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does anyone know ways to get over boys that you really LOVE? (link)
All you can do is wait it out...love hurts...


today me and my boyfriend were surpose to hangout...well his parents came home early from work so i was going to go to his house...but then he called me and he said he was going to go buy a game with his older brother real quick and hell be right back and hell call me when he got back...he left @ 2 30 today.....its now 4:20!! i called at 4 but his mom answered and said he still wasnt here...im giving him till 5 to call me....when he calls me later when he does get home and its past 5...what do i say? how do i handle this? its pretty rude what he did.... (link)
Do juss wat he did to u. Don't call him bak or anything. Thats so messed up that he would ditch you. If he does call bak juss be like o i cant. And dont do anything with him for a week to teach him a lesson...ha ha revenge is o so sweet


I'm 13 and wondering... (link)
Yah...rite...thats kewl. But what the H are you wondering???? You could be wondering a lot of things. Like what your gonna eat for breakfast tomorow. Did you feed the dog? Where are my shoes? Let's try and be more specific


sometimes i get forget to put deoderant on n i get mad bo so i just dont lift my arms.
any solutions? (link)
Remember to wear deodorant or keep some in ur locker at skewl


hey, I'm 13/f and i might have a four or five friends over for a slumber party soon. What are some things we can do?? We LOVE comedy and we aren't very into make-up. What are some good movies we could watch?? And what activities could we do?? (link)
You gotta watch Napoleon Dynamite!!! And Night at the Roxbury...those are classics!


I was at a friends party. We started playing 7 Minutes In Heaven. Well, my best friends BF, who we'll call Phil, was there. Well, I had been crushing on Phil for a long time and they dared me to make-out with him for 7 mins. Well, I made a dumb move. I did it. Well, later, when my BFF, who we'll cal Diane, Diane asked Phil back out earlier that night and he said yes. Well Phil told Diane he ust kissed me on the cheek so she wouldnt get mad cause he reaaaallly likes me. Well, she broke ^ with him. she was gonna sk him back out but he spilled: EVERYTHING Well, she called me, totally pissed. And I have tried everything apologizing trying to talk to he. She hates me. WHAT DO I DO?! ~*~ Alyssa ~*~ (link)
Well its good that you had no idea that they were going bak out...cuz if u did tht would have been pretty messed up. Just keep apologizing and tell her that u had no idea and that it was a dare and it meant nothing to u. Hopefully she will forgive you. Just keep trying!


I just have a quick question, shouldn't take long.

See, I'm wanting to lose some weight in the tummy area, but... I've heard that if you work out a lot, your breast size drops. I'm a C cup, and I like it that way. Any tips on things I can do that will drop weight in the stomache and nowhere else?

Thanks! (link)
Do crunches or sit ups


i'm trying to make icons for my band and its just not working. Does anyone know of a way to help i want to make one of those flashy ones if thats possible where the band name flashes and then the picture flashes if that makes since. please help because any and all advice is useful especially if you know of nice little program that can help me out. (link)
if you go to iconmaker.com it should work


im 14 going on 15/f. ive never had a b/f but ive had this one crush for 2 yrs. now! Were good friends now and lately all of my friends have had b/f. i kinda feel left out, but being single is fun 2! i kno this sounds wrong...to me it does 2, but lately all ive wanted 2 do is grab my crush and just kiss him! i think i have a problem...what should i do! please help!~ (link)
That's definitly not a problem by having those feelings. Everyone gets them! You say you like being single but want to have a bf so u dont feel left out...hmmm well i personally think tht you should do watever you feel lke and dont let your friends let peer pressure make you do anything you dont want to do. If you like the guy go for it! Bf's are always great to have!


I'dating this boy, I really liked him about 2 days ago. Now I don't. What do I do?????????????



* I'm really bad at breaking up with ppl too (link)
Well if youre shure that you have no feelings for him anymore then break up with him. you dont want it to get any serious than it is and end up breaking the guys heart. Break up with him gently by telling him that you still wanna be friends and that maybe later on in life you guys can maybe hook up. good luck!


my best friend likes me and he asked me if i want to go out.What should i say? (link)
It depends. Do you like him enuff to be with him? Or do you think you guys are juss good friends? It all depends on what your feelings are for him


ok, on dec 22 this guy whom i liked gave me a ring. after skool that day, we started going out. we go places after skool and talk on the phone all the time and we're going to the mall tomorrow (tuesday)...but i still feel kinda distant from him...like on the phone there's long silences.how can i make it so that i don't feel like that without telling him i feel like that?*kinda confuszing but plz help!* (link)
Well when you have those awkward pauses, ask him some stuff about his life. That way there won't be any awkwardness and you get to know more about him!


