doing that. Tell your friends that you like him for who he is, not what he looks like on the outside. The really hot onse are usually the biggest jerks. Its up to you, not them. Dont make hte same mistake i did. Hope i helped!
*~* Danielle*~*
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Just be like "if i told you why i liked him you might end up liking him too :)" Or just say why you like him and your not shallow and dont go for looks only. yeah looks do matter but not always Its everybodys first thing they notice on someone but dont always let it go to your head. Would you want to have someone that is only going out with you because of your looks? I doubt it. That girl is shallow. Sorri if she is your friend but she is. MERRY CHRISTMAHANUKWANSIKAH!!!!! / Merry christmas!! ((please rate)) Trix!
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I have had the same problem, i was going out with this guy, and he realyl wasnt all that great looking, but he wasnt ugly, and people would always tell me to dump him, but i really liked him..so i know how you feel..
Just ignore them, or when they ask, tell them the truth, that it doesnt matter what he looks like, just how he treats you and how you feel when your around him, that sort of thing
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I have the same problem. And you shouldn't listen to what they say and just go with how YOU feel not not worry about what other people think. If you love him, who care what he looks like? MY bf is the nicest guy in the world and people tell me I could date a better looking guy if I wanted, but i love my bf too much and I don't want to risk hurting him or giving up on something great. You just should not listen to them. I mean, u sound happy and he's happy so that's all that matters, right? Good Luck.
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dont listen to those "friends" your boyfriend is like any other guy you should only breakup w/ him if you guys have a crisis with eachother etc
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you are going to have to ignore them because there will be people in your life who are creeps and there is nothing you can do to change that. you can tell them how they need to stop bothering you about it because you were mature enough to go out with someone for their personality instead of their looks.
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just ignore them. looks shouldn't be the reason to fall in love with someone in the first place. it could grab your attention of someone....but its never the source of true love. if you love him enough...looks shouldn't matter. and as far as your friends go.....just forget 'em. they obviously don't know what their talking about. hope i helped!
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It's great that you're not shallow. My boyfriend isn't really that hot and it doesn't bother me at all. When my friends ask why I'm with him I tell them that I like his personality. Tell the girl in your class that looks really aren't everything. And that it's much better to be treated well by a person who isn't that hot rather than be treated badly by some good looking guy. If she doesn't listen then ignore her and always reassure your boyfriend that you like him for who he is.
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Tell them that looks don't matter. Personality/brains/good heart does. When they say that turn around and be like "he is cute to me and even if he was ugly I rater be with someone ugly and sweet than hot and mean." I hope I helped!
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