Im the girl who asked about the tanning lotions...ive heard about the accelerators...but do you know anything about the ones with bronzers in them? I wanted to try those but im a little afraid that it might make me look really fake. Any pointers?
the bronzers just make you darker but they can leave streaks if there is something on your skin that they do not react well with or if your skin doesn't take well to them. if you try one try it where no one will really see it to make sure that it will be ok with your skin. but more times then not the bronzers will just make u a lil darker but remember the bronzer does wash off in the shower. i use bronzers and like i have no problems wut so ever and i prefer a bronzer
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I want to start going tanning at this major tanning salon near my house. Im having a problem with the lotions tho. The tanning salon has tons of lotions but theyr all expencive. They reccomend California Tan lotions but does anyone recomend others or like California Tan the best.
thanks.
California Tan is a good lotion but the key is to find a lotion that you like. They are lotions that are bronzers, tinglers and accelorators. I know at my tanning place we sell samples of lotions and we change what we sample so that way people can find one they like. I would recomend trying the samples and seeing which ones you like. Stay away from the tingelers for a while untill you get comfortable with tanning. Try an accelorator and see how that goes. Also read the lables on the bottles because there are some things in the lotions that some people don't react very well with. One other thing is that pretty much all lotions have a smell to them and that is something else ypu want to take into consideration. I could go on for days about this but if u want to ask more questions and get more into detail leave a message for me with your email and i will be more than willing to get into detail and help u pick the right one.
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Well i'm a 16 year old girl, whose pretty,fun,and popular and I have alot of friends.But there is a problem that most people don't really see as a problem;i'm italian.Not everyone at my school, but a group of people constantly make jokes to me about my heritage.It all started on the first week on school when we had to write a paper about ourselfs (favorites,ethnic background,religion,ect.) so people could get to know us.well i put in there I was italian,and right after the class these girls came up to me and asked if my dad was in the mafia!what the hell is that about?no body has any respect now adays,and i guess it has to do with shows like the gottis and the sopranos(even tho i love them!) who give people the impression ALL italian-americans are like that,and that all italian-americans have dads like tony soprano.what should I do to get rid of this stigma and situation?thanks alot and I'll rate u a 5 if u don't act all bitchy about it!=)
I know how you are feeling because i am mexican and i get all the steryo types for being mexican and get called a beaner and wetback. The best thing to do is ignore them becuase they are very immature. Don't let it get to you too much because they are gettin the best of you if they see it bothering you. The thing that would make them mad and possibly stop is if u laugh when they tell the jokes because if they see you laughing too then they know they have to find something else to try to bring you down and most people like that aren't smart enough nor do they want to find something else about you to try to make fun of. Keep your head up and be happy!
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People are always saying not to do anything until you're totally and fully ready. Well, my boyfriend is ready to finger me and I want him to and i want to be ready but like..how can i become ready?
You don't sound like you are mentaly ready to do it yet. When you are you will know, you can't make yourself become ready, its either you are or you aren't. Some guys will tell the girl and some won't it just depends on the guy and it depends on if you want to move or not when he is going to cum, those type of things you can't really plan, well you can but, its just personal preference and also depends on the situation cause you might not be able to move.
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hi, uhhh its kinda hard to talk about this but, I dont know what to tell my boifriend, I mean he asked me if I was a virgin or not n i keep aboiding the question, you see when I was 13 I was rapped, what should I tell my boifrien? should I lie or tell him the truth, do you think it will effect the relationship?
thanks so much (I rate well!!!) HaLeY
The best thing to do is tell him the truth. If it is too hard for you to talk about with him then tell him that you don't want to talk about it and that its nothing personal but it is a touchy subject and if he truly cares about you he will not ask you about it any more and then one day when you feel comoftable with talkin about it you can tell him. It shouldn't effect your realtionship with him except for the fact he my be more compasionate towards you.
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Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne
You and your husband should sit down with your son and talk to him about what happen and find out the details of how they got to that point and if that was the first time or if it had happen before, but don't be quick to punish him because if it wasn't his idea or wasn't the one that started it he was more of a victim in a sence. If he was the one that "made the move" then you should have a talk with him about that kind of stuff and inform him about the responsiblities that come with sex so that way he will atleast have a basic understanding. But you and your husband also need to sit down with the girl and find out what is going on so that way you have both sides of the story plus i am sure she is not at easy with getting caught doing that to your son. In all though you need to sit down and talk with both of them and get all the facts and then decide what you feel the best course of action is.
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ok i know this was stupid of me but i told my boyfriend that i have had sex with 3 guys but ive really only had sex with 1 and it was a long time ago and he was really small so im still really tight down there. im afraid hes going to be disappointed because im really tight and hes gonna have to go slow at first. what should i do? or will he care that im tight? please help
He won't be disapointed about it at all. He will probably notice that it is a little tight to begin with but after that he won't. As far as doing anything, don't do anything just take it as it comes and don't worry about being tight and just enjoy it.
