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A few days ago the guy I used to like asked me out... of course I said yes. Last night his friend dumped me for him. Later that night the same friend imed me saying how sry they are that they would do that to me. At first i was confused on what happened, but as they kept talking to me a realized that it was a joke. They made a bet that if i went out with him for a few days he would get money. I'm not mad b/c i still like him (now i hate him), I'm mad at them b/c they were my close friends and they thought it was ok to do something like that. The thing is, is that i'm not sure if i should forgive them, they were my friends and i know i might be sry if i never talk to them again.
thanks for the help
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wow tahts preatty messed up but hey dont get mad get even, revenge is a dish best served cold mwahahaha. um sorry. anyways if your friend seems realyl sorry about it then yeah you should forgive them but if she evens makes a little joke about it like oh come on you know it wa at least a little bit funny jsut turn around and dont look back
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I would talk to them but make sure its clear that you were pretty hurt and mad.. and that you still are. And thats its NOT alright to do something like that to you! MERRY CHRISTMAHANUKWANSIKAH!!!!! / Merry christmas!! ((please rate)) Trix!
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you can still talk to them but i dont think you should hang out with them that much and join a new clique etc
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forgiving them is really up to you. i think it would be best that you forgive them because you should always forgive. god forgives you for sining.. so why shouldn't you forgive your friends for using you? i still think you should find better friends, because they aren't worth it.
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Your question confuses me. "I'm not mad b/c i still like him (now i hate him),". How can you still like him but now hate him? Or is this one of those don't read inside parenthieseis (no idea how to spell it) type thing? Please don't rate.
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hey , i tihnk if they were youre real friends they wouldnt do that kind of thing.that was a bad thing to do and if yuo 4 give them they might turn on u again. just stay cooland keep ur head high!
~~~kim~~~
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i think you guys need to talk about it. ask him why he would do that to you if you guys were such good friends. listen to what he has to say, and then make your decision on if you want to forgive him or not. if you say you might regret not forgiving him, then just go ahead and forgive him. i hope i've helped. good luck and merry christmas :o)
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are you a guy or a gurl...? if your a guy are you gay? im confused... anyway if they realize what they had done was wrong and they said sorry you should forgive them.. but dont let it slide next time... and tell them both that it was messed up what they did and make sure they know it wont ever be the same between you... let me know how it works out!!
..hope i heled... <3Quizzle
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forgive them, its christmas, and plus they are your friends... and if you dont forgive them later when you need them in your life their not going to be there for you. so forgive them. MERRY CHRiSTMAS! X0
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its the holidays i say give them another chance but if they screw up one more time thats it. maybe since you guyz are close they thought you wouldn't take it so seriously or something and besides there boys and when boys get together they think of crazy ideas. happy holidays!
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