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ok, well my friend got raped by her dad and is abused. I dont know if he does it alot, or if he did it just once, but still, my friend is in deep shit if she dosent tell anyone. Fortunatly she told me cause we're really close, but she didnt tell the social worker *she was adopted* cause she said she dosent want her world to turn upside down and change. She told me to keep it as a secret and when she told me i was half asleep *i'm awake now* so i promised i wouldnt tell anyone that could arrest him or anything. Should i tell my parents and make her suffer but have her world the way it is and how she wants it to be? or should i break my promise to my friend and tell my parents? Please help, it's a big problem! i'll rate high!
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i know you want to keep your friends secret but you need to tell someone. it's not fair to your friend that she is being raped and abused. i know she may be mad at first but when she is older and looks back on it she will be so glad that you were there to tell someone and save her. things could get worst as she gets older so it's better if you tell someone right away.i think also that since she was adopted its even more important to tell someone. her father may try to adopt another child once she is old enough to move out and he may rape and abuse that child as well.
i hope i helped
~dejaune~
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I was a competative cheerleader for 5 years, but I was forced to quit in January 'cus my coach dropped me in tumbling and I broke my knee. Well, I just made my middle school squad and our camp is at the gym I used to cheer at and the coach that dropped me is coaching my squad the routine. The coach is real jerk and is constantly mean to me since we quit when he dropped me. How do I get thru the week with him goin out of his way to make me miserable? *Ill rate* (link)
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in my opinion i think you should just go out there and give it your all. if that coach is a real jerk its because they're jealous of you. i mean come on you broke your knee & you're goin out there and cheering that says a lot since you have to use your knee a lot in cheeraleading.
hope i helped
~pigletz_boo~
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Hey! ok there is this boy that i really really like. his name is Tom. we have chorus together. Half my friends tell me he likes me and then other people say he doesn't. I saw him and my friend Mike walking outside in our courtyard going to their next class. Which was Chorus for Tom. Then i came out and Mike was like go out with her Tom just go up to her and ask her out its not that hard and Tom started to blush and was laughing and smiling. Then in chorus all my friends needed help on this worksheet. I helped my friend Nick, then my friend Emliy and then i was helping my friend Julia and i was looking at her paper and i looked up out of the corner of my eye and i saw him staring at me. i have caught him staring at me several times. We always look at each other and when the other one looks we turn away. Then about 2 or 3 people say he doesn't like me. Then sometimes i also get the feeling he doesn't like me. I dont know what to think. What should i do? (link)
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the way yall act around each other tells a lot and from what you've said i think he likes you a lot. you should get one of your good friends *that you trust* to ask him and go from there
~Pigletz_boo~
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I thought that my now ex-boyfriend didn't like me any more so i broke up with him but I still really liked him. Then I went to a party and he was there and we really didn't talk to eachother untill they played the first slow song and he came up and just grabbed my hand and pulled me to the dance floor and we started slow dancing. Then when that song was over i was just like okay... but then they played Alicia Keys "if i aint got u" and so we kept dancing and he looked me in the eyes and was like i still love you and i was like i love you too... and then everyone started counting down for the new year and before it was 12:00 he kissed me and was like "last kiss of 2004" and then when it turned 12:00 he kissed me and was like "and first kiss of 2005" and i felt like it was my first kiss all over again. But later when i talked to him he was like I think we should wait a while before we go back out because I always just come back to you... but the thing is that i really really love him and i want to get him back now... what should i do to show him how much i love him and for him to ask me back out... should i just ask him out? before i broke up with him we had been dating for 5 months... i don't know what to do I'm so confused (link)
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if you want to know...just sit down and talk to him. tell him how you feel and how it felt when he kissed you. for all you know he could have felt the same way but wasnt completely sure of how you felt.
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