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ok, the other night, I stayed the night with my best guy friend. We have been flirting and hugging and things like that with no problem. But then we were laying together and we were doing a little rubbing and touching on eachother and then I started feeling weird like I...or we did something wrong?? I dont know why either....does any one know why that might be?
You didn't do anything wrong unless you say it was wrong. The weirdness is from the fact that he is your best guy friend and it sounds like you haven't done anything like that before so it is new to you and the whole feeling makes you think about it and you are trying to figure out what those feelings are. Don't let it stress you out though. Let things kinda settle and then see how you feel about it in a few days a and then you will be able to understand a little more why u felt weird and what you are going to do now. And if all else fails and you are willing and want to know how he feels about it you can talk to him, but i would use that as a last resort cause that can make things akward.
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How can you advice me if i have a steady single boyfriend and still have a relationship with a married man. Please i need advice!
You are going to have to pick one. But the thing is you need to look at each realtionship. If you don't wanna be with your boyfriend then get rid of him cause taht ain't cool that you are cheating on him. The whole married thing is a little tricky. If he is gonnna leave his wife and like be with you and only you then u shuold kinda chill with it until he gets everything done. But if you are just a little something on the side for him then you should get out of that and be single and just have fun.
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I am sexually frustrated. I havent gotten any kind of pleasure in over 6 months, when I dated my ex bf chris. Ever since he and I broke up all I have done is kiss guys, only 1 guy. I am really horRny and I need a guy. Idk why I feel this way. Is there something wrong with me? I have not has sex yet, but I love kissing and I love oral even more. I have only ever done everything but sex with one guy and that was chris. So its not like I am a slut. I just want plesure from a guy. Is there something wrong with me? I have this really good friend and he and I are best friends and we always kiss when we are with eachother and we feel eachother up and we have talked about getting closer and more physical but we havent and we both want too. How can I take the next step so that we do? I just reallly wanna have sex! Or oral or something! Even just kissing!
There isn't anything wrong with you. If you and your friend are willing then just go for it. You want and need some and he is a guy and i am sure he will be more than willing to do whatever also. Make the first move to let him know that its all good and i am sure things will go on from there.
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I thought that my now ex-boyfriend didn't like me any more so i broke up with him but I still really liked him. Then I went to a party and he was there and we really didn't talk to eachother untill they played the first slow song and he came up and just grabbed my hand and pulled me to the dance floor and we started slow dancing. Then when that song was over i was just like okay... but then they played Alicia Keys "if i aint got u" and so we kept dancing and he looked me in the eyes and was like i still love you and i was like i love you too... and then everyone started counting down for the new year and before it was 12:00 he kissed me and was like "last kiss of 2004" and then when it turned 12:00 he kissed me and was like "and first kiss of 2005" and i felt like it was my first kiss all over again. But later when i talked to him he was like I think we should wait a while before we go back out because I always just come back to you... but the thing is that i really really love him and i want to get him back now... what should i do to show him how much i love him and for him to ask me back out... should i just ask him out? before i broke up with him we had been dating for 5 months... i don't know what to do I'm so confused
Well it sounds like that he still has feelings for you. But he asked you to wait which means that he is not totally sure if he wants to go back out with you. I know you really love him and everything but it seems like he needs a little time to work things out for himself and to be honest with you that is better for you. That may sound weird but if he has the time to think things over and is able to make the descision that he feels is in yours and his best interest. Sometimes when you go off the emotions of the moment bad things can happen. You told him that you love him and you know maybe dropping a few, be sparing with them, more of those around him at the right time will let him know that you love him and it can also help you with getting him back if that is infact what he wants also.
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I want to have sex with my boyfriend but he doesn't even live in my state and i love him but im only 16 and idk if he'll cheat on me if i dont have sex with him im worried he'll cheat but i love him withall my heart and i think im ready i just dont wanna get pregnant or stds...help.
You may want to have sex with him but it sounds like you want to do it so he doesn't cheat on you and that is not a good reason to have sex with him. The diffrent state/long distance thing is a very sticky situation because you will both meet new people and sometimes feelings come up and things change plus you are 16 and you still have a long time in front of you. If you do end up doing it make sure you use a condom it will help reduce the risk of you gettin pregnant.
