|
Alright, I broke up with my ex that I had been with for 7 months, I really loved him but We both changed and we barely saw eachother and yeah I broke up with him. And i'm seeing this new guy that is amazing and wonderful and everything my old boyfriend wasen't....it's been 3 months but...when I heard that he made out with one of my friends I completely freaked out, I just dont understand why I'm feeling this way. Please Help -Adrianna 14 f.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
wow! hurt feelings ! have you talked to your friend? talk to her you really need to! and if she doesn't care about your feelings then leave her and go with the guy definitly if you broke up with him you shouldn't be feeling how you are but just talk to your friend and talk to your x
]
OMG! Friends should totally not do that to each other. I mean, that's just the rules of feminism! Anyway, the reason you feel like this is because you still have feelings for him and believe me, every girl that my ex kissed, had sex with, or made out with, I hated. I hated ANY girl that he loved. Because I was jealous. That's all it is. You still love your new boyfriend but you still have feeligs for your old one! That's all it is, dear. Luv ya! XOXO
~~~Kayla~~~
]
jealousy. i'm goin' through it right now sort of. me and my boyfriend just broke up, and i'm afraid of him going to another girl but i can't control that, and you can't either. it's kind of natural because you might still have little feelings for him, but it's kinda normal so don't let it bother you. hope that helps! =)
]
I understand how you feel. The same kind of thing happened to me. When you break up with someone, even if you're positive you don't want to be with them anymore, you still don't want to think about them being with anyone else. Espcially if that someone is one of your friends who knows how you used to feel about you ex.
You also said that your new guy is everything you ex wasn't, that was the same with me. It might be that you're missing some of the qualities that your ex has but your new boyfriend doesn't have. You might even miss the things you didn't like about him.
I don't really believe that you ever fall out of love, you always care for people who've loved. You just forget what it felt like to love that person, or become distracted with someone else's love. The best way to forget is to not talk to you ex, and not mention him aorund your friend. If she wants to bring it up, let her, but don't talk about him too long. It'll just hurt. It took me a long time to learn that.
I hope this helped, good luck! :)
-Carissa
]
you have every reason to be angry or stressed or w/e... he made a huge mistake to do that. dont act totally mad because you still want him as yer friend rite? just dont act the same way you used to towards him.. make it obvious that yer not happy with him & wait for him to apologize if you want to still be friends.
]
The reason why you are feeling like that is because you are hurt and confused. Noone wants to feel like that. Just sit down with him and talk to him about it. Do the same with your friend-trix
]
More Questions: |