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okay this is semi long so i am sorry but i really want advice: my mom died when i was 3 and i went to SO MUCH counseling. family,alone you name it. i stopped around the end of 3rd grade. but now that i am a teenager i realize how much i want/need a mother figure. i have my grandmother and i love her dearly but its not the same. i try to talk to my friends but they cant really relate and i feel bad making my problems their problems. i sort of want to go back to counseling but it costs SO MUCH and i am not sure i need it....

help me please?

Go to school counseling. The counselor at your school will probably help you out pretty well.

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Hi, I am 13 going on 14 and i weigh about 106 lbs. give or take two. Is that fat? Bc i really feel fat and i feel like there is nothbing i can do.
What are some ways to lose like 10 lbs but staying healthy!
Ill rate high!
PLease Help!!!
*Overweight?*

Your not overweight at all! You actually are underweight for your age.

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John Robert Powers(a modeling agency) called my house a couple days ago and asked if i still wanted to do some modeling. I said yes and she said she wanted to do a free screening.... I have no idea what that is and was wondering if someone could explain it more to me.. thanks!

John Robert Powers is a scam. They charge you 1000's of dollars for acting classes you can take at a college for 20 dollars.

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hey im having a superbowl party and should i decorate for the patriots or the eagles..(which one of them will win) IM thinking patriots all the way but what about you guys?

Both. 1 reason is because eagles fans might rip the decorations down.

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There are 16 people (all girls) who I'm getting valentines day gifts. What should I get them? Don't make it too expensive.

Get those lil candy hearts. Those are really nice to give and yummy!

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for about the last couple of months, i have headaches everyday and they last almost all day. i feel like fainting and i get dizzy alot. i don't have much energy and i've been loosing weight recently. when i really don't need to. i'm tired all the time. butb it's not because i'm not getting enought sleep because i sleep alot. im really scared and i told my mom and she's getting me and appointment. even my boyfriend is worried. he's the one who told me to tell someone. i was just wondering if it sounded cancerous. and if it does please tell me what kind off cancer it sounds like. im really worried. please respond fast.

You should probably eat more. If you dont eat healthy filling foods a lot,
you can get dizzy and tired.

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This may seem like a random and completely dumb question to some, but I'm actually quite serious in asking this. My question is that why is it that young girls ages 12-14 and some even younger, feel that they NEED to have a boyfriend just to fit in? You girls don't understand, when your time comes to have a boyfriend, you'll find someone who will like you for you. Also, my other question is why do you feel the need to dress provocitavely, exposing your breasts, butt, and stomach just to look "sexy"? You don't need to be showing all of that to look sexy. You can be completely covered up and still look gorgeous as ever! That was just my random question for today. Any young girl that feels that way, you can feel free to answer.Thanks.

Not EVERY 12-14 year old exposes their bodies. Im not totally in to that. Yes I wear tight jeans but thats because it looks better and cleaner then wearing saggy pants. I also wear tight shirts for the same reason. I understand how you feel, but you
shouldnt steriotype people like that.
- A 12-15 year old who has feelings

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is it ok to curl ur hair with a curler when its still really wet?

I dont reccommend getting your hair fried or getting electricuted

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Hey, I'm going to a dance workshop in about a month, and I was wondering if anyone knew any stretches I could do, to maybe become more flexible.. (I don't mind yoga or pilates) If anyone's got any tips, thanks in advance!

Buy a 5 dollar yoga video at Wal-Mart. It shows how to yoga. It is really stress free. Im a serious dancer and I always stretch to get more flexible. Practice splits. But remember to do a few stretches before you do the splits,
like touch the ground and grab your feet and the butterfly. Have fun dancing!

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does anyone know any cheats for Sims 2 besides the one that gives you more money because i already know that one.ill rate u a 5 if u answer! thanks

press control shift and C down a lil typing screeen will come up. Type Motherlode. Your sims are 50,000 dollars richer!

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I have darkish olive tan skin and really...I mean REALLY dark dark brown hair. But I want to change the color. I was thinking along the lines of WHITE blonde...I am dessparate for help! I rate! Thankx!

SInce you have dark brown hair, why dont you put some white blond or red streaks in it. That would look pretty kewl because if you didnt like streaks you could always just dye your hair back the other color.

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Okay so i've liked this guy for about 4 years...he is my best friend and i know he doesn't like me because he told me. Thats fine, but the problem is, i can't seem to get over him...no matter what i do, i can't stop thinkin bout him or comparing other guys to him...does anyone have any advice?

Try to focus on another guy. Just except that he doesnt care for you. I bet a guy does care for you tho outthere. Try to find him!
Cali

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Dear Advice girl,
I just pooped my pants. I don't know what to do. Do I just sit in my own crap and let my underwear rott? Or, should I start by taking my pants off and clean my stinky butt? I am just SO confused!! But, here is the thing..I weight 452 pounds so it is kind of hard to clean things if ya know what I mean. Please help...my bottom is starting to rash up. :D

Yeah...Right...

