*~*HEY!!! My name is Emily ((ems))!!! I love to give advice!!! You can always come to me about anything and I will always answer your questions!!! I never think questions are stupid so feel free to come to me with anything. I really like to shop and I love fashion. And...I love Spencer forever!!!! Luv ya'll!!!*~*
E-mail: esh1108@email.com
Gender: Female
Location: I guess I'm lost...
Age: 13
Member Since: December 24, 2004
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14/f i have trouble with cutting my self and i really dont kno what to do!!! any advice would be nice! (link)
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It's really dangerous to cut yourself. Usually people that cut themselves are depressed or suicidal. You have friends and family that love you even if you don't realize it. Alot of the time, girls will think their life sucks and do stupid things that make them feel better about themselves. Just try to realize the people in your life are there for a reason, and they care alot about you. They don't want to see you hurt yourself or get hurt. My friend's dad commited suicide and she just came to our school this year. At first, she was "the new kid" and no one liked her. Then, in her art class with 8th graders, she intruduced herself as a new person. After 9 weeks, they recognized her as a cool person. She is now more popular and has a bf. So even if you think your life isn't that great right now, it will turn out to be if you keep your head up. I really hope i helped!!! dropn on in the inbox if you need to say something!!!
~*~eMiLy~*~
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Does anyone know a clothing store i can order jeans at that lace up on the sides ( all the way up ) please help! asap! (link)
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those r not in style at all. if you want some really cute jeans go to hollister. you could go to american eagle but they're jeans fit really big on me. i get all my jeans at hollister and get complinments on them all the time. i hope i helped!!!
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does anybody kno anygood rap or disco songs? (link)
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well i know a bunch on hip hop, r&b, and rap: eminem,usher,ciara,mario,nelly,destiny's child, snoop dog, ludacris i dont no any disco tho, sorry
~*~((eMiLy))*~*
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i am very self concious at school and stuff. by ur column you seem to be very confident in yourself. what advice would you give me to be more like you? do you consider yourself pretty and popular? i hope so cuz i really need advice! (link)
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im not trying to brag or anything but ya i would consider myself pretty and popular. i am very confident in myself. i don't know why that is but my mom and dad always taught me that God always loves me no matter what. i just act like myself. i have great friends who love me and the best boyfriend ever. everyone is different and i learned to open up to people and just be myself. i love being me. just remember that there are people who love you. and you don't need to be pretty and popular to be liked. i am very outgoing but that's just how i am. everyone is different, and its ok if your not as outgoing as me. but you just have to learn how to be open and outgoing. give yourself more credit and don't put yourself down. i hope i helped and if you need more help just ask me!
~*~eMiLy*~*
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everybody tells me that i am very pretty. guys notice, but they are so hung up on the popular snobby girls. i hate it. its like all they want is to be popular. they don't even care about personality. what should i do!?!?!?! please help!
guys are wierd! (link)
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sorry it took so long to answer your question. i think what you need to do is pay alot of attention to the guys. flirt with them, and if there's a guy that you like pay attention to him. if the only thing a guy cares about is if your popular, then i don't think you should be paying attention to him anyways. the guys that will really care for you and respect you are the one's that like you for your personality. i'm sure there's a guy at your school that likes you, you just can't see it. be more open minded and even if the guy isn't that cute or popular himself, those are the one's that are nicer. because their not hung over their looks. my boyfriend isn't that cute, but he loves me and i love him. i couldn't be any happier. i hope i helped!
~*~((3m!Ly))~*~
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Hey everyone. I was wondering what YOU think is cute to paint or re-arrange your room, because my room has no windows and its always so dark and depressing down there and i was just wondering if you had any ideas to spice it up a bit at low costs? i will rate for effort. (link)
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i think it would be cute to have your room pink with zebra stuff in it. if you don't like that you can always just paint it a bright color to make it more happy. put cool stuff in your room that matches like lamps and furniture that matches what your going to paint your room like. just be creative. i hope i helped!
