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guy problems... kinda long
I thought that my now ex-boyfriend didn't like me any more so i broke up with him but I still really liked him. Then I went to a party and he was there and we really didn't talk to eachother untill they played the first slow song and he came up and just grabbed my hand and pulled me to the dance floor and we started slow dancing. Then when that song was over i was just like okay... but then they played Alicia Keys "if i aint got u" and so we kept dancing and he looked me in the eyes and was like i still love you and i was like i love you too... and then everyone started counting down for the new year and before it was 12:00 he kissed me and was like "last kiss of 2004" and then when it turned 12:00 he kissed me and was like "and first kiss of 2005" and i felt like it was my first kiss all over again. But later when i talked to him he was like I think we should wait a while before we go back out because I always just come back to you... but the thing is that i really really love him and i want to get him back now... what should i do to show him how much i love him and for him to ask me back out... should i just ask him out? before i broke up with him we had been dating for 5 months... i don't know what to do I'm so confused
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first let me start off by saying that what he did was really sweet. and now to answer your question.. i think that if you really care about him, and it seems like you do, then i would just ask him out and im sure he will say yes! hope i helped and please rate me!
-ashley
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Sounds like you have found prince charming and you're his princess. That sounds like a magical night and if I were you, I wouldn't throw that all away. Since you were the one that broke up with him, you should be the one to make the move. Tell him you want to restart up the relationship again because you really love him. He was probobly upset when you ended the relationship but it really sounds like it's meant to be. Communication is the key to love. Talk to him about your feelings, why you ended things, why you want to get back together and what plans you have for the future. I wish you the best of luck and if you ever need any more advice, feel free to ask me a question directly at my column. iCY iS ALWAYS LiSTENiNG <3
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well.. the best way to get a guys attention is a head/hand job.. that alway shows us how much you love us.. otherwise.. just give him time.. he aint sure if he is ready to give you two another go... but if he loves you deep down.. he will come to you :)
hope this helps :)
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It's obvious! He still loves you. But what you both need is a little time. You both need to relax. I mean, you broke up a while back and want to get together again. You both need time to think. That's what all this is about. I think you should wait until he asks you out because you don't want to sound forward and desperate. Wait, because that makes you look like a great person. If you wait, he'll come to you soon and ask you out... again. Didn't he say that on the dance floor at the New Years Party? Don't ask him out... again (LOL) because it makes you seem rushing and impatient and trust me, that's not how you want your reputation to be. LOL. Just wait. He loves you. You love him. It'll be fine. Hope I helped. Best of luck.
~~~Kayla~~~
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Well it sounds like that he still has feelings for you. But he asked you to wait which means that he is not totally sure if he wants to go back out with you. I know you really love him and everything but it seems like he needs a little time to work things out for himself and to be honest with you that is better for you. That may sound weird but if he has the time to think things over and is able to make the descision that he feels is in yours and his best interest. Sometimes when you go off the emotions of the moment bad things can happen. You told him that you love him and you know maybe dropping a few, be sparing with them, more of those around him at the right time will let him know that you love him and it can also help you with getting him back if that is infact what he wants also.
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if you want to know...just sit down and talk to him. tell him how you feel and how it felt when he kissed you. for all you know he could have felt the same way but wasnt completely sure of how you felt.
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I wouldnt ask him out i would just talk about it some more. I mean if he thinks he is always coming back to you he obviously likes you. I would just talk to him about it or if you want to jump to things then ask him out!-trix
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It's hard to love someone who's making you wait for them. My advice is, make him wait a little too, play hard to get and stuff, make him want you. That way, he might ask you out, or it will just speed up the "waiting" process. I think that whole story is really sweet by the way, brings tears to my eyes in fact. But anyways, to show how much you love him, maybe you could give him a cute little gift, nothing fancy, but just something to show you're thinking about him. Maybe just a simple card that says, "I miss you..." that would be really cute. Anything to get his attention and make him want you. I hope that you guys get back together, don't be confused, things will work out, just watch. I hope I helped. Good luck and please keep me posted? -Angel
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