For the past 6 weeks of school, my best friend that I just met this year (let's callher Amy) has really been acting funny. I know it's because she started her period, but It seems odd that she's been so mean and nasty to everybody for the past 6 weeks in a row (usually your period doesn't last that long..). ALL of my other friends (C, A, A, C, and me) have noticed it too! She speaks for all of us when she tells people off.. telling them that we hate them, don't want to talk to them, and wish that they were dead. She tells me what I'm supposed to be and how I'm supposed to do it. She tells me all of this beauty stuffI'm supposed to do which works for her but I try it at her house and when I get home I get a bad, bad, bad allergic reaction to it (almond oil) and she KNOWS that I am dreadfully alergic to nuts. She always talks about how much her clothes cost and how she thinks that her way is always best. We try to talk to her and she still keeps doing all of these things. I've stood up for myself and my friends (all of us together) many, many times and she still won't stop being like this. What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? uhhHOWoriginal answered Tuesday January 11 2005, 7:04 pm: Ok, now to me your so called friend doesn't even sound like a friend at all. She does all of these things to you and I think you need to tell her it is over. She isn't acting like a friend should so i would just tell her i don't want to be friends anymore and for her to stop hanging around you and your friends. you all need to tell her this together so that she gets the point. Tell her that none of yall want to be her friend and she needs to leave yall alone. Once she sees that she has no more friends, maybe she will change her ways. And if she doesn't then you were better off without her. well <3 ya! hope my advice helps! [ uhhHOWoriginal's advice column | Ask uhhHOWoriginal A Question ]
AdvicebyCali answered Monday January 10 2005, 10:05 pm: Geez. SHe needs a reality check. Tell what she's doing and tell her if she doesnt stop acting this way your not going to be her friend anymore. Please rate my advice GREAT! Lol [ AdvicebyCali's advice column | Ask AdvicebyCali A Question ]
JadedinNowhere answered Monday January 10 2005, 8:06 pm: Tell her to freaking wake up. If she is really bugging you maybe you should give her a break to realize she's being a complete ass.. Maybe she is just wanting to grow up with the makeup.. and thinks she is smarting than everyone else.. assure her that she's not the only one that's got her period, and isn't the only one growing up.. You can be what you want to be, wear what you want to wear.. and you shouldn't have to hear any bullshit about it from one of your supposed 'best friend'. [ JadedinNowhere's advice column | Ask JadedinNowhere A Question ]
Cindy answered Monday January 10 2005, 4:20 pm: Chances are, the fact that she just started her period had gone to her head, like she's just too cool for you guys...i would just ignore her and see what happens, good luck [ Cindy's advice column | Ask Cindy A Question ]
Doin317 answered Monday January 10 2005, 10:04 am: You have to tell her to chill out. Gather you friends up and hold an intervention for bitch! She is not your group leader! She is not your dictator! Tell her to step back, back off, and let you lead you life the way you want to. I know you dont want to hurt her but the truth will help. [ Doin317's advice column | Ask Doin317 A Question ]
Farren answered Monday January 10 2005, 10:01 am: Uhm, don't think there's much you can do. If she isn't listening to you and your friends when you guys talk to her about it then what else is there? She's annoying and you either have to deal with it or abandon her. You hafta make the choice hun.
-Farren [ Farren's advice column | Ask Farren A Question ]
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