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I've noticed my mom acting very quiet and different today. I think that shes feeling depressed. This isnt accually a thought, its obvious. I saw that she got books from the library about depression.
Anyways, Im feeling quilty myself because I feel that being the 'teenager' I havent put enough effort towards the house. I dont think thats its menopause because she's only 40. but I dontknow. Also my brother is having a baby, its not that hes too young. But maybe that its scaring her that shes going to become a grandma?

Should I be feeling Guilty? It just scares me because I dont want my mom to be depressed..

You shouldnt feel guilty at all because you did absolutely nothing. You should always help around the house, but you didnt do anything. Shes probably nervous about being Grandma and she might be stressed out from work or something. I suggest that you and your mom go spend some time together like getting your nails done or shopping, your something you both like. Just try to be there for your mom. :)
-Cali

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Hey Anna, I have a question for ya about 2 boys. This may seem complicated but here it is...Ok, there is guy that I have known my whooole life since I was 2.(If ya dont member he was a singer for a band at the bay band jam in ptown, his name is dave) anywho...we have kinda liked each other for sometime now..but he never says much about it so im thinking he dosent like me like he used to and all that crap... but when i 'date' other guys he tells me that they're worthless and blah blah blah. But he never seems to say, "ok yeah this is good guy to date" he just says bad things about them... and doesnt ever ask me out to do anyting either...EVEN his own cousin, robbie, likes me and dave STILL tells me hes not b/f material. so my question is, do you think dave likes me, or is he just being the over-protective-guy-friend sorta deal? if your confused...haha just let me know, k? Thanx- Meg

I personally think he is an overprotective guy who
just doesnt want to see you hurt. Just ignore him when he comments on your boyfriends. You dont have to hear that from him because your the one dating the guys. But I also think Dave kinda likes you. Maybe he is trying be hard to get. Tell me how it goes!
-Anna 0r Cali or whateva

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ok this is probably going to be long so I am really srry! ok I am in dance team and I really dont like the coaches, and basicly change every ruteen anyone makes. Anyway me and my friend made up and dance and today we had practice, also I didnt know that I had an eye appointment right after school so I gave the note that my mom wrote to my friend to give to the coaches. Well from wath i hear from my other fellow dance team members that they are ganna bitch at me tomorrow because they "didnt know" that I had an appointment and that the other girl didnt have the music to the ruteen. I also made 2 copies of the song incase someone didnt have theirs. Well...Today she didnt have her music and they are blaming it all on me!! is that right? and omg I just hate them!!! she had the music to and she didnt bring it! what does that give them the right to be able to bitch and me now? can someone help me plz!!! srry this was long
♥Andie

Whoa! Relax! Breath In-Breath out!
You should explain your friends why it isnt your
fault. Give them a day or two to blow it off. They should be over it by then. Im on a dance team too, and when I first started I didn't like the coaches much then I started to think they were really cool and they made me a better dancer. Dance Coaches will
change your routines because they want them to look
better and so you can all learn from it. Hope that helped! Cali!!!!!!!!!!!

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what matches? i am sooo bad at putting matching things together. its so confusing. like does light blue pants and a pink shirt match? when i wore that some people were like that doesnt match and others said it matched really wear! i just want to know some combinations that match together well! ill rate! thanks

Hears a few color combanations that match pretty well.
Light pink
Dark Green (Not bright or lime, a forest green)

Pink and yellow

blue and red

lime green and purple

Jeans with.. red orange yellow green blue purple pink white! Anything matches with jeans!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hears another hint, white looks better on darker skinned ppl, black looks good on lighter skin people.
Hope you liked my advice !*C@li*!

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ok ok, i just got my period for the first time this morning. now what! how do i know when it will come back? should i start with pads or tampons (now i'm using pads)? and ahh just please help!

thank-you!

When i got my period, I started off with pads (Which is what mostly everyone does when they first get it). I suggest you keep using pads until you get your period 3 or 4 times. Also, when you first get your period, you might not get it again for another 4 months or so. Just be prepared and have pads on hand.

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there's this guy i like and he likes me too but he wants me to sneak out to go to his house tonight and hes kinda under the impression that i'm going. but im afraid to get caught. can you help me find an excuse to "change my mind?"

Tell him that your aunt just had a baby and want to help her take care of it. Lol

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For the past 6 weeks of school, my best friend that I just met this year (let's callher Amy) has really been acting funny. I know it's because she started her period, but It seems odd that she's been so mean and nasty to everybody for the past 6 weeks in a row (usually your period doesn't last that long..). ALL of my other friends (C, A, A, C, and me) have noticed it too! She speaks for all of us when she tells people off.. telling them that we hate them, don't want to talk to them, and wish that they were dead. She tells me what I'm supposed to be and how I'm supposed to do it. She tells me all of this beauty stuffI'm supposed to do which works for her but I try it at her house and when I get home I get a bad, bad, bad allergic reaction to it (almond oil) and she KNOWS that I am dreadfully alergic to nuts. She always talks about how much her clothes cost and how she thinks that her way is always best. We try to talk to her and she still keeps doing all of these things. I've stood up for myself and my friends (all of us together) many, many times and she still won't stop being like this. What should I do?

Geez. SHe needs a reality check. Tell what she's doing and tell her if she doesnt stop acting this way your not going to be her friend anymore. Please rate my advice GREAT! Lol

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