~3m!Ly~
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okay..well there is this boy i like...his name is mike..an well i was talking to him online not to long ago...an we pretty much just met. he probly only saw me like 2 times..an well i told him i like him just last week an we were talkin online the other day an he said he liked me too...an yeah but he wants us to meet up somewhere...an im okay with that its just that....what should i do...i mean he only saw me about 2 times this year an we onyl talk alot online...so yeah..what should i say to him....?? HELP ME PLEASE...i rate VERY good (link)
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if he likes you it doesn't matter if you look stupid in front of him. just talk to him like you would one of your friends. i USED to have a little trouble talking to guys but i just got used to it. be flirty and if your not ready to completely go by yourself bring a friend along, he shouldn't care. i hope i helped!
~3m!Ly~
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i am fat.. when i look in the mirror i look like a mini-sumowrestler.. i'm 13.. 5'1 and i weigh 110lbs.. please tell me how to lose the blubber on my abnormally huge thighs and my blubbery stomach.. it would be much appreciated! ps; i hate exercise and i'm too young to get lapo.. please give me good dieting info.. (link)
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110 lbs isnt very much, it might be more than some girls but that's ok. it's unhealthy to starve yourself so just eat lighter meals and i know you hate excercise but it really does help. if you do 25-50 situps a day it will give you stomache muscles. i hope i helped!
~3m!lY~
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i don't experiment with my hair. usually just keep it straightened and long. but anyways i feel like doing something new with it and i just took a shower so it's still pretty damp but with my actual question: what does mousse do to your hair? i've been trying to get that like crimped *but not so crimped* like.. wavy/curly look. and when i talk to girls who do it they say their hair is naturally like that and they just gel it up. but my hair is like.. just small wavy when it's gel'd and my best friend said just put mousse in it but problem is i don't have any mousse and i'd like to know what it looks like before i go borrow or buy some. (link)
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i use a mousse sometinmes when i scrunch my hair. all you do is take a shower and afterwards put a foaming gel or mousse and spread it all over your hair. and since my hair is kinda curly i can blow dry it using a difuzer on the end of my blow dryer and it works really well. i hope i helped!
~3m!Ly~
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ok say i met this guy on the internet and we wanted to met somewhere but not alone i mean with like other people. What if he says he is 14 but is really 45 or something should i bring a knife or a gun????? should i have a cell phone ready just in case he tries to do something to me????? NEED HELP FAST !!!!!!!!
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DONT WANNA BE KILLED (link)
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YOU DONT GO!!!! don't be stupid, don't risk it. nobody wants you to get hurt or anything. so block him and NEVER talk 2 him aain. i hope i helped!
~3m!Ly~
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i have a great group of friends. i used 2 be the "TOP girl" in the group. i was asked over all the time. now no one invites me over. what do i do (link)
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well i'm guessing something probubly happened to make your friends act like that. so you might want to try to act like that. but if nobody is asking you over you can always ask them over. i hope i helped and i hope everything works out.
~*~3m!Ly~*~
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16/f.
The other day me and my mom went to her best friends house, they have known each other since before i was born. She has two step-sons, one is 15 the other is 16. I have known them forever, and done a lot with them over the years but they live with their mom who lives an hour away from their dad and step-moms house and they are hardly ever at their dads house anymore so i hardly ever see them.....anyway, the other day they were there and we hung out while my mom and their step-mom talked while we went down to the basement and the 16 year old, we will call him Sam, anyway sam and i sat together on the couch and i have had a crush on him for so long, and we were watching tv and he laid on my shoulder and started playing with my hand and interlocking our fingers and everything and i had holes in my jeans and he started playing with them and he laid on my lap and watched tv and kept playing with my hand and i think he tried to kiss me but i didnt try to kiss him because i didnt know....so my question is, i dont have his number but i have his brothers which i an also good friends with and do you think if i call and ask his brother for his number it would be stupid and sound desprite....i dont know if i want to do it but i keep thinking about him...and yes my mom and his step-mom are good friends and see each other a lot but we dont see each other a lot...like the last time i saw them before that was about 6 months ago...i know i will see them again but i just dont know when...do u think i should call his brother and ask for his number...but sam knows his brother has my number but he hasnt tried to call me or anything so do you think i should wait till he maybe calls or wait till i see him again....i dont know...i know i sound like a little kid but i have had a crush on him since i was little....please help...thanks!!! (link)
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yes get his number and go for it!!!