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Ok I have a question?? I was at this party... and this guy was there and he waited until I was all messed up. I fell asleep and he woke me up and all the sudden I feel an arm goin around me! He wouldn't stop touching me when I told him to. I tried to move but he wouldn't let me! I told my friend and stuff and then I talked to his girlfriend about it and she doesn't believe me!! And then a couple days later I found out he was labeled as a sex offender before!! I wouldn't let anyone call the police cuz I didn't want to get involved in that! Now,to tell you he was 20 and I am 15 and the sick part is he was like my brother, he was a family friend and was always there for me. Tell me how come I miss him and still cry about what happened. Will someone please tell me what to do and I rate high! THANKS
You need to sit down with your parents and tell them what happen and then you should go to the police about it. Even though you may not want to get involved in the whole police thing but he has done this before and it is very likly that he will do it again and next time it could be someone close to you and i know you wouldn't want that to happen. When it comes to sexual crimes it is hard for the victum to come foward for diffrent reasons but it is best if they do so that way they can hopefully hold that person responsible and make that person pay for their crime plus it will protect others from a repeat of what happen to them. Also the police will be able to help you with counsling if you would like. In all its your choice but the right one would be to say something to people that can help.
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Do any of yew have a 6 pack??? If so what did yew do to get it and how long did it take. I really want to get a six pack withen a few months. By the way Im not like fat so I duno how long it would take and what I should do? Please write back...Thanks!!!
Well there are multiple things that you are going to have to do to get it and retain it. One is that you are going to need to change your diet. You are going to have to eat proper, that doesn't mean you can't have the bad things once in a while but just make sure you cut back. Two is that you are going to do some type of cardeo in order to get rid of some of that extra fat. And finally you are going to need to do sit-ups. Those are going to help develop your abs and give you that look that you want. But you need to work all 3 together in order to make it work and as far as the whole time thing it depends on how hard you are willing to work and how well you stick to to those 3 things.
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ok, well....for the basics..I have had sex with 2 different people in my entire life (and to make things worse, they tell people i did it with them like a WHOLE BUNCH!!!) , and now all of this persons friends call me a slut and say im sloppy seconds (because, i am now dating ther friend.)And, Im going to have to go to school with all these people next year...sooo, basically what im asking is how do i get these people to stop calling me names? I rate HIGH!!! please HELP!
You can't get them to stop calling you names but what you can do is be the bigger and better person about the whole thing. For one all the ones that are calling you those names are probably jealous cause they did not have the oppertunity plus they are very immature. Keep your head up high and try not to let them get to you because when someone actually asks them why they are calling you a slut they are going to sound like dorks cause they have nothing to say other then well someone told me and in the end they look like the idiots they are. So in the end just ignore them and keep a smile on your face cause that will piss them off because then they know its not bothering you and they are more likly to stop.
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How do you get over a hangover?
Drink a beer. If that doesn't work then take advil or something like that, drink water and get some rest. Everyones recovery for a hang over is diffrent and it just dpends on your type. TO avoid future hang overs eat food that will absorb the alcohol in your stomch.
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I have alot of guy friends that are juniors and seniors and i have been asked to prom a few times....but see, im only a sophmore...Do you think its ok to go that young or should i wait and let it be more special?
You should go for sure. Everytime you go to prom it is going to be diffrent. Also you can think of it as a way for your prom to be more special because you can see what happens at the other ones and what you do and don't like so when your prom comes you can remember that stuff and make yours even better. Go for it have a good time and enjoy yourself!
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My dog is going on ten (thats like around 70 in human years) he's always been kinda weird but I love him so much. He's on medication because he's a shar pei and has a short attention span and stuff. His meds are kinda like the add medication for dogs. Anyways he also has seizures. He doesn't get them to often but when he does they scare me a lot. To top it all off about a month or two ago he has to have a tumor removed from his left armpit so that he wouldn't die. Recently we've noticed its come back on the other leg. The vet can't do anything about it and he's going to die. I don't know how I'll survive without him. I've known this dog since I was like 4 and can't remember not having him. Please help me to figure out what to do when he is gone. I no I'll miss him a lot.
I know what you are going through because i had a dog for 16 years, i had him since i was 4, and we had to end up puttin him down. The best thing is to remember the good times you had with your dog and how you watched him grow over the years. Also be happy for him becuase he will in a better place when he is gone and he will not sufer anymore. If you have pictures i would put them in like a photo album so that way when you wanna see him all you have to do is pull it out and look. It's always hard to lose a pet you have had for that long because they are not just a pet they are part of your family but remember the good times and that should help you through it.
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me and my girl are realy close but lately about 3 other girls have been hitten on me. including like my best friend. i dont know how 2 let them down couse ive told them i have a girl
Well since you told them that you already have a girl then there isn't really anything else you can say other than just keep telling them that. Hopefully one day they will get the clue and they will stop but until then you are probably gonna end up sounding like a broken record for a while.
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Alright me and my ex are really close and we talk about having sex alot...I mean all the time..I feel ready and I think Im ready...I'm only 14...He is 15...I have never hasd sex before and I'm not sure if I should wait or what I should do??? I mean he doesnt push me into anything and never has and never will... Will someone give me some advice on what to do???
If you are not sure then you are truly not ready. And it would not be a very good idea to have sex with your ex. You are 14 and you have a long time ahead of you so just slow down there and wait. There will be a time when you know it feels right to have sex with soomeone and when that time comes that is when you shuold do it
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