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spoiled friends
aarrrgg!! okay i kno this is wrong but it makes me sooo mad! okay so i am an only shild and everyone thinks that yea i am spoild but im not! my parents work soo hard to make shua im not spoild that i barley get anything! i mean they give me the basics you knoe clothes shelter and food. well i always have to save up my own money for anything that i want. like last summer i wanted a trampoline so i worked really hard and i save up money and bought my trampoline. well my best friend saw that i got one so she asked her parents to get her one and they did! well yea i was disappointed cuz i worked really hard and she just had to ask for it. this went on when i saved up for my cell phone and this really cute sweat shirt and with designer bags and everything!! aarrgg!!! why is everyone soo spoild! idk i prolly sound like a brat but i feel like im being cheated! and she always get the sam exact thing as me the very next week!
help me please
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i know where you're coming from!! i hate it when people never have to work for anything, they just get it handed to them. it drives me crazy that people just toss around mommy and daddy's money like its nothing. Kudos to you for working so hard for the things you really want! you go girl! keep up the hard work, you'll go far in life!
oh, and dont let your friends get on your nerves. just tell yourself "they are spoiled brats and i will one day be more successful than them." just remember that their only job skill will be the ability to say "Would you like fries with that?".. anyways im done. good luck to ya ~*stefnie
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Well first of all that is awesome that you work for your own stuff casue u will enjoy what ever you buy more and you will take care of it, i am an only child too and i had to do the same thing. As far as the friends gettin stuff just like yours, for one they see you have it and they want it and its like they wanna be like you or have what you have. I know its frustrating that all they have to do is ask for it but you won't really relise why your parents are doing that to you till you are older cause they are instilling a very vauluable quality that is way too hard to teach when people get older.
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you should be proud they all like your taste! (hehe) well for one you can confront them.. they are all jelous of you! you should tell them that they get everything they want with the snap of their fingers and life doesnt work that way you have to save up for wat you want that way you will enjoy it more!
((x o ♥ Michelle))
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its only bc your friend sees the real nice things that you have and she wants it or you never know that you might be her role model bc some people that has role models often wants to get the exact same thing they have.:hope i helped:rate please:try to talk to your parents more/bonding:talkto your friend about whatshe is doing:stop by my inboxxxx any time:GRAPE:
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you should be happy with what you got. i understand you would like to have the things others have, but you have to understand not everyone is as lucky as others. some day you will have alot, and you will totally deserve it because you won't take it for granted like others would. there isn't anything you can do about your friend.. you can't stop her from wanting things.
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your prob gonna be the only one out of them who will be disaplined when your older and have to pay for yourself. Theyre prob gonna get itno the habit of always askign theyre parents for things even when there 30 and they wont be able to supoort themselves...im not a only child but my mom does the same thing to me and ive learned to manage my money so much b eter and trust me it will help you
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hon my bff for life had the same problem with this girl!!!and this girl always got everthing she wanted but all she did was copy my bff!!!! and my bff was so disturbed!!!! but the other girl got what she deserved later!! hope i helped happy new year 2005
(((indeed2)))
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Ehh just make sure they noe you save up :) its need to rubbed in their faces that you arent spoiled and they are. ANd that you work hard. When they are over make sure your mom brings up the fact that "o ya "lucy" saved up for this" rub it in there face. Plus im pretty proud of ya. You saved up for a tramp? dang!! thats awesome!! plz rate! (trix)
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Well this person you are talking about is probable going to end up getting everything she wont but when she becomes older she wont get all that. But you work hard and you get the job done. You will be able to get anything you wont because youcan work. She cant work because she never has worked at anything before. People will look up to you because you get the job done. You should just feel good that you got it for yourself.
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You need to stp worrying about other people and worry about your self!! You don't sound spoild any way you sound selfish and jelouse!! maybe your parents just wont you to work hard cause they wont you to be secsesful when you grow up!!! I mean when you grow up you have to relie on yourself not on other people!! When you grow up you can't go around asking people for things and just get it!! You have to work hard, and if you don't you will end up on the streets!! Hope I helped!! Happy Holidays!!!
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How can you enjoy the things you have when you spend all your time worring about what others have? You don't sound spoild, you sound selfish. Stop wasting your energy worring about what others have, it's pointless and doesn't matter. Enjoy and appreciate what you have, that's what's importaint.
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