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relationship with a married man
How can you advice me if i have a steady single boyfriend and still have a relationship with a married man. Please i need advice!
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I would go with the one that treats you right,the one who makes you happy, and the one you love more
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End your relationship with the married man.
First of all, think about the man's wife. Even if he thinks she is horrible, or whatever, she's still a human being and you are a party to hurting her and ruining her life.
Second, if he is the type of person to cheat on his wife, what would stop him from cheating on you? Maybe he has another girlfriend besides you? Love means nothing to someone like him. If he had any respect for you or cared for you at all, he would have ended his marriage before getting involved with you.
Third, think about what you are doing to your boyfriend. You are cheating on him as well. That's a horrible thing to do to someone that may not deserve it.
It's not too late. You can stop hurting all these people. I would actually suggest you break up both relationships and be on your own for a while. Think about what your life is all about. Think about what you can turn around to do right in your life.
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You are going to have to pick one. But the thing is you need to look at each realtionship. If you don't wanna be with your boyfriend then get rid of him cause taht ain't cool that you are cheating on him. The whole married thing is a little tricky. If he is gonnna leave his wife and like be with you and only you then u shuold kinda chill with it until he gets everything done. But if you are just a little something on the side for him then you should get out of that and be single and just have fun.
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your having an affiar? thats not g0od. decdide which one you want, cant have both sorry
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hmm well the most advice I can give you is to make your decision on which one you love the most, I mean it's bad enough you're having an affair but.. you should make your decision and try and not make a jerry springer scene out of it
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Umm.. Get out of the relationship with the steady boyfriend or else ditch the married man, Isn't that ignorant to both of them?
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wow... you are an idoit. do you seriously need to ask advice about this? its so obvious. If you love your husband at all you would tell your boyfriend it had to stop.
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What sort of advice do you want? What you are doing is morally wrong in every conceivable way. You are showing no respect for your boyfriend, you are risking the future of a family (the guy´s) and you are living a lie. Think about it, whatever you think you have with your bf is meaningless because relationships are (or should be) based on trust. Whatever you have with that guy is short term unless he is planning to divorce his wife for you. Then, even if he does divorce her, how long will that last- until one of you finds another person to cheat with? In my opinion if your bf means anything at all to you, you owe it to him to either break up with him or come clean. Just remember the more you hide from him, the more your relationship is a lie, and the more angry he will be if he finds out.
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You shouldnt do that
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Advice about what? Thats a very general question...figure out who treats you better and end it with the other person.
~Anjela
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