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im confused


Question Posted Monday December 27 2004, 12:58 pm

okay so i have this friends hes really nice to me and we always have fun together and laught and we talk on the phone for hours and just have a good time but he always gets mad at me for the stupidest things! and when ever he does something mean to me then he like completly ignors it and is like "shut up" or sumthing like that and then he laughs and acts like its no big deal. and like he always ditches me for some one more prettyier or more popular and when ever hes with them he like ignors me! wut do i do?!? am i oo nice for letting him walk all over me like that?? am i a push over!?!? idk wut to do please help soon

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UWishUHadMyHemi answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 1:14 am:
dont let him walk all over you. confront him next time this happens. be like "whoa now.. dont even go there" let him know that this really bugs you and you wont just let him laugh it off. DO IT! open a can of whoopass if you need to. good luck to ya ~*stefnie

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dancinqueen08 answered Tuesday December 28 2004, 12:40 am:
Don't let him push you around anymore. Tell him how you feel because if you don't he'll just keep doing it. If he doesn't care, then maybe you two need to take a break from each other for awhile.

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CoKeIzZle answered Monday December 27 2004, 10:04 pm:
He doesn't sound like much of a friend.I think he is just using you. I think you are letting him walk all over you.youdeserve so much better hun!i think you need to find new friends or talk to him and tell him how you feel!hope i helped!-NiCoLe-

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Natalie answered Monday December 27 2004, 9:20 pm:
I know people say this alot but it is because it is true, Tell him how you feel. Tell him that it is hard to be friends with someone who blows you off. Tell him that you really admire his friendship and don't want to loose it, but he should give you the same respect u give him.
Goodluck!!!!!!!!
~NATALIE~

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funkyfresh answered Monday December 27 2004, 8:54 pm:
hmm actually he is the jerk you are being too nice (sorry i had to say that!) you should tell him how you feel and if he doesnt care he isnt much of a friend! srry!
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grape answered Monday December 27 2004, 7:40 pm:
well its klike every 1 says just get PAY BACK. the only reason i said this is becauseno u shouldn't let him walk all over you and this and that. 'cause he's going to keep doing it. so just do the same thing he is doing to u.:hope i helped:rate please:good luck:stop by my inboxxxxx:GRAPE:

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AdInA answered Monday December 27 2004, 4:58 pm:
he is probably using you! find a better friend because this one doesn't seem so loyal. yeah he may be there for you, when he doesn't have the "popular" people around. to me, that sounds pathetic and selfish.

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Chriso61o answered Monday December 27 2004, 4:44 pm:
why dont you start liek cuttiong him off on the phone and like make up excuses to make him feel ditched..i know that sounds really childish but hes bein a bitch and really is immature for ignoring someone who suposibly is close to him

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Monday December 27 2004, 2:33 pm:
You are letting him push you around. Which isnt cool you need to stick up for yourself. Why would you let him do that to you? I mean you just need to tell him you feel like your just a leftover. When he has noone better to do something with he'll be cool with you. You needa tell him because you shouldnt have to continue with this crap. Nobody should treat anybody like that. SOrry-trix (plz rate)

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ballerina04 answered Monday December 27 2004, 2:06 pm:
go talk to him. tell him how he makes you feel..maybe he doesn't realize what he's doing, as bad as that sounds. if he keeps it up, you might want to ditch him. you deserve better than someone treats you poorly.

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ShrtJumpr123 answered Monday December 27 2004, 1:25 pm:
tell him how u feel!! ya no afense but from how it sounds u let him walk all over u! im not try'n to be mean cause i'm the same way!!! srry! Happy Holidays, hope i helped!!!

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crimsontidebabe answered Monday December 27 2004, 1:13 pm:
well, you need to talk to him.... he may not relise that you feel that way, but you dont need to act like hes mean when you talk to him.......just tell him your feelings, but dont mention just the bad things, tell him what you like about being his friend first and then tell him your worrys and then conclude your conversation with someother reasons y you like him as a friend. its called the sandwhich affect, and you use it when you need to tell someone bad news or worries. the good news is the top, the bad news in the middle and more good news at the bottom......see its a sandwhich! lol!

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cRaZyInLoVe6748 answered Monday December 27 2004, 1:12 pm:
guys can be jerks sometimes. and i think you need to tell him that you don't like to be walked on. don't let a guy treat you like that. a guy shouldn't treat a girl like that and you need to tell him you don't like him doing that to you. but don't do anything that could ruin your relationship like be to pushy. you've done good so far, but tell him you don't like what he's doing and i hope everything works out. i hope i helped!
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