my boyfriend is always pressuring me to have sex. i'm not a virgin, which i told him, but i dont think i am ready to have sex with him. i mean we have been going out for 4 months, but i really dont think i am ready for that kind of commitment. the last and first guy i had sex with was my first love we had known each other since we were 3. me and him are still friends and my boyfriend always gets jealous of me talkin to him. he also cussed me out various times in person and on the phone. i really dont know what to do about this and i KNOW i cant ask my mom cuz she would go and cuss him out. 17/f/ga (link)
It sounds to me like you need a new bf. If he is pressuring you into doing things your not ready for, verbaly abussing you, and gettin jealous everytime you talk to one of your other guy friends, he doesnt sound like a good bf to me. Don't wast all of your love and tim eon a guy that isnt gonna return the favor.


i really really love this guy but hes might best friend. im not sure if he likes me so i dont want to tell him how i feel. what should i say? (link)
This may sound redundant..but tell him EXACTLY how you feel. Don't leave any details out. That way he will really know how u feel and maybe he will feel the same


ok my boyfriend and i had oral sex. i fell like i have betrayed everyone and now i dont know if i was ready. is this normal?
Thanks
Lauren (link)
It's not really normal becuz if you dont think your ready then thats not good. You should wait until your totally ready to try sexual things with your bf. You can't take bak wat you did...but you can talk to ur bf and tell him taht you think you guys rushed into it. He should respect you for that and if he doesnt..kick him to the curb


I was going out with this guy that i like a lot. He's perfect in my eyes, and i am in his. we were perfect for each other and things were great until my cousin got involved. she's a little more "advanced" and he likes that. he doesnt like her like her at all, but he wouldnt mind getting some. i felt like a bad gf because i wouldnt do that stuff but he understood. anyways, things eventually didnt work out, and i broke up with him. now, hes going out with someone that i used to be friends with. all of my other guy friends talk to him and say that he still loves me, but he has a gf so i dont see how thats possible. i really wish he did because i still love him a lot. so anyway, we flirt a LOT, and lately ive been more in love with him than ever. i dont know what to do because i dont know if he still loves me, or if hes just leading me on. it seems as though he still has feelings for me but i dont know how to tell. what do i do? i really want them to break up, but i dont want them to until he really does still love me. any advice? i'd rly appreciate it. i dont care how incoherant your reponse is, i'll rate you a 5. (link)
Talk to him about it. He says he loves you but then again he has a gf...hmmm intresting. If he really does still love u he's probly just with this chic to try and get over you. Tell him your feelings for him and that you still love him and want to get bak together. Good luck! Lemme know how it works out!


hi im 14 f and i want a boyfriend! where is the best place 2 meet one?
thanks love nicki
xxx (link)
The best place is school! That way you can see your boy toy every day!


I have straight hair already, but it is pretty static and VERY flyawayish...and its kinda bushy sometimes...what is the best hair straightener out there? I've heard ceramic hair straighterners are good?? (link)
The CONAIR cermaic straightener works magic. Almost a year ago I got a perm and I didnt like it so I straighten my hair every morning becuz the perm is still kinda in there. I use that straightener and the oils in it leave my hair shiny and dont fry my hair. I love it and its only like $13 at Target. Good luck!
~$CMONEY$~


okay, one of my kinda close guy friends [who likes me more than a friend] bought me a necklace for xmas... the thing is, he "forgot" to take off the price tag which was stuck on underneath the box.. it was $129.. the price tag was also inside the box kinda hidden under the necklace plate. obviously he wanted me to see how much it costed? lol what do u guyz think? (link)
Maybe he really didnt kno the price tags were under there. But my advice is hold on to this guy friend! If u can find a guy friend that will buy you that expensive of a necklace...hes worth more than the necklace!


I have this friend(a guy)who i really like...yesterday he came over to hang out wth me and my other friend...me and him wrestled for like an hour and he kept hugging me...he also held my hand but we were playin around so after a second of owkward silence he pushed me and we started playin mercy...im not sure if he likes me or not...Please Help! (link)
Those are definite signs of flirting!! Flirt bak gurl...if you like him go after him! Bf's are good to have...specially round Christmas time and birthdays! lol jk jk! I'm not that shallow! Anywayz go after him before someone else snatches him out of the "single club"




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