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Out of curiosity.
This may seem like a random and completely dumb question to some, but I'm actually quite serious in asking this. My question is that why is it that young girls ages 12-14 and some even younger, feel that they NEED to have a boyfriend just to fit in? You girls don't understand, when your time comes to have a boyfriend, you'll find someone who will like you for you. Also, my other question is why do you feel the need to dress provocitavely, exposing your breasts, butt, and stomach just to look "sexy"? You don't need to be showing all of that to look sexy. You can be completely covered up and still look gorgeous as ever! That was just my random question for today. Any young girl that feels that way, you can feel free to answer.Thanks.
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I feel the same way you do...theres no need to do that to look sexy...you are who you are...and young girls should not be going around with bareky anything on....its horribe the way society makes us girls think that we have to do these things to mnake us look sexy....we can be sexy nd beautiful and gorgeous without wearing some smll shirt and short skirt and tons of makeup...I wear sweatshirt and pants...and it works good for me..i dont wear tight tight pants or short skirts or belly shirts or have my stuff hanging out..its not neccissary....and society also makes us think that if you have a boyfriend you'll be happier and prettier and have more friends and such...and young girls shouldnt een be worrying on that...i mean...whats more important...boyfriends or school and friends and fun and such...personally im more worried on y grades and school work and friends than what i look like and if im going out with anyone...i care about what college i go to and what job im going to have....and you never ever NEED to hae a boyfriend...its always you wanting to have a boyfriend and when you want it hard enough...it just seems like you NEED a boyfriend...but thats never true....you most likely will not meet the person you are going to marry in junior high or even high school....ive seen people never go out with anybody untl senior year or college....so it proves you dont need to have one..you may want one but you dont need one..thats just silly...
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True, so very true.
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i know what you mean. i think girls think they need to ware skimmpy clothes or need a boyfriend because they see it all around them. girls that are 12-14 watch tv and see it, movies have it too. they see what the people at their school are doing and think they need to have onr too from their peirs.
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Not EVERY 12-14 year old exposes their bodies. Im not totally in to that. Yes I wear tight jeans but thats because it looks better and cleaner then wearing saggy pants. I also wear tight shirts for the same reason. I understand how you feel, but you
shouldnt steriotype people like that.
- A 12-15 year old who has feelings
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i guess its because they like having a total slob around, but really, its probably beacause a popular(whore) girl in school is going out with some punk ass high school loser and they want to immitate that.
-hitler
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to tell u the truth, i have no idea!!! i agree completly with you. girls these days are becaming little machines that think that they have to look good 24/7 and what takes to look good is 20 thousand pounds of makeup, clothes 10 sizes too small, and big boobs. its horrible! im really sorry that i cant do anything about it :(
hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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Excuse me, but who are you to tell me I can't expose my breasts? I love my breasts, and I think everyone should see their beauty. I don't expose my butt though, because I don't have enough of one to expose. I've just got a bony ass.
Also, while I may not be 12-14, I don't feel the need to have a boyfriend, nor did I when I was that age.
However, I do like that you think I look sexy, even when fully covered. I appreciate that.
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I myself am 14 years old. But I don't think I NEED a boyfriend at all. I actually like being single. And it's not that you want to fit in, it's that you want someone to be there for you, someone you can cuddle with and stuff. And if I ever got a good boyfriend he would have to like me for me. :) Now, about dressing provocitavely...personally, I like to look good and feel good about myself. I like to look cute and sexy just because it makes me feel good about myself. And also there's just certain clothes that I like and that I will wear.
*Hope I helped ya figure us crazy teenage chics out! :) *
-Emmy Boo-
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normally im not trying to answer questions that will get me disliked by the asker or people that read the question but this i have to respond to. im 13 and i do not feel desired to have a boyfriend just to fit in, i desire to have one because i like having someone to care about me in a romantic way, not as a friend, or family member but someone special you can hang out with alone and mess around with; have fun with. me and all my friends are called sluts, whores, ext. but we really arent. everyone thinks because we grind, put on a large amount of eyeliner, wear camis, and like to have fun with guys means were sluts and should not be acting like this because 'were not old enough.' its all not true and people only say that because theyre jealous. yes we like to wear stuff that makes us look good, look sexy because who wants to look ugly and like someone who just throws on what ever their mom picked out for them that morning to wear. if you think people like me 'show too much skin' then deal with it. your obviously jealous because you dont like the way you look. i can act how i want to, dress how i want to, and have my own style. dont you think its about time for you to start getting a little more worried about what you look like and a little less worried about what other people look like? trust me, its time hun.
((steph/13/f))
well it seems like someone needs to take a look in the mirror because you dont need to be concerned about how i look or anyone else. back off and stop telling me the right way to dress.
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hmm this doesn't really sound like a question.it sounds more like you lecturing. "why do YOU feel the need to dress provocitavely".. "YOU don't need to be showing all of that". You sound like you're assuming that EVERYONE is like that and you're talking down to them. Not everyone dresses like that. I guess they are just into looking a different way. Maybe they like attention from guys, don't see anything wrong with that. I understand you're point, but it's hard growing up, and i feel for those 13 year old girls trying to find their place and fit it. Anyways, I do get what you're saying and i know it can be pretty annoying when girls who look 10 act like 16 year old.. but who cares, let them.
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Personally i think your heavily stereo typing and i dont like it. You make girls sound like they are brittany spears dressers and serious sluts. I dont usually see girls in that age group exposing breasts and other various parts. Although i agree on some parts that girls should wait for a guy that sees him for herself..but i can also see where girls get lonely and just want a guy. You made a couple good points but i dont agree about the sexy dressing part. Where do you see girls of that age group dressing like that? If you ask me ..i see that kind of dressing more in the older age groups. Just my opinion..putting in my two cents.
-melissa-
PS you asked for what we thought and when i told you my opinion you had the nerve to rate a 3..just because we dont agree?
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well i am going on 16. i feel sort of the same way. I dont think i need a boyfriend to fit in. I don't think girls should depend on a person, they should depend on themselves. boyfriends are just nice things to have. Dressing provocatively is just something common to the age group. Experimenting with what they can get away with. Trying to figure out what makes guys 'tick', how to get them to like you. clearly, dressing that way is NOT the way, that only attracts the type of guys you DONT want, they just have to figure it out themselves.
... hope i helped!
KaJabbers
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Well, personally I want a boyfriend bc I haven't had one yet and it makes you wonder if something's wrong with you. And what do u care how people dress? If you have that nice stomach why not show it? Stop worrying about what other people doing and focus on urself.
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ok i don't think girls my age want a bf to fit in they want a bf cause most feel that they are ready for one... and i agreed with u that we do dress provocitavely and i do think that ur right we should cover up, but people dress how they want to dress
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It boost up your confidence, you want other people to like you, and you want to be popular. There is probably other reason why girls do it.
<33 Brit
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i agree with the exposing everything part.
but on the wanting to have a boyfriend,
i know that I want a boyfriend more than anything.but not to fit in. by having a boyfriend, you know that someone is there who you can rely on and trust and can make everything seem okay. but maybe thats just me
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I feel the exact same way as you do. I'm glad i'm not the only one who feels this way. I think its ridiculous for young girls to be dressing so trashy. Hopefully the slutty style will fade away, and dressing classy will come back in style
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that was tru but not a question
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Well said. I agree completely with EVERYthing you just said.
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