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hey me and my gfg go to the movies alot and i wanna make out wit her but i dont know if she would care what should i do?weve been dateinfor l ike 3-4 months (link)
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i think that you should ask her. if you are to afraid just go ahead and make the move. because if she really loves you she would probably not care. she might also because she cares so much about you. that she doesnt want nothing too look forward to in the future of yalls relationship.
~*~3m!Ly~*~
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why is absolutebeginners such a phsycotic butthead freak that thinks people shud kill people i mean come on! this is more of a question for whatevr they r! why r u such a phsycotic butthead that is obsessed with killing people!some 1 this person needs help!
~@ c0nc3rn3d c!+!z3n~ (link)
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dear concerend,
i think that people shudnt kill people. i think that we shud all be like ghandi and want peace not war & killing. I do not no if he really needs help, unless u no him. i will be praying that this person is not crazii. maybe this person is just in a hard point in time for this young friend. if this person is young and i hope this person is. becuz i saw the question u r talking about. and that girl was probably only 15 or 16. if this person was a lot older than that and tellin them 2 kill some1, i wud definetly be very very very concerned.
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i am in love with my best friendz boyfriend lets just call him "spencer". I love him so much but she has no idea how i feel. When I am around her i feel like i am betraying her. I havnt told anyone how i feel. Should I tell him? Or should i tell her that i cant live without him? i am so confused. What should i do?
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well...it's not very nice to love your best friends boyfriend, but I know you can't help who you like. but i think you should tell her but it might not do you any good. and the weirdest part about this whole thing is...my bf's name is spencer. but talk to your friend about it. i hope i helped!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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I like this guy Dylan. N i finally told him and it turns out he likes me! Wahoo right? Wrong. He doesn't date. He got hurt really bad in a past relationship and gave dating up. He doesn't like talking about it, so I dont push. We are really good friends but I can't help but want it to be me. He says if he would take it back he would, but he would have to change who he is and that would kill him. (link)
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i hate to say it. but love is really hard to get over. just keep talking to him and see what happens. if he said he loves you he'll come around. the only way i can think of to get over somebody is to find someone else. but even then you probubly will always love him. if you have anymore questions just ask me and i'll try my best to help you. hope everything works out!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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i still cant stop wat i look at on my computer, i have tried everything, but, i feel farther and farther away from god every time. Please help (link)
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every time you feel like looking at sumthing on ur cpu that isnt right, just remember that God is always watching you. He loves you and doesn't want you looking at stuff you shouldn't be. I hope i helped!
~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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i am going to the movies with my boyfriend. i was wondering if i should make a move on him? should i kiss him? Im new at this so i dont know what i should do. my friends are coming along too and i dont know if i should make a move because they are also there. would it be weird if i did make a move? please help! (link)
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i wouldn't do it while all youre friends are there. maybe hold his hand or give him a kiss on the cheek. i hope i helped!
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~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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okay so i have this friends hes really nice to me and we always have fun together and laught and we talk on the phone for hours and just have a good time but he always gets mad at me for the stupidest things! and when ever he does something mean to me then he like completly ignors it and is like "shut up" or sumthing like that and then he laughs and acts like its no big deal. and like he always ditches me for some one more prettyier or more popular and when ever hes with them he like ignors me! wut do i do?!? am i oo nice for letting him walk all over me like that?? am i a push over!?!? idk wut to do please help soon (link)
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guys can be jerks sometimes. and i think you need to tell him that you don't like to be walked on. don't let a guy treat you like that. a guy shouldn't treat a girl like that and you need to tell him you don't like him doing that to you. but don't do anything that could ruin your relationship like be to pushy. you've done good so far, but tell him you don't like what he's doing and i hope everything works out. i hope i helped!
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~*~((HAPPY*HOLIDAYS))~*~
>>*~*{eMiLy}*~*
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