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am i a boyfriend stealer?


Question Posted Monday December 27 2004, 4:20 am

I was going out with this guy that i like a lot. He's perfect in my eyes, and i am in his. we were perfect for each other and things were great until my cousin got involved. she's a little more "advanced" and he likes that. he doesnt like her like her at all, but he wouldnt mind getting some. i felt like a bad gf because i wouldnt do that stuff but he understood. anyways, things eventually didnt work out, and i broke up with him. now, hes going out with someone that i used to be friends with. all of my other guy friends talk to him and say that he still loves me, but he has a gf so i dont see how thats possible. i really wish he did because i still love him a lot. so anyway, we flirt a LOT, and lately ive been more in love with him than ever. i dont know what to do because i dont know if he still loves me, or if hes just leading me on. it seems as though he still has feelings for me but i dont know how to tell. what do i do? i really want them to break up, but i dont want them to until he really does still love me. any advice? i'd rly appreciate it. i dont care how incoherant your reponse is, i'll rate you a 5.

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Natalie answered Monday December 27 2004, 9:49 pm:
No you are not a boyfriend stealer he was yours first. And if there is even the smallest sign he still likes you as more then just friends, then he probably does, Don't be afraid to ask him straight up. Most guys like when a girl is confident enough to talk to him and not be fake about it. GOODLUCK!!!

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iggyl27 answered Monday December 27 2004, 5:33 pm:
ummm....you could start talking to him on the phone as friends and then maybe bring up the subject about your relationship that you guys had and or maybe will have again hoped i helped!!

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babeoriental answered Monday December 27 2004, 12:11 pm:
no i wouldn't say your a boyfriend stealer becuase i mean you were with him first. but if you think he likes you alot then he probably does. but you should talk to him yourself becuase i mnea who knwos maybe your friends might be making things up just to make you happy. good luck

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cRaZyInLoVe6748 answered Monday December 27 2004, 12:00 pm:
well if he's been flirting with you then that probubly means he still likes you. but he has a girlfriend. talk to him about it. its hard to find out from friends cuz you don't know if they'll always tell you the truth. the only thing i can tell you is to talk to him. he's probubly just trying to get over you or make you jelous with this other girl. i hope i helped! please rate!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*

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Advice_x33 answered Monday December 27 2004, 11:49 am:
Talk to him about it, tell him how you feel..
Maybe he still loves you, so go for it..
You'll regret it if you dont

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CMONEY08 answered Monday December 27 2004, 11:39 am:
Talk to him about it. He says he loves you but then again he has a gf...hmmm intresting. If he really does still love u he's probly just with this chic to try and get over you. Tell him your feelings for him and that you still love him and want to get bak together. Good luck! Lemme know how it works out!

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NEVERLETG00 answered Monday December 27 2004, 11:06 am:
well dont do anything stupid to make them break up, if he does really like you he'll come back to you, trust me. hes probably thinkin about going back out with u since you guys flirt, right? well hope things work out! x0

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icey0990 answered Monday December 27 2004, 10:59 am:
Hey , just because he has a new gf doesnt mean he loves her. He just might be going out with her to try and get over you. Their relationship doesnt seem half as solid as yours were with him. I dont think your a bf stealer because its not like your doing things with him on the side. Keep flirting with him and Im confident that you`ll get back together. After some more flirting I think you should talk with him about her..ask him if he still has feelings for you..let him know you still love him. Dont try and break them up though, you wont need to because i think this guy still likes you a lot also. Good luck with everything
-melissa

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BeFABULOUSxo answered Monday December 27 2004, 10:47 am:
you should keep flirting and eventually that other girl will see that his true efelings for you are greater than the ones for her. then.. jus go back out with him.. *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi *feedback is greatly appreciated!*

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Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Monday December 27 2004, 6:11 am:
Hey hun..I think you should hang out together some time soon just the too of you and tell him how you feel about him. Say everything you said in your question...Letting him know will help you and him both. He might not really like his new girlfriend but secretly likes you...Just tell him how you feel and hopefully everything will turn out good!! hope i helped sorry i didnt really!!

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday December 27 2004, 4:53 am:
I would ask him about it i mean if you two are pretty close then ask him. I mean if you still got strongs feelings for the guy then i would talk to him about it and see how he feels. -trix

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iNdEeD2 answered Monday December 27 2004, 4:31 am:
you really dont need someone to tell you this one you need to go up to him and tell him ive always loved you and i no your sorry plzzz just lets be together and happy again!!!its never to late for break up then make up!!hope i helped
(((indeed2)))
and no your not a bf stealer cuz he's was never stolen from her he always belonged to you

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