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Did I miss my only chance?


Question Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 7:02 pm

This guy asked me out like two years ago and I said no but now he and I are sort of friends. And I think he might still like me. So if I hinted around and flirted and stuff do you think he would ask me out again? Or do you think I already missed my only chance?

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FminusEVB answered Sunday December 26 2004, 10:19 pm:
Why don't YOU ask HIM out.

don't be one of those girls that waits for the guy to do the work. That's annoying and gets you nowhere. Besides, you don't have him right now so what have you to lose?

-Emily

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isthatdisposable answered Sunday December 26 2004, 6:25 pm:
why dont u just tell him you made a mistake and you like him? wouldnt it be easier telling him this and knowing whether u have a chance or not than worrying about it all the time? and if he doesnt like you, so what? whats the loss?.... i hope i helped and good luck!

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icey0990 answered Sunday December 26 2004, 12:47 pm:
No way i dont think you missed your chance at all! In fact, your relationship will probably be better being that 2 years went by. Both of you are more mature. So go for it! Flirt around and im sure you can get him in no time
Good luck! :)
-melissa

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Boytalk2004 answered Sunday December 26 2004, 11:35 am:
Well go out a limb an dask him out and open ur heart to other ppl if he says no.

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UWishUHadMyHemi answered Sunday December 26 2004, 12:08 am:
if you think that he still likes you, then i say go for it. its never too late for a realtionship to start. just tell him that you would like to give the dating thing a try, even though you said no before. tell him that you have really started to like him. he'll understand, and if he DOES like you, then yay for you. hope this helps. good luck ~*stef

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CMONEY08 answered Saturday December 25 2004, 11:09 pm:
If you flirt enuff and drop those signs that you want to be more than friends, he probly will start liking you again. Try talking to him about it too. But member...Actions speak louder than words so FLIRT GURL! Good luck happy holidays!

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dirkman answered Saturday December 25 2004, 10:59 pm:
Its not to late. It depends on the person. I once missed out on a relationship with someone, and I regret it. Just hope for the best, and he should ask you out. Good luck. Yes!

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frenchfries21 answered Saturday December 25 2004, 8:53 pm:
you may have or may not have. see what happens, you should be flirty and stuff so if he does still like you maybe you have a second chance. you never know unless you give it a try.
hope i helped!!
~~StEf~~

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danceonme answered Saturday December 25 2004, 8:37 pm:
I think better than being subtle you should just come right out and say what you think.

In a non-intimidating way, of course. Guys really have a hard time picking up on hints. Maybe you could say something like "do you remember when you asked me out awhile ago?" and when he says he does maybe you could say "well, i just thought maybe now we could give it a shot."

In your question you say "And I think he might still like me...." do you want him to ask you out because you like him also?

Remember, even if asking him out or questioning the status seems scary, don't worry about it. Years from now it won't matter a bit.

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Saturday December 25 2004, 8:31 pm:
I dont think you missed your chance completely maybe he has moved on but there probably is always a open door for u and him so i would try and give it a chance. So good luck! MERRY CHRISTMAHANUKWANSIKAH!!!!! / Merry christmas!! ((please rate)) Trix!

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Advice_x33 answered Saturday December 25 2004, 8:09 pm:
I think he would ask you out again..Maybe you should talk to him about it, or some of his friends, maybe they know something about it..

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MyPainIsReal answered Saturday December 25 2004, 7:52 pm:
I'd go ahead and try and flirt. You never know until you try it out. It's hard to determine your chances if he hasn't said so. I'm sure if he acts like he still likes you then you didn't miss your chance. xo

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mintfroggy answered Saturday December 25 2004, 7:46 pm:
There is never olny one chance. Just be yourself and flirt and do whatever you want. I would do all that because i bet he still likes you a bit and you could get him to like you again. Happy Holidays!

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BeFABULOUSxo answered Saturday December 25 2004, 7:46 pm:
no u did not.. flirt with him or tell one of your friends to "accidently" slip to him that you like him.. you gotta give him some sort of sign that you like him! hope i helped! mErRy XmAs!!! love ali feedback is greatly appreciated!

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jamziix16 answered Saturday December 25 2004, 7:29 pm:
you never know until you actually talk to him. well, flirt around for a little bit longer.. if he continues to react then talk to him. tell him you have feelings for him. maybe he'll come out and say it too? good luck! hope i've helped and have a merry christmas :o)

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storageanddisposal answered Saturday December 25 2004, 7:10 pm:
Hmm. Well, if a girl turned me down, the chances of me asking her out again are pretty damn slim. It's been two years and you flirt a lot? There's a chance he'll ask you out, but there's an even greater chance that he won't. Why don't you ask him out? It is, after all, your